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starting a fight to end a friendship
How do you START a fight to END a friendship?
I've written many questions about one of my "best friends" on here, and i've come to a conclusion (please don't try to talk me out of it.. i think this is the wisest thing to do) i need our friendship to end, and the only way to end it is by having a HUGE fight.
Only problem is, she would NEVER pick a fight with me, no matter what i do wrong, so she needs to do something wrong that i could "not forgive" her for.. you know? but its not like i can GET HER to do something wrong, is there? and if so, what?
i know it's supid, but seriously.. my question is.. how can i pick a fight with my best friend that could end with me saying "shut up, you annoy the hell out of me..bye" or something along those lines???
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you could get one of your other friends that you know wont tell her what your planning, to say somethings about youn that your other friend doesnt know about you (or make it up)until finally she says she didnt know that and then say some stuff like"how does he/she know that about mew but my bff doesnt?!i guess that you just arent a true friend then!" then you walk away from her and just stop talking to her for about a week or until she is always continuosly trying to talk about it and then yell "i hate you and i hope you die!"or "i hate you and i never want to see your face, now get out of my face about this!"
hope i helped:)
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I had a friend like that.
with people like this you need to be simple and final
"get out of my life"
thats what I said.
afterwards, you will likely fidn yourself regretign it or likely want to go apologize. don't.
Solemnstar
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I'm glad you realize it's stupid, because it is. Do you really think that picking a fight with her is going to make you the better person? Sorry, the answer to that is no. It would be so much easier to just tell her what you want to say to her, to shut up, she annoys you, you don't want to be friends.
Why stoop to such low, low levels? That is just too sad.
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hay
well you have to make sure that you really want to end your friendship first cos you dont want to end up regreting it do you... maybe you could tell her something in secret that you know she will blab to someone else and then deliberatley find out, then you can cause a big fight about trusting her again and end your friendship. Or if that doesnt work you could just drift apart and stop hanging out with her as much... remember if you want to end the relationship so badly, you should not care if it is you who does something to hurts her and she ends the relationship, if anything you will just be glad its over.
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Tell her lies, annoy her, make up stories or just tell her the straight out truth that you don't wanna be friends with her anymore. If she asks why, tell her.
♥T!NA
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Hey,
if you think it's right, it's not stupid.
Do what annoys the hell out of her.
Lie to her. Say that you haven't liked her from the start,
Or make up a story. Tell her that you heard she was talking trash about you? Tell her you want to end it right there.
Hope I helped
Good luck,
-Jam
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