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God gave us two ears and one mouth so we could listen twice and speak once.
Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.
Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.
>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)
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i think he is the gauiterist in fallout boy pete wents? or something is what nationality is he my friend said his mom was african american and his dad was white so help please
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pete_Wentz
All about Pete Wentz.
And, please-put punctuation marks & spell correctly next time; you're killing us.
Hope this helps,
-Jam
ANYTHING else i should know about liek periods ect? i think i would rather just use a tampon for everything but like .... do you think i should like. i have no idea.
Hey again, haha :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
Browse around that site -it's really helpful.
-Jam
Lately I've been so depressed. I'm 15 yrs old and started highschool. My life is a wreck. I feel like I'm always stressed and don't feel like I wanna live anymore. Eventhough I wouldn't commit suicide. I find myself writting depressing poems and just crying sometimes for no reason. My life isn't the happies life a girl would wish for. My parents are always fighting. They're always in bad moods and take it on me and my 18 year old sister. I hate it!. Also I feel like I have no real friends. Like they really donet care about me. Also my boyfriend that I really cared about broke up with me for no reason and now he wnats another chance. Sometimes I feel like he cares other times I don't. And I don't know what to do. I feel so stressed and like no one really cares about me. My parents work all the time and never have time for me and when we do talk we always end up fighting so I can't talk to them. I have no one to talk to. I hate my life. Please help.
Hey hun,
I feel the same exact way,
Or FELT for that matter.
But anyways-what helped me through that hurdle is just going to school showing that you are depressed. People will ask you what's wrong & whatever and you'll soon see who really cares about you.
Your paretns probably don't mean to be mean-they're probably stressed about work, and they're probably taking it out on eachother which is causing their bickering. Don't take it personally!
People DO care about you-otherwise, you wouldn't be in a house right now-you wouldn't have electricity to be typing that question-you wouldn't have food in your stomahce and clothes on your back.
Just think: There's always someone who has it worse than you.
^^ That helped me a lot.
Don't commit suicide-"It's a permanant fix for a temporary problem".
Don't worry, be happy!
If worse comes to worst, go to a counselor, they help. They really do.
If you ever need any help, leave me anything in my inbox, I'd be happy to help.
I SINCERELY wish you the best of luck-I really do.
Hope this helped,
-Jam
k so like this is kinda gross but what ev. i just got my period yesturday and i didnt go to school. like its the heaviest flow ever. and like im down to like two pairs of underwear because the rest are like stainded. my mom doesnt believe i got my peroid but i told her to go out and buy me some pads which she did. but there not good ones. theres like carefree original. like there okay but id rather have something so much better. and they always like have blood on the side. its sick i know. and i feel REALLY gross down there. and omg i hate it. i dont want it either. and liek what am i suppose to do at school.. and i have gymnastics and like i used a pad... not the best thing. eww.
any advice?!!!
thanksss
Hey,
It's not gross, just a natural part of a woman's life lol. [As corny as it may sound..hah]
ANYWAYS, that happens to me all the time
Ask your mom to bring you back to the store before you go to gymnastics, and get ones with the wings. That's the kind I use lol. If you don't have gymnastics for a while, just use the ones you have for now; they should suffice.
If your mom doesn't believe you, show her the dirty undewear, if worse comes to worst.
As for gymnastics, use a tampon. If you're uncomfortable using one, then don't--stick with the pad--gymnastics is only like an hour right?
I use the overnight pads for the days of my heaviest flow. They work really good, but htey feel like diapers.
Make sure you change your pad about every 4 hours. In school, ask to use the lav.
Every girl goes through this, so you're not alone!
Hope I helped!
any other ideas. liek nothing dying my hair because i love my hair color and the way it is. and i wear some make up you know nothing like crazzy and perfume ect.
anything like hair ideas that might look cute on me.
im blonde and have blue eyes =]
uhh. what else.
umm well if you have like ANY ideas just tell me.
im thinking about using this tanning stuff i have. like really putting it on so that ill look really tan. and if it comes out bad (because it ussaully takes a while for it to work like over night) then i have a whole nother day to scrub it off and lighten it up a bit.
thanksss =]
soo any more ideas. like anything.
&& im also thinking about REALLY cleaing my room so that its actually like me. right now its messy and liek blah.
any ideas for that? im trying to make it like a beach type theme. haah thankss
Hey,
Yeah, I think you should put your tanning stuff on! -What kind is it? Try it on today, and if it doesn't work out, then that's okay-tomorrow's Sunday, just scrub it off.
& http://www.bellaonline.com/subjects/2146.asp
im gournded for the weekend and so i thought that since i have nothing better to do then i should like give my self a make over. and so that when i come back to school everyone will be like WOW. in a good way.
any ideass?
thankss
Hey,
Oooh I'm sorry ! I hate being grounded!
Maybe dye your hair? Something cute and different-but not something like pink or purple or wacky hair colors like that.
In need of a new haircut? Get something that you normally wouldn't get, but would look cute on you.
Put makeup on if you don't already? [NOT TOO MUCH!]
Get a new perfume that smells reallly good.
Wear something cute, a bit revealing,but not so much that it's trashy-...something that you normally wouldn't wear.
So basically, if you haven't caught my drift..do/wear something you normally wouldn't...it will catch everyone's attention.
But BE SURE you don't go extreme-meaning pink hair, weird makeup, etc.
Hope I helped & if you need any more help, you know what to do! :)
Thanks for leaving something in my inbox,
-Jam
I was just wondering, is there anyway to get a black eye to kinda heal or whatever, like my friend has a black eye, and I wasnt sure if I should get her to put ice on it, or like to just leave it alone.
Thanks
1. Put a cold compress over the injured area right away.
2. Take an over-the-counter medicine for pain and inflammation, such as Tylenol®
3. Avoid aspirin. Aspirin prevents blood from clotting, thus making it more difficult to stop the bleeding, which is what turns your eye black.
4. Take some vitamin C. Studies have shown that it promotes healing, especially for bruises.
5. Later, put a warm compress over the injured area.
6. Seek medical attention if these measures do not help.
I'm fat in ONLY my stomache and its driving me INSANE! how can i loose fat in ONLY my stomache?
Hey,
Some people say that "you can't just loose fat in one area". While that may SLIGHTLY be true, some things do target your stomache.
Buy an ABLounge. They work great,
Or if you can't afford it, do crunches everyday. It feels really good and after a while, it'll look really good too.
Don't forget to eat a balanced diet, which could be contributing to the fatness of your stomache. Contrary to popular believe, not eating doesn't really get you skinnier. Your body automatically stores fat for when you don't eat and it could make you fatter. Make sure you pay attention to the food pyramids; they help-trust me. :)
If you need any more help, don't be hesitant to leave me something in my InBox!
I wish you the best of luck!
-Jam
I'm 14 and I'm a good kid.
I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, and I even
get good grades. My best friend was in a big
drinking phase and they knew about it. Even
though they know I've never drank before,
they've been treating me like I'm five for the
past month or so. (After not drinking for
almost 7 months) my best friend drank one time again, and they found out, so I can understand why they wouldn't trust her, but me and them have talked and they understand that
I won't do anything like that!
Whenever I try to make plans, they won't
let me go anywhere or they guilt me and tell me
how much of a hassle it is. They make me come
home before 6 and they ask so many questions they
don't need to be asking. Its really frustrating
because they didn't used to be like this and
we used to be really close. I've never done
anything bad and they treat me like a criminal!
How do I get things back to normal?
Hey,
Ok, I'm going to infer that "they" is referring to your parents, correct?
They don't want you to make the same mistakes as your friends. But anyways, I know this is a pain since my parents used to be the same way too.
My advice is to start going out with other more RESPONSIBLE, and TRUSTWORTHY friends. Tell them you're willing to take a drug/alcohol test if they don't believe you. I know this sounds ridiculous, but if worse comes to worst, say your ABC's to prove your sober. lol.
They're doing it for your own good, not to annoy you or treat you like a little kid or anything, you know?
If you need any more help, leave me something in my InBox. I'd be happy to help!
I wish you the best of luck!!!
-Jam
WELL Ok i need help with make-up i dont know what make-up to use and i wanted usde help me ok if you go to advice colum theres a picture of me (and my eyebrows are thinner now) lol i wanted to know what to use
-Eye shadows colour
-Eyeliner colour
-blush colour
mascara colour-
or whatever else i need please help me =]
Hey,
Be Natural!
-Eye Shadow Colors: Stick to neutral. A light brown, or even that white stuff with the sparkles are really cute.
-Eyeliner Color: I think black's the best. However, if you have blonde hair, I think brown eyeliner will look best.
-Blush Color: A shade darker than your skin tone. Don't use bright red blush, you'll look like a clown.
-Mascara Color: Black-unless your eyelashes are super long and full; if this is the case, use clear mascara. When you are applying this mascara, put the first coat on...and then let that coat dry and put on another one. This prevents clumps and makes your lashes look fantabulous! :}
Hope I helped,
Jam
are there any products store or like tips like lemon juice or something that prevents oily and greasy hair?
Hey,
To quickly disguise oily grease ball hair, lightly shake some talcum powder onto your roots. The powder will absorb the oilyness. But remember apply the powder lightly!
Make sure you wash your hair with shampoo and only put the conditioner on your ends.
Hope I helped,
-Jam
Any Free Down Loads with out Lime Wire- I heard that was full of bugs (true?)- I Really need this song Before Valentines Day. Thanks!!
Hey,
Obviously, it's not legal but try Ares.
LimeWire gave me viruses.
If you have any troubles, leave me a message in my inbox.
-Jam
Hi,
I am 14 years old and im female. Im in 9th grade. Im popular. But not the most popular. I have a lot of friends and everyone loves me. My self esteem is at a really low rate though. I do not define myself as 'pretty'. I hav brown eyes, dirty blonde hair, tanishh skin and a cute nose. When i was younger i was gorgeous now, im not. Or at least i dont feel as if i am. I feel as if my nose is getting bigger and closer to my eyes and that i just feel and look gross! At times i look great and feel great but i wanna always feel and look liek that. I wanna be pretty!
Help?Advice?Anything?
Hey,
I'm at that age too, and I'm going through the same emotions. It's as if one day I think I look really good-and that's when my self esteem is high, and other times I feel really ugly, and my self esteem goes straight down the tubes.
Your nose is just growing, as will the rest of your face. Your eyes and mouth will grow with it and it'll all look gorgeous, just as it did before.
From reading your description, I have concluded that you are pretty.
People have definitions of pretty. So, some guy could think you're completely gorgeous while others will think you're not-so-pretty. Remember, YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE.
My advice is, though, the days that you feel great & look pretty, how'd you do your hair? What's your outfit? ...It could have something to do with that. Some hairstyle look better on you than others.
Hope I helped, Best of luck!
-Jam
I am 15 years old and my ex boyfriend is 16. I just had a baby he was born January 2nd. Before the baby was born my ex and i decided the baby would not go to his dads house (not is biological dad) because his father does crack in the house. he called me a whore and a bitch and other names. he said awful things about the baby before he was born and after.
He also says rude things about my family. Who has never said anything wrong about their family. Anyways the father of my son wants to take the baby away for a weekend but he does not hear him at night when he cries. he never feeds him correctly (gets him to finish the bottle) my question is i dont know what to do
Hey,
I wouldn't give your precious baby to a crackhead.
I wouldn't trust him. If he doesn't hear the baby when it cries, how is he going to know if it's hungry, if it wet itself, or if it's seriously injured?
Another reason why you shouldn't do it is because you said he doesn't know how to properly feed the baby. You don't want your baby to starve, right?
If he calls you, don't pick up. If he IM's you or does anything else to try and get in touch with you, don't respond. He'll get the idea.
Don't listen to him. If he keeps calling you names, report him to the police. That's verbal assault!
Hope I helped, Best of luck to 'ya!
-Jam
okay me and my boyfriend were at church a few nites ago and we were gonna go down the stairs. okay there's this little space beside the stairs where two people can be alone and he pulled me in there and kissed me. he didnt talk about it for the rest of the nite but i know he's gonna bring it up next wednesday. i mean, it's not like i didn't enjoy it or anything, but i don't know if i should take it a step further (as in having sex) or keep it like it is.help?
Hey,
Personally, I wouldn't have sex in a church.
I don't know how strong of a Christian you are, but I know that one thing God frowns upon is sex before marriage.
If you ARE ready to have sex however, have it at home, or a non-public place.
I mean, c'mon, think about it-would you want someone to come downstairs and see two people having sex..in a CHURCH?!
Kissing is fine; I wouldn't go any farther than that at Church.
Hope I helped, Good luck
-Jam
helloo :]] im going to get my
hair cut on tuesday, and i was
just wondering if anybody had
some ideas or websites. i wanna
get layers and and a little above
my shoulders. i have curly hair,
but i straightin my hair alottt.
also, i was wondering if there are
any lotions or face washes that get
rid of acne scars that i can buy
from cvs or k-mart.
thankss :DD
Hey,
http://www.myhaircuts.com/ < - i used that when trying to decide what I wanted my haircut to be. it helped a lot; hope it helps you.
Also, use those Vitamin-E pills, pop them open and apply the gel inside to your scars. This is what I did to an injury on my head where I needed stitches; and you can't even tell it's there.
Hope everything goes well,
-Jam
I look around the site at comments about how high school relationships suck/are based off the wrong things/etc. And I am getting REALLY freaked out, because there's a guy I like (i'm 14 and a freshman by the way) and I want to get with him but i don't want our relationship to end up like all others..I genuinely like him as a person and as a boyfriend so I'm not just lusting after him. I guess my question is, how can i make a high school relationship last past that?
Hey,
Okay, well 90% of High School relationships don't last because your "lover" just wants to get in your pants, they like you for a limited amount of time, they want to get their ex jealous, or they hear things that you said that you didn't. ...
If you & this boy don't think you'd do any of this, then chances are you'd stay together for a pretty long time. Keep in mind, however that nothing lasts forever, and from what it sounds like, you want this relationship to last longer. But do you want to be with him for the rest of your life?
Hope I helped, best of luck hun!
-Jam
How do you START a fight to END a friendship?
I've written many questions about one of my "best friends" on here, and i've come to a conclusion (please don't try to talk me out of it.. i think this is the wisest thing to do) i need our friendship to end, and the only way to end it is by having a HUGE fight.
Only problem is, she would NEVER pick a fight with me, no matter what i do wrong, so she needs to do something wrong that i could "not forgive" her for.. you know? but its not like i can GET HER to do something wrong, is there? and if so, what?
i know it's supid, but seriously.. my question is.. how can i pick a fight with my best friend that could end with me saying "shut up, you annoy the hell out of me..bye" or something along those lines???
Hey,
if you think it's right, it's not stupid.
Do what annoys the hell out of her.
Lie to her. Say that you haven't liked her from the start,
Or make up a story. Tell her that you heard she was talking trash about you? Tell her you want to end it right there.
Hope I helped
Good luck,
-Jam
My parents don't beleive in piercing any part of the human body besides ears.
I have my ears pierced twice and I want to pierce my bell-button by myself.
I'm only 14, so I can't get it done professionaly without my parents' consent.
SO I need tips on how to do it.
Geez =\
I'm in the same predicament
I want it really, really bad.
But honestly, like everyone else said on here,
I wouldn't do it.
I have heard of people from dying from it
Do you really want it THAT bad that you'd die for it?
I don't, so I'm gonna wait 'til I can go with a friend who's 18
I want it suuuper bad, they're so cute
But really, I don't think I'd wanna die just for a piercing.
Good luck!
-jam
i hate my brest ... my nipples keep getting bigger and bigger and i feel like they are gonna take over my hole boob! is there any way to make them stop?
No, there's really no way to make them stop, but don't worry-they'll be fine. You just need to grow into them!
Hope I helped
-Jam