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so i used to have super long hair, and all one length...but i just got it cut.
i play volleyball and i dont know how to do my hair so it doesnt get in my face. i have the kind of bangs that kinda sweep to the side and they never go back in a pony tail....anyideas? we're not allowed to use bobbypins or other metal things (link)
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You can put your hair back in a headband. And if it may look kinda weird put the headband on and stick your hair back in a ponytail. Also hair clips like to pull your hair back, if you are allowed to wear small ones to pull your hair back you could do that too. Good luck!
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My boyfriend and i have been going out since june but a couple of weeks ago i broke up with him bc i heard he was flirting with other girls but then we stated going back out like a week later and the night we started going out again i heard that this new kid...(who is really hot and the smartest kid in our grade and the best at all sports) likes me and i really like him but idk what i would do if me and my bf broke up again because i really do love him and idk what to do because all these guys start liking me this year and i have no idea what to do!! (link)
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You have your choice. But you don't know who to chose? Your boyfriend, was it true that he was flirting with other girls? If so its true that he might do it again and might lead other girls on and so on. You need to talk to your boyfriend about that, you don't know if it is true. And the new kid, you also don't know if that is true. If its just things you heard it might not be true. You have to figure out who you like, really. If need to find out the facts, all this stuff that is going around might not be true. And it could lead to some trouble. First of all figure out what is going on. Second, do you like your boyfriend? Or is this new guy, who is super smart, hot, and the best at sports the guy you like? You should talk to this guy, he might not be all you expected to. I hope everything works out for you.
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here's what you need to know:
i've been with this girl for about 6 months now and we've had a great run, full of it's ups and downs. the problem is that she lives really far from me, we see each other every 2 or 3 weeks, and we argue a lot.
i met this new girl,she lives a couple blocks away, goes to school somewhat near to me, friends say she's into me, and i'm into her to.
how do i let go of my gf if in a solid yet gentle way? i know it's gnna hurt her, but how can i soften the blow?
p.s. my gf really really really really really really likes me, so its guna b hard! (link)
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Well if you can, see your girlfriend in person. The less public the better. Make sure to do it at the right time like if any special occasions or holidays might not be the best.
Keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the breakup, you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate.
Yeah everybody hates being dumped and its gonna be hard but just kind and considerate and it would be a hard relationship if she lives farther away. You may want to tell her over email, phone and such because it is easier and you don't have to look them in the eye. It will be hard but its life, lots of things are hard. If she is an emotional girl who might cry or something, let her cry, scream or whatever she might do. But you both can be friends. I hope everything works out for you.
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I liked this guy, and he ended up liking me back. So we hung out a few times, and I got dared to kiss his friend and so I did. Then he was saying that he thinks I like him and we should go out. So told him I kinda of liked him though, and he said he did too,but he could never really see us as more then friends because whenever we hung out, it was really awkward. :(
I still really like him, and I want to know if theres anyway to get him to like me back again?
The thing is he doesn't really talk as much anymore now that he doesn't like me. What should I do? =\ (link)
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You can't make a guy like you, unfortuantly. You can flirt with him and see how he reacts or maybe just give him some time and maybe he will come to you. Sometimes you can't take it so fast but you also don't want to take everything slow. If you like him then you should still go for him. If he just doesn't like you its his loss and his problem not yours. There are plenty of guys in the world and not everyone will be 'Mr. Perfect' You can still talk to him and take it from there maybe he will warm up to you and things will go the way its supposed to. I hope everything goes well for you.
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well i like my friend as more than a friend and we are like pretty close. he's bi and more into guys than girls. but i guess that means he could still like me haha. so i was wondering what i can do to make myself seem more attractive. we're like super close but i think the thing keeping us from being more is that im not exactly like girly or cute. im more like average kinda scrufy looking haha. i guess the real question here is how do i make myself more hot? i think that maybe if i cut my hair shorter and maybe wore skirts here and there i could be more girly. plus im tired of being a tomboy. its like im hiding behind my appearance because im scared of being myself. i think its time for a confidence boost =]. ok thank you (link)
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Confidence is all you need. You don't have to hide who you are just to get people to think your something your not. If you want to be more girly go ahead. Wearing skirts doesn't always make a girl girly but it does show more feminine side than wearing jeans. And you are doing a good thing for yourself if you want to change for yourself and not for the guy. You don't need to impress a guy just to get their attention. If you act yourself the guy will more come to you than he will if your acting like something your not. And if he does come to you if you aren't yourself, all he likes is a bunch of lies. Just forget about what other people think, this is for yourself and when you are older most people aren't gonna think about what shoes your wore, what clothes you bought, ect. They're most likely gonna think of what you acted like.
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15/f.
So i feel like im loosing my friends i have currently. I have these other friends who i am getting kind of close to. And i made new friends who are friends of my friends. Now two of the people im getting close to I've known since i was a little girl. These friends arent the best, they smoke, they drink, its all about sex. Im not saying i dont drink but i only do it ocassionally. I really would love to hang out with thme because they are real friends, they stick up for me & listen & help me out. But im not up for the whole partying thing, thats basically all they do & know. I would have no problem going to a party, but i just dont get it. I dont know what to do. should i still be friends with them, should i dump them as friends and get different ones, should i talk to them about it? i dont know. any help would be nice. (link)
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I would say personally I wouldn't hang out with them. They would be bad influences in my life. They may be your real friends but if partying and drinking and such is all there life, they aren't gonna go very far and successful with their life. You can still be friends with them but you don't have to dump them like that. Just don't hang around them that much and find some friends that appreciate who you are (not that they don't) and are good influences. You can say hi and such to them but find some good close friends. You know what I mean? Like don't be mean to them and if they ask anything about you not hanging out with them anymore just say that you aren't really into partying alot. And if they accept you because of that, thats when you dump them. But I hope everything works out for you.
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When you love someone, do you love them for the way they make you feel? It seems like an obvious answer. I'm possibly misquoting here, but there is a quote that goes something like:
"Love is the realization that someone other than oneself exists". But if you really think about it, it could lead to an interesting debate... (link)
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You love someone for who they are and how they make you feel basically.
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well theres this guy in my class, and ive known him for about 3 years.
he got alot cuter over the summer, and now were starting to talk more.
and in a way he seems to be kind of flirting.
like he trys to sit by me more and we talk some.
is that kinda flirting?
i dont really know what to always say to him cause im kind of shy when it comes to that.
whats a way i can get more close to him?
and some clues to find out if he likes me? (link)
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To get closer to him just go out of your way and sit next to him and talk.
These are some hints and clues I guess if he likes you or not
1. If he looks at you during class and then looks away, he might be interested.
2. Many guys like it if girls ask him out but he will come around eventually.
3. If he calls you for a homework question, he is flirting and is probably interested.
4. If his friends make fun of you (which they might) he will most likely do the same because he doesn't want to be made fun of.
5. If he tries to make you laugh and makes rapid fire jokes (makes many jokes out of what someone says) he is showing signs of interest.
6. If any of this happens, wait another week or so and start to hangout with him (if you like him). Once you are his friend, he will most likely ask you out within a month. Remember: Guys need time.
All guys are different you can't really tell if a guy likes you for sure.
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I THINK i like this guy but i am not sure if i do. is there a way that you "check" to see if you like someone? Help please! (link)
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I can't tell you if you do like this person or not but you will know.
Are you attracted to him? If you are in what way?
Physically? Or are you attracted to him for his personality?
You think about him alot thinking I wonder if he likes me, ect.
I don't know how really to explain it to you but if you do you will know.
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Im not fat, I just don't have any muscle definition. I want to not be jiggly and have firm arms, legs, butt, and abs. What can I do to get rid of the layer of flab thats holding me back and build up some muscle? I don't want to be a body builder here, just a little defined. Specific exercises, amount of time I should exercise, what foods are good for losing weight and building muscle (I have a pretty good understanding of what to and what not to eat) etc.
If it helps, I'm 5'3-5'4 and roughly 130lbs.
Thank you! (link)
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Well exercise like run, jog and such. Go for sports that sound interesting. Drink water and juices and milk. But just stay active and things should go good for you.
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me and this one guy like eachother alotttt!
heres the story..
we liked eachother
but he has a girlfriend and she was the most horrible girlfriend to him so they broke up
and he started to like me and we went out
it was amazing but we fought way to much and he got mad at me just caue i would like talk to guys and i got sick of it cause i have a right to jsut talk to guys not doing anything else
so i broke up with him
and it was a mistake and then we still liked eachother then he went behind my back and went out with this other girl and we like hated eachother but i still loved him more then anything
then he broke up with her caue he wanted me back and no here we are.
he tells me everyday how much i hurt him and lied to him ad broke pormises.
and i admit i did
but hes over exsaderating (sp? haha) and i know ididnt hurt him that much
he is a very emotional person and i really want to prove to him that i can do it and keep my promises and be trusting
can anyone help me?
sorry if our story is confusing cause it is but like i just need help on earning my trust back and so we can maybe start something again because i miss him more then anything and love him so much.
thanks! :] (link)
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You should just talk to him about that and if you got back together with him that you can still talk to guys because you have the right to. And it hurts both of you not just him, he needs to realize that too. Nobody is perfect so you can't expect him to meet all your needs and he can't with you either. So even if he is an emotional person and goes on and on just talk to him about it and if he is not ok with it just forget about him and move on. There are plenty of other guys and he may or may not be the perfect guy for you. But I hope everything goes well for you!
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i'm so confused. in all of the credits of high school musical 2 and when they list the actors they always list Matthew Miles Carter as Trevor Bolton.
who is he? i don't remember troy having a brother in the movie? (link)
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I think that was Troys dad. Oh and by the way I think I found out he was a back up dancer and they listed him as a main character but he is just an extra
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this guy that i like went to mexico and is coming back tomorrow..
and before he left we were getting really close. and he kissed me
before he left. but hes not the hook up type or whatever. so i was
just wondering what you think.. do u think we will be the same when
he gets back? or no?? and he promised was gonna tell me this one
"secret" which my friend told him to ask me out. .and he promised he
would tell me when he got back...so i hope he does *knock on wood*
but idkk i just want to know what a lot of other people think?? (link)
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So far it sounds like he likes you if he was gonna tell you a secret. So the way he felt for you probably didn't change unless he left not interested with you and comes back liking you. So thats what I think but nobody can be sure but him.
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Well Me & This Guy Lets Call Him Light Me and him has been talkin about datin for about maybe a month now and he would do anything in this world for me he is relly sweet and i relly like him and he says he loves me we have neva dated before we lost contact with each other about 2 years or so agao and now we got back in contact so he said he aint gonna lose me so what do you think but today my ex called that was engaged to we aint talked sence we broke up relly and he wants me back he said he relized he made a mistake so yeah i dont know what to do my sister hates my ex that i was engaged to what to u think i should do im so confused..oh and my ex dumped his woman for me!. (link)
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Ok yeah you like both of them right? I can't tell you who you should like but you need to think about this. I don't know these guys so I can't say who is the right guy for you but I can say everybody's different so choose the one that you know will make you happier. And think about this, I have no idea if your ex dumped you or you dumped him but if he dumped you what will make you think he might not do it again and if you dumped him, why did you? There had to have been a reason. And the other one, you should get to know him or else you might realize that he isn't the right one before it is to late and then you will be going through some drama. So basically what I am saying is choose the right guy and look at them closely.
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i think i depend on others for happiness.
i started dating this guy that my friend likes. and i think she got very jealous.
from then on, she's been very mean to me. and a month ago, she told me why she had been mean. which is because i left her party early, after i had already been there for a few hours, to hang out with my boyfriend because everyone at the party was stoned. and it was just boring. and i wanted to see my boyfriend.
and then she said i was too clingy. and she thinks im "boy crazy", which isn't like me at all.
we cleared everything up. she said she would be more honest with me in the future, and i apologized if she felt like i was ditching her.
she always bitches at me whenever i go somewhere with robert, and leave with him. and shes there too, but she came with someone else.
she says hes controlling my life. but hes not. not at all. i feel like i'm pushing him around- he only wants what i want. not him pushing me around.
even though we cleared everything up, its still awkward between us.
i wish i could just cut her out of my life, because she really doesn't understand- but shes my only friend at school.
ive tried talking to her a million times. i dont know what to do.
im 16, friend is 17, boyfriend 18 (link)
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I agree with the one below. Its your choice. Is this a real friendship and is she your only friend because she is the only friend at school. You also need to talk to her again whether she understands or not. Just try and make her understand and hope it works. Also there are plenty of other girls at school you can make friends with. But also I hope everything goes well for you.
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I need help. Im a 16 yr old male going to be a junior this coming up school year. I love to run. I wanted to join Cross Country. The only thing thats holding me back is my best friend. He thinks if I join we wont be best friends. He thinks Ill meet loads of new friends, and those friends will be the wrong ones. I want to join cross country but I dont want to loose our friendship. His old best friend said he would stick with him when he joined football but never did, he forgot about him and was a total different person
Thanks
Kc (link)
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Don't let your friend influence you. Cross Counrty is a good thing. You can still be best friends with him even if you do join cross country. Just because when his friend joined football and they weren't close anymore doesn't mean it would be the same for you. And you probably will meet new people and become friends with them and that is a good thing. That would also mean that you will have some good friends that share the same interests as you. And your new friends might become friends with your friend and so you will still be good friends with him. So good luck and I hope you have fun!
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Okay, I have very thick, sorta-curly, a little bit longer than shoulder length hair. I can hardly scrunch it anymore, and its too thick to put in a bun. But I can straighten it. I usually just put it up in a ponytail, but I'm getting tired of that. I need some hairstyles that are pretty easy to do, and cute. Any help? (link)
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Well straightening it and leaving it down also lets see. There are so many cute acessories for hair. headbands, hair scrunchies, (like you can put it back a different way instead of ponytail) clips. You can try those and see how they look. I hope I helped
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okay to make a long story short me and my ex have been dating for 2 years and a month and we just recently broke up but when we were on and off we both were talking to other people i love my ex to death and i want to be with him but the thing is i like this other boy at the same time. and i know my ex talks to other girls today we talked about being truthfull to each other and letting each other know everything that went on. I kissed this other boy and lied to my ex and told him i didnt do anything because i know it would break his heart. I feel so guilty but i cant stand to tell him. What can i do to not feel guilty i feel so bad but then again we werent together but we are trying to staart over. What can i do? (link)
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Well if your trying to start over again then you should unless you don't like him alot. And you say that you like this other guy too? Well if you get back together with your ex then what are you gonna do about the other guy. If you like another guy I don't think getting back together with your ex is a good idea. I know life is confusing and especially if it has to do with guys. But if you are completely over this other guy then you should get together with your ex and work things out and then tell him what went on. I mean you were single and you weren't commited so just tell him and he should be ok with it to know you won't do that while you are with him. But if you do still like this other guy tell your ex to wait for a while so you can sort out your feelings. But I hope everything goes well for you
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could someone tell me a few ways to gain more confidence in myself?? (link)
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Confidence is the feeling that you are sure you can complete a difficult or even dangerous task. You ask yourself, "Can I do it?" and then answer, "I sure can."
The way to gain confidence is to:
1. Break tasks into smaller units,
2. Acknowledge your success for each step, and
3. Learn from your mistakes to re-enforce your confidence.
1. Before you set out to perform a task or try to achieve a goal, you must realize that the activity is really a series of smaller steps. This is a basic concept in any type of project planning. Thus, instead of waiting until the end to determine if you are successful, you have a series of successes, leading up to the finish.
2.For each one of these steps or mini-tasks, you must acknowledge your success. Congratulate yourself each time you succeed. If you don't do well, correct your error. Take care about admonishing yourself, except in extreme cases.
3.This self-talk will re-enforce your acknowledgment of your abilities and increase your confidence as you go along on achieving the greater goal.
You can build your confidence by acknowledging your successes for each step along the way to trying to achieve a goal. The self-congratulations will build and re-enforce your confidence along the way to feeling like a champion.
I hope everything works out for you.
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ok so (not trying to brag or anything) but im a really good singer, and i want to sing and play stuff like the rocket summer but my voice gets all weird when i go for not the reeally high ones but like in between idk. hah (link)
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I don't know what your question is but I can't sing really high either. I sing alto or melody and a little higher but I can't sing like super high. Some peoples voices can't go high. What you really need to do is to train your voice to sing high. You should take singing lessons and they will tell you where your voice is at. And they will help you sing higher.
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