is it normal to not like it when other girls are around the guy you like???
Of course its normal. Its hard watching the boy you like flirt with someone else, but it will be easier if you told him how you feel instead of getting mad at every person you see him with, try it out. tell him how you feel and maybe he feels the same when he sees you with guys.
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I'm glad I can let this out and no one will know who I am or bug me about it, but I really need someone to talk to. I've been broken for years upon years, my elementary school life was alright yet I always seemed to be the loner kid who did stupid things to get attention yet was never acknowledged. When I changed schools, it made me sad that the card I had received from my classmates was only made because we do that to everyone who goes away, that the words they said to me were false and untrue. In my new school, the very first day I was tormented and they hit me with carrots at lunch time and beat me up in recess. During lunch time wen i went to the washroom they emptied out my backpacks contents in the schoolyard and burried my pencils and stuff from my pencil case in the sand box. My closest girlfriend, the last one I had and my second was someone I really loved and was happy with yet that relationship ended and destroyed me even more. Though I finally made some friends in high school, the people from my previous school and others still continued to torment me for no reason it drove me insane and alone. this is a summary of my childhood torments and from those experiences i came to the following conclusion...
I envy those who have good friends, whenever I see friends with photos of each other, hanging out with each other and always wanting to be around each other... whenever I see people who have others that will support and protect them... I feel jealous. In all my years I have never had anyone but my loving family I can fully trust, that calls me instead of me bugging them, that wants to be around me and support me, that would stick with me to the end.. a true friend. I am destined to be alone, to have no friends, and to experience no love. There have been other experiences in my life besides what I described that have affected me so.
I have trouble in my studies, I can never fully concentrate until last minute though I seem to do pretty well. There have been many things I have wanted to achieve and changes i'e wanted to make to myself but I have failed to do so and I hate myself for being so careless, irresponsible, and stupid. I acknowledged that there is no personal reason for myself to exist in the world, besides become someone good so my parents can be proud that they did a good job raising me. I love my family they are the best parents to me and gave me more love than I could ever handle. I can never live up to my parents love, the only way I can repay them for loving such a useless thing as myself is through completing my school and becoming what they want me to be. I also live for children, I want to have children and have them live a good life strayed from any problems that I have already faced myself.
THe problem, I recently got into my second car accident, things are going so horrible and expenses are rising. My parents are already paying so much and are struggling, I am forgetting to do chores and because of that I am just being a freeloader. As for my studies, it seems i've been slacking off, yet I find it so hard to concentrate until it's last minute. Though I try to do things it seems I am just a lazy failure. I failed my parents, I failed myself, I am nothing but a burden withot motivation to succeed. the best solution is my own destruction, but I am too weak, so instead I will leave the house and fend for myself, removing the burden from my family of having such a useless son around. I don't deserve them and surely i've been shown that since the life I lived is proof enough my existence is pointless. Why shold I continue this unhappy life where everyday all I do is become hurt. People think I am a happy stupid kid because i'm always so hyper, yet I put on that mask to hide my sorrows. No matter how good I am to people, no matter how sociable, I can never get what I want or be truly happy. I either am disappointed, left alone, or betrayed and used.... why does life suck
Im going through a part of what your going through. Im a very sad person, but in front of people I hide my sorrows and act happy. Just be yourself, if you act like someone your not, not only are you letting down yourself your letting down the people you love. Just block off what people say, the only thing that matters is that your family loves you. The kids obviously only pick on you because they have no life and they will probably be immature the rest of there life, but youll probably get somewhere, and probably farther then all the kids who bother you. I know its hard, you have no truee friends and the ones you think are true, there back stabbers, and I cant say who cares, because i will be lieing, of course you would care because you need someone to talk to but that doesnt mean you have to put down yourself, just because others dont like you for who you are. Dont think about all the negatives. Life will get easier and im sure you will find a true person, maybe someone you would never think of being your friend, just think the people you bring you down, must have low self esteem and just try to cover it by hurting you, just to make them feel better about themselves, there worthless and you dont need friends like them anyway... If you ever need someone to talk to im here...
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ok theres this boy who is my friend and we've been friends for a while and i found out that for a little while he liked me, like a few weeks. Now he doesnt and he likes this girl, alot, and they're going out and she doesnt like him at all. shes only going out with him for a joke. I wanna tell him but I don't because then her friend might start shit with me. Also the more I think about it the more I begin to think I like him. What should I do, tell him in a way without really telling him about this girl or not and have him find out I knew and hate me??????
I'll rate high for good answers!!!
btw im f
Since use are friends it would be right to tell him about the girl. If he doesnt believe you then hes not that good of a friend. But you should also tell him how you feel. about him. If you keep it inside then you will never know what could of happened between you too. Just be honest with him, about both subjects.
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well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help..
All you have to do is tell me your problem and I will be quick to help you with anything. Im going through that too. I cant talk to my sister because she also critizes me, my mom brings me down or just goes syco, who knows where my dad is. You should write poetry, I promise it will work. it always works for me. I feel relieved after I write. Just writing my feelins. Or you can talk to godd, maybe write him or speak out loud. Its hard when you have no one to talk to, if you have friends maybe you can talk to them. I know its hard to talk to friends, because they dont really listen or you cant trust them, but I promise, I will be your friend and I will be here if you need me.
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My question is that I have that rare skin that is called Chicken Skin. It when your skin has little bumps all over your body they are kind of noticeable. Well I was wondering if anyone has this kind of skin and how do they deal with people constantly staring at you like you are a freak or something. Is there any way of getting rid of this kind of skin condition so that I can have normal skin like everyones and not feel like a freak. I don't like to wear T Shirts or anything that will should my skin. I did once in high school and this one guy made me cry in class because he was staring at me and poking me and talking loud in class so everyone would want to look. Ever since then I have been scared to wear T Shirts again because I don't want history to repeat itself. What should I do to over come my problem? But most of all I just would like to have normal skin so I wouldn't have to worry about this anymore.
First of all dont let anyone bring you down. I have bumps on my arms, there called heat bumps, but I still show my arms. If you show the kids there getting to you there going to bother u 3xs worse. Wear tang tops, wear cute shirts. I understand how you feel, because people used to bother me, but then I showed them that its apart of me, and im beautiful with them, and they started looking at my face before they looked at my arms. I dont know how bad it looks, but mine are on the top of my arms, and im still gorgegous, who cares what people say. Let it all out. I hope I helped. im always here if you need anymore help.
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i have a group of good friends. this is the 3rd time that me and my friend were left out of a sleepover. we havent been invited to one. we seem to all be very close but it puzzles me how its the same girls having sleepovers while me and her are left out. is this shady to you? what should we do? is this messed up..am i overreacting..should we just accept that somee people in the 'crew' will be closer to some than others? any feedback and/or personal experiences is appreciated
Your group of friends are not friends at all. They dont care how they make you feel when they dont invite you to the sleep over. Its not even about the sleep over, its about respect. If they cant be good friends and ask if you wanna go to the sleep over, theyre not friends at all. Theyre just trying to put you down to make them feel better, and its no point of even wasting your time anymore...Hope I helped
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I have questions about Congenital heart defects
Like how does it affects a child physically and mentally? And how is detected?
Certain heart defects prevent the heart from pumping the blood to the lungs or other parts of the body. This can cause congestive heart failure. An child whos infected may experience rapid heartbeat and breathing difficulties. Swelling of the legs or abdomen or around the eyes can also happen. In children or in infants it might not even show any symptoms. Doctors might detect it by how the child breathes, one little uncertain breathe can show the doctor there is something wrong.
Thats all I really know, but I hope I helped...
Your friend, Vanessa
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Okay so this kid pretty much took my virginity last year-ish, and we dated for a couple weeks. Since then we've hooked up multiple times, causing him to cheat on his girlfriends at the time, nobody ever found out. Then last summer his girlfriend found out and they stayed together etc, and everything was resolved and they broke up for a while and him and I hooked up. So basically they're back together because he took her virginity too, but I'm the only girl he's ever cheated on her with, and it's not like I'm sprung off him or anything, I don't really even like him like that anymore, we're just friends as far as I'm concerned and we tend to mutally hook up occasionally. So the other day at this thing for school I was having a bad day, and he let me cry on his shoulder and stuff, then we went off to "talk" somewhere and he started kissing me and stuff, I feel really really bad about it for some reason and he's really giving me mixed signals. Is he interested in me again, has he never lost feelings or did he just want a hookup?
It sounds like hes confused. Dont fall for it. If you keep lettin him hook up with you when he wants hell think youll always be there when he wants a toy. I dont know ur relationship with him, but it sounds like hes using you. Im suree you can find someone who doesnt just use you when he wants. he obviously wants the both of use, but he cant have it, so tell him that its either he wants you or her. If he does pick you then he still cares about you, if not you know hes not a good boyfriend or a truee friend!
Hope I helped.
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heyy ok when i shave u no down there i get these little red bumps and i start to bleed from the bumps what should i do...i tried shaving the same way as the hair grows but that doesnt work and im NOT waxingg
When you shave and there is alittle hair, its gonna scratch your skin and bleed, let the hair grow alittle and it will be easier and less painful
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I'm not sure exactly what I should or even can do for my cousin. I'm 19/f and he's 17/m and we were really close growing up, almost like brother and sister. I knew a while ago that he smoked pot and I've been telling him to stop and everything, but I had no idea how bad it really was. Last night we had a really long conversation online (we live 4 hours away now) and I guess he smokes enough to get "the shakes" after 2 days of not having any. I had no idea he smoked that much, I thought he only did it every so often. He also told me that he cuts and that he's attempted suicide on and off since he was FIVE YEARS OLD! I don't think that he would really go through with it, but it's so scary to know that he's thinking that seriously about it. He started smoking really heavily when he broke up with his girlfriend. She cheated on him and then dumped him because he didn't trust her anymore. He says that pot is all that is keeping him alive since then. His parents divorced when he was really young and his father has been married two times since and is now going through his third divorce. My cousin lives with his mother and her second husband which have a very bad influence on him. They live a really horrible lifestyle and abuse him by giving their own children more priviledges, making him babysit, and not allowing him to have certain things around the house like soda or peanut butter. He's been through a lot of relationships, some since the girl I mentioned before and he's far from a virgin. Our family has treated him like crap since he was born and they have such high expectations for him especially because he's the fourth of his name. They all love him though, especially me and I hate to see this happening to him. I'm really glad that he was honest with me, but I'm so worried about him. What can I do to help him? I've talked to him and tried to encourage him and I don't know if it's working. I hate to see this happen to someone I care so much about. Any advice at all would be wonderful. Sorry it's so long.
This is also happening with my cousin. I know you want to do something to help, but he needs to relized himself that what hes doing is hurting you. Try to understand what hes going through, and show him that you do know what hes going through. My cousin smokes, drinks, cuts herself, shes tryed so many times to kill herself. Shes in different relationships, and shes also nasty when it comes to sex. I told her to stop, shes not going to stop smoking pot, shes not going to stop having sex, but she did listen to me and hasn't cut herself in a very very long time. Just tell him that if he was to kill himself, he would hurt you also. Try to be with him as much as possible even if you have to take 5 buses to get to him. Maybe spend the weekends with him, do as much as possible. Just show him you care and you love him, and maybe he wont stop everything, but he'll stop cutting and trying to kill himself. I hope I helped.
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Okay i like this guy who is in one of my classes and i like him alot but i dont know what to say to him since i am shy around guys i like!!!please help (i rate high)
It will be easier if you knew him. If you do know him just start conversation, then maybe you can add if you can have his number so use can hang one day. While use are hanging, bring up the subject of you liking him, maybe he'll feel the same way about you. Just take it slow.
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Is there a program online ( or I can download ) *for free* that can turn my pictures from color to black and white ?
- Thankss
All you ave to do is right click the mouse and press edit pic, when you go on it, it will show you the black and whte
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My dance iz comin upp!! i have to choices on wat to wear.. I could wear RIPPED JEANS N A SHIRT or A SHORT SKIRT WITH SOME HIGH HEELS. what would you perfer?
Well if its a dance im sure your gonna want to get down with your girls and boys so I think you should deff wear the jeans, heels would not be comfortable to dance in. You can dress up for the movies, and wear heels, but dancing are suppose to be fun and comfortable.
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hey i have a boyfriend and he cheated on me 4 time i been with him for like a year and a half but i love him to death and the poeple he cheated on me with was my best friends and they dont talk to me anymore and yea they write whore and slut on my locker in school and they wanna jump me cause i am mad at them cause i though they were my friends but they are not anymore now they are getiing all my other friend not to like me and i think that is not good cause now i walk through school with no one to talk to i just wanna leave this LIBERTY HIGH SCHOOL... it sucks....PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO..
First of all, if your boyfriend cheated on you four times it does not matter how much you love him break it off before it gets any further, Ive been there and im still dealing with the pain and if you keep holding on the pains going to be worst. I was in a 3 year relationship and its going to take longer for me to get over him then when I was with him. Second off, these girls obviously arent your friends, first they go behind your back and mess around with your boyfriend then they try to turn it around on you to make you feel guilty. Dont stoop down to their level, and dont let them intimate you. If your other friends turn on you then they are not real friends either. I say you stopp talking to all of them, who ever turned there back on you especially your friends and ur boyfriend. Show them that you dont care and you dont need them. Friends are by choice you dont need them remember that,and keep your head up always.
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ok so i know you gyes hate these qustions but i cant answer it on my own. ok so i still like my x but he has a girl friend.shes really mean and dose not want us to be friends.so today she went home sick and my x DID NOT seem to care. So today he huged me and flrted with me. He also spraed his favorite colnge on me which smelled really good!! I dont know if i should ask him if he still likes me or just let narure take its corse?? I really need help on this one i want to know if he still likes me??
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Ask him honestly whats going on. If hes just doing that because shes not in school and he has no one to flirt with then theres no use on wastin your time, but if he still has feelings for you and you feel the same then go for it. Dont let her ruin your friendship or your relationship with ur ex. If hes just playing games with both of use, then he doesnt deserve you and im sure you can find someone better.
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Lately ive been so stressed , its not even funny... my best(guy)friend who i kinda like, I dont even know whether or not anymore got a new gf and shes like my friend and she told me that if i wasnt ok with it that she wouldnt go out with him but what am i supposed to do be like no you cant when i know how much my friend likes her... i couldnt do that to him now i dunno i dunno whether i feel like i want to cry or what, im thinking if i try to like a guy and get a boyfriend i wont be stressed about it anymore and crap like that but i dunno i do like him but im so happy for him at the same time cuase he likes her so much and i cant find anyone to like or who i thinks cute, and i cant stop thinking about it, and today i saw him kiss her, whats my problem why i cant i just be like no i dont like you you have agf whos my friend and now who likes you... ugh something inside of me just wants to break... :( anyhelp...
Trying to date other people will not get you over him, just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him your not trying to break up the realtionship, but at the same time you get hurt when you see them kiss, maybe he will understand and be less flirty with her in front of you or maybe hell even have a deep secret he has to tell you, either way if he really cared for you as a friend he would understand what you have to say, and not take it as an insult.
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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.
is this dumb of me?
No, its not dumb of you at all, its normal for the gf/bf to get alittle parinoid in that kind of situation, but dont get alittle to madd, where you make him think you dont trust him. Trust that hell do the right thing. It might be hard knowing that hes with these other girls but if he really cares about you he would keep his hands to himself. So just trust that hell be good, and youll feel much better knowing that use a building a strong relationship.
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Okay I am 18/f and I have a wonderful boyfriend. He's 22 and he lives about 1 hour from me because he moved that far to work. He comes to visit me every weekend and calls me every night. We have alot of fun and talk about everything. We have been dating on anf off for 3 years now and are planning on getting married in about 1 1/2. Recently at my work I noticed this guy flirting with me alot, and well I do the same. I saw it as harmless, I would joke with him and stuff and he would back. He had a girlfriend at the time too, but just the other day he walked over to me and pushed me against the wall and said 'watsup babe' and laughed. I found it funny at first but a little odd, then I found out he broken things off with his girlfriend partly because of me. He also slipped me his phone number in my work folder and the other day I saw him he asked me to come to his apartment. I really find him attractive(he looks like the lead singer from my chemical romance) and really like him, I only want to be friends with him because I love my boyfriend so much and wouldnt ever cheat. But when Im around the guy at work Im much more open and talkative then I am with my actual boyfriend. Im just asking if its wrong to be friends with a guy that likes me in a way that my boyfriend wouldnt find appealing?
Im sure your boyfriend lets you have friends, but that guy seems alittle more then friendly. Im not saying use are doing anything, but hes alittle to flirty and thats not good. He might also think you like him too. From what I read your leading him on, maybe not leading him on, but your going with what hes doing and thats not good. He might get the wrong impression and try to make a move. You have to think whos more important him or your 3 yr boyfriend. Also, every girl has atleast one boy they can talk to more then there own boyfriend and thats normal, but dont get to involved because you might hurt more than one person.
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This morning my dad got angry at me. The reason isn't really important. He threw the waffle that was eating at my shirt and got butter all over me. I was upset because he had the nerve to throw a waffle at me, and also because I was excited to wear the outfit that I had picked out to school. I started crying and I couldn't stop. Keep in mind that I have my period now. I was still crying when I got out of the car, and still crying when I was in homeroom. Of course, everyone was staring at me and wondering why my eyes were all puffy. My teacher suggested I go to the nurse, so I did and stayed there for half of first period. I was really happy by the time I was surrounded by my friends. First of all, I felt like an idiot because the people in my homeroom knew how upset I was in the morning, and then saw me laughing my head off with my friends two periods later. I just feel so stupid and I can't for the life of me understand why I was crying so much!! I know I have my perios, but I've never got PMS this severe before!! HELP PLEASE!! Has anyone beed throuhg an awkward situation like this?
From your dad gettig angry at you and throwing the waffle at you to you having your period really got you rowled up, but dont let what people say or think affect you. You were going through your little sad stage, and your friends cheered you up. It dosnt matter what other people think, all that matters was you got over how you were feeling and moved on with the rest of the day.
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okay i shave my private right! well how do i shave to wear i dont have razor burns or red marks? i rate 5's
Well you have to take your time. What I would do is shave to the side, its less on gettin burns and its less painful.
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