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this one guy
me and this one guy like eachother alotttt!
heres the story..
we liked eachother
but he has a girlfriend and she was the most horrible girlfriend to him so they broke up
and he started to like me and we went out
it was amazing but we fought way to much and he got mad at me just caue i would like talk to guys and i got sick of it cause i have a right to jsut talk to guys not doing anything else
so i broke up with him
and it was a mistake and then we still liked eachother then he went behind my back and went out with this other girl and we like hated eachother but i still loved him more then anything
then he broke up with her caue he wanted me back and no here we are.
he tells me everyday how much i hurt him and lied to him ad broke pormises.
and i admit i did
but hes over exsaderating (sp? haha) and i know ididnt hurt him that much
he is a very emotional person and i really want to prove to him that i can do it and keep my promises and be trusting
can anyone help me?
sorry if our story is confusing cause it is but like i just need help on earning my trust back and so we can maybe start something again because i miss him more then anything and love him so much.
thanks! :]
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It's obvious that you are well interntioned, but if you want to get back together with him, you have to actually be there for him. Liking him isn't enough. It doesn't matter if you didn't hurt him "that much", you still hurt him. You don't date someone and flirt with other guys. You just don't. You don't lie to the person you're with. You just don't. From what I read it sounds like you would do the same thing again. You keep blaming your mistakes on him, "he's exagerrating", "he's emotional", etc. Maybe if you started taking responsibility for your actions he would have reason to trust you.
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You should just talk to him about that and if you got back together with him that you can still talk to guys because you have the right to. And it hurts both of you not just him, he needs to realize that too. Nobody is perfect so you can't expect him to meet all your needs and he can't with you either. So even if he is an emotional person and goes on and on just talk to him about it and if he is not ok with it just forget about him and move on. There are plenty of other guys and he may or may not be the perfect guy for you. But I hope everything goes well for you!
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