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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think I might be getting my period and I'm really scared! I started off having just a little bit of disscharge about three years ago, now its getting thicker and thicker. Am I getting my first period, if not should I have a gynecological exam?
Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, you SHOULD get it soon. The discharge is just discharge. Is what you're talking about a thick, "boogery" and whiteish yellowish? Yep, that's just normal discharge. You should be getting your period soon though within the next few months if not sooner. No, you do not need to go to the gyno for an exam. You're fine. And no, you are NOT getting your period. As soon as you see that discharge turning Red or blackish, then that's your period. Until then, you do not have your period. But, I would advise you to keep pads or tampons with you and extra undies for the next few months until yo do start your period. It's quite embarassing and uncomfortable to walk around with blood soaked undies.

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(14/f)Kind of embarassing.. But i have a huge problem with my breasts.. My Right one is roughly a B38 but my left one is well a mere B i would say. I know this is likely when your growing up but do you think theyll be that much of a difference when i get older or do you think theyll even out? Idk its been like this for awhile now.. my mom && stuff know.. Should i just have it checked out from my doctor just incase?

It's very common for teeanged girls to have uneven breasts. Mine are ::blushes:: One is a small B and the other is a much larger B.


As you get older, your breasts will still continue to grow and they will even out. However, some women's breasts do not even out and some get plastic surgery to correct this.

What I do to keep it from looking lik I have two different sized breasts is by wearing a slightly padded bra. It makes it much less noticeable. At least, I think it does.

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If someone come to your house to bitch at you can you call the cops on them?

Yes you can. It's harassment. And, trespassing. You could press charges on them and they could be arrested.

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this is really mebarassing but..you know how people make jokes about buttt hair? is it normal to have it?

Do you mean, like ON your butt or like... Between the cheeks?


Either way it's completely normal. You can see it better on some people depending on their hair color. IE: dark brown/black hair you can see it better, Blondes you can't.

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My best friend had phone sex with my brother and she doesnt want me to be mad. Do I forgive and forget, or stay mad at her and forgive her eventually or stay mad at her forever??
Signed,
Grossed out

Well, what your brother and your friends do is really none of your concern. You have every right to be grossed out. My best friend slept with my brother. I don't give a damn that they had sex, but I'm still freaked out by it.


Sure, you should forgive her. It's really nothing to be mad about. Just think of the incident as something that happened between her and some random guy, or your brother and some random girl.

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Hey sorry i took so long to show you my essay but i've been editing it. By the way it's an essay on inspiration and can only be 500 words to enter in the contest..which i don't have to but might like to and mine has 499. lol But for my class it can be how ever long i'd like it to be. So here it is and thanks oooo sooo much for editing it for me! MUCH LOVE, Shelly

(p.s it's due tommrow)



In today’s world it’s hard to find someone who inspires you, but there are those special people out there who do inspire you. Thankfully, I have one of those people in my life. That person who inspires me is my grandmother, because she has always been caring, responsible, and faithful in her life.

My grandma is constantly caring for other people around her. Throughout the summer I’ll go to Connecticut to visit her and she’ll always let me stay with her in any case. She has set up a room for me to stay in when I visit. Recently, she moved from a five bed room house to condo. She made sure there was an extra room for me to stay in. When I go to work with her she’s constantly asking me if I’m happy and comfortable. Finally, when something important happens in my life she tries her hardest to be here for that certain event. One time she wanted to make sure she would be here, she bought her plane ticket about seven months in advance! She even drove down here because the air fare was extravagant. My grandma also tries her absolute best to visit me as frequently.

My grandma is a very responsible woman too. When I come to stay with here she’ll always be there at the gate before I even get off the plane. One time my flight was about 40-45 minutes early and she was sitting there waiting, I didn’t have to wait a minute for her to get there. In my whole life, my grandma has never once elapsed a birthday or holiday. She’ll call; send cards and/or presents for all occasions. Amazingly, my grandma has always treated me and my ten cousins equally. When Christmas is here, she’ll try her very best to keep the money spent on us equal. Spending time and showing her love with each of her ten grandchildren is extremely important to her and somehow she manages to spend an equal time with each of us.

Being faithful is an essential trait in a person’s life and my grandmother has that trait. She’ll be at church every Sunday guaranteed. Even in a foreign place, she’ll somehow manage to discover a church to attend. Anything the weather might bring that day she’ll try her hardest to attend Church. She’ll also contribute money to churches, schools, and charities. Once I asked her if she could contribute a few dollars to Relay for Life, but she ended up donating 20 dollars. She’ll always keep in touch with her friends and family, and she’ll be honest with them too. My grandma also helps plan our family reunions each summer to make sure she’ll be able to talk with all her relatives.

My grandmother carries all these traits and more. That’s why I love my grandma very much. Hopefully, one day I can resemble her, and have somebody look to me for inspiration the way I look to here for inspiration.

Your grammy sounds really nice!


My grandma is a psyco... Litterally... ANYWAY!


I didn't really see any errors at all. You did a pretty good job editing. The only thing that confused me was this part: "My grandma also tries her absolute best to visit me as frequently."


Your whole paragraph was about her visiting you frequently, and by putting also it threw me off.

You could try putting something like My grandma ALWAYS finds the time to visit me, and I love it.


Other than that, it was very well written. I have no other complains. =) Nice work and you better get an A!


-Emily-

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How can you usually tell if your in love?

If you're asking how to tell if you're in love, then you aren't in love.


When you are in love trust me, you will know. I'm sure you're going to hear this a million times over. But it is the God honest truth. When you are in love you WILL know.


All I can really tell you is that being in love is one of the greatest feelings on the planet. And young teenagers (13, 14, 15) have a tough time distinguishing the difference between love, lust and infatuation.


Love sort of runs deeper, it's more emotional than physical.

Lust is more of a physical obsession, like something sexual

Infatuation is more mental and physical.

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does dark red hair (burgundy) drain out ice blue eyes?

Actually, no. It makes them look really nice.


If it were a lighter shade of red, it would make it pop even more.

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I had my period for two years not and it still doesnt come every month. Like when i do sports i never have it but over the summer i have. Is this normal? Im a 14/f. I asked my mom and she says its normal but my friends started last year and they have theirs every month. Do i need to get it chech or am I worring about nothing.
Thanks For the HELp

Yes, it's normal. The first 3-4 years you get your period it will not come on a regular basis.


Also, when you are into alot of activities, it can delay your period.



So yes, what you are experiencing is completely normal.

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Does anyone know of a website where i can copy and paste my essay and the site will show me grammer errors or rate me on my writing or will anyone do that for me? lol sorry if that doesn't make sence. WILL RATE THOUGH!

Do you have Microsoft Works or Word? What's underlined in green is a grammar error, and what's in red is a spelling error. There really are no sites that can do that for you, but if you leave the essay in my inbox, I'll look it over for you.


So, if you typed your document in Word or Works, and there was nothing underlined in green or red, you SHOULD be good to go. Why don't you just read it through, sentance by sentance out loud to see if it sounds right to you?

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What does it mean when people say I want to bone you or I wanted to bone her?

I want to bone = I want to have sex with; want to fuck.

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Is semen and sperm the same thing and if not whats the difference?

Yes. Same thing, same meaning.

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Okay, last night I was with my boyfriend and he was fingering me..butbefore he fingered me he had handeled his dick and idk if there was cum on it or not..but when i felt it there wasn't really any there.. is there a possibility that i could be pregant?

I highly doubt it. If he washed his hands, it's insanely unlikely. Sperm dies when it hits air. This does not mean ALL of it does, but a great amount does. However, if he had fingered you with cum still on his hands that had not died completely, then there could be a possibility of you being pregnant.


However this possibility is very unlikely. Just quit worrying about it, you'll be fine.

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someone keeps stealing the sign off of our lawn that says vote for judge price! we keep getting new ones but they keep getting stolen... is there anything we can do to them if they get caught?

First of all, whoever is doing that should know it's illegal.


Anyway, you should try to put up servalence near a window. Get a camera and keep it plugged in near the window. If while the camera is on, someone steals the sign notify the police and have them review the tapes. They can be arrested for that.


Or, if you don't want to be going through the trouble of purchasing a camera, or sitting and watching a few hours of tape to see who took it, you can just notify the police first and see what they can do about it.

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hey guys, alright one question.

i last had my period october 30th, and right now i have my period. at least i think i do. i'm not sure if its my period... or if it's cause i "had my cherry popped" or something. do you bleed alot when that happens? cause i think i have my period. but i'm really honestly not sure.

answer, please?

Well, your last period was Oct 30? I think you mean Sept 30. Oct. 30th hasn't happened yet.

Anyway, since you started bleeding again, how long have you been bleeding? A day? Two days? A few minutes? When your "cherry is popped" you should only bleed very very little. It shouldn't feel like you have your period, and it goes away within a few seconds. However, some women do bleed more than others when their "cherry is popped".


If you have been bleeding more than a day, you have your period. And, it's nothing to worry about for getting your period two weeks early. The first 3-4 years you don't get it on a regular basis.

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when you delete something off the computer, it goes to the recylin bin but i dont think it reaally deletes it.. so what is something i can do so it PERMANENTLY deletes it?

Well, the whole point of it being deleted and going into the recycling bin is so that it goes away permanently.


To make it go away even MORE permanently, empty your recycling bin. Then it's gone for good.

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i had a question. besides the risk of stds and pregnancy why are adults so against teen sex? like parents make a huge deal out of it and i dont see why if you use male/ female condoms and are on birth control. i mean there is always still of risk of those things but they arent the end of the world.

Well, depending on the parent, it could be because it's against their religion.


And becoming pregnant is a HUGE deal. As a teen parent, your life pretty much ends. You can't hang out with friends, you have to take care of your kid. You can't get a decent job, because when they find out you have a kid they won't hire you. They'll want to hire someone that is going to BE there. When you have a kid, say your kid gets sick. You aren't going to stay at work. You're gonna leave to take care of your kid. What if you can't find a babysitter for your kid? You can't get a job, you can't leave the house without your child.


And going to what you said " i mean there is always still of risk of those things but they arent the end of the world."


To the parents, it could be the end of the world. How would you like it if you ended up with HIV AIDS, Crabs, Herpes, etc? How would you like it if you became pregnant (unless you're a guy) or how would you like it if your girlfriend became pregnant? It seems like it's all fun and games when you're having sex, but when you take the risks into consideration and it's a HUGE deal.

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my Finger Nails hurt really bad after I take Nail Polish off of them. Its kinda like they are numb. Why is that? Thanks.

Same thing happens to me. If you always wear nail polish, your nails are used to haveing that little bit of extra weight on them. So, when you take it off, it's sort of trying to put that extra pressure on there to make it seem like there is nail polish still on your fingernails. It normally goes away when you put nail polish back on your nails, or after a few minutes.

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I have a friend we've been together for a long time but now we are geting into the stupedest fights how can i get her back or leave our relatioships at enemy?

Have you tried talking to her?

You really need to try to talk things out with her, you've been friends for a long time and I see no reason why you guys should be fighting all the time. You kids must be bickering like a married couple!


Try to have a night/afternoon/day out with eachother, just do all the things you like to do. Talk, and have fun! You should be able to figure things out, get everything out on the table about what's been bothering you guys.


That's what a friend of mine and I did. We had gotten into a HUGE fight, but we're okay now. We made up and got to hang out and talk things out. You should try that.

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Hi. Well, I was wondering-what types of clothes does the store H&M sell? I mean, do they see causal clothes, formal clothes, or both? Also, is their clothes good and could you please tell me the price ranges of the clothes and accessorie (i.e.-jeans from $25-$40 or something like that), and also tell me if they have good prices. Also, could you guys tell me if and when they have sales. Thanks!

Well, your best bet would be going to their website. http://www.hm.com/us/start/start/index.jsp# Click on Inspiration and click on whichever one you want.


They have pretty good prices, in my opinion. They aren't that expensive to me. But hey, what I think is expensive may not be what you think is expensive.


Every store has a sale, you just need to go to the sale racks when you walk in the store.

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