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When you love someone..?
When you love someone, do you love them for the way they make you feel? It seems like an obvious answer. I'm possibly misquoting here, but there is a quote that goes something like:
"Love is the realization that someone other than oneself exists". But if you really think about it, it could lead to an interesting debate...
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ohmygod...this is a huge topic isn't it?
so what i know about love is that there are two types of love:
The Full On Crush: when you fall in love with a person you barely know because of the passion between the two of you. when you fall in love with someone because of who you think they are not because of who the really are. when you fall in love because you're basically in idea with the idea of being in love. when you cant get him/her out of your head but that's only cuz he/she's exciting...
The True Love: when you fall in love with someone truly and completely. when you aren't just not bothered by his/her bad qualities but when you see them as clearly as his/her good qualities and accept them with all of it. when you love with heart, soul, mind and body and not only do you know that you'd die without them, you die a little bit inside when you even try to imagine it.
someone once said:
"You like someone when you think he is as funny as Woody Allen, as wise as Albert Einstein and as sexy as Brad Pitt.
But love is when you *know* someone is as wise as Brad Pitt, as funny as Albert Einstein and as sexy as Woody Allen, but you love him anyway..."
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Why do I love my girlfriend.
I love her because she understands me.
I love her because after almost 3 years of being together she has seen all of my bad points and still loves me.
I love her because the sex is fantastic.
I love her because she is the easiest person to talk to Ive ever met.
I love her because she sometimes is able to pick up on jokes I make that I dont expect anyone but me to get.
I love her because she makes me smile.
I love her because she makes me feel important.
I love her because she is willing to babysit my sometimes fragile ego.
People love other people because they have personal needs, and they find a person who fills those needs well and willingly. Everyone has a need to be loved. A need to feel like someone considers you important.
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You love someone for who they are and how they make you feel basically.
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When you love someone, it is because of the way they make you feel, as well as everything else about them. It is because you are one even though you are separate people. You know, that kind of stuff.
Realistically, WELCOME TO THE WORLD is the realization that someone other than oneself exists. ;)
You are very right. It would make for a good debate.
ygs-29/f
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