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like my friend
14/f
well i like my friend as more than a friend and we are like pretty close. he's bi and more into guys than girls. but i guess that means he could still like me haha. so i was wondering what i can do to make myself seem more attractive. we're like super close but i think the thing keeping us from being more is that im not exactly like girly or cute. im more like average kinda scrufy looking haha. i guess the real question here is how do i make myself more hot? i think that maybe if i cut my hair shorter and maybe wore skirts here and there i could be more girly. plus im tired of being a tomboy. its like im hiding behind my appearance because im scared of being myself. i think its time for a confidence boost =]. ok thank you
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Wearing short skirts does NOT equal confidance. Actually, it screams insecurity and a lack of understanding of how the world works. Becides, if he's more into guys, that's probably the reason he doesn't like you that way. You are NOT a guy, and dressing more girly isn't going to make him believe you are one. I have no idea where your logic is coming from.
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Confidence is all you need. You don't have to hide who you are just to get people to think your something your not. If you want to be more girly go ahead. Wearing skirts doesn't always make a girl girly but it does show more feminine side than wearing jeans. And you are doing a good thing for yourself if you want to change for yourself and not for the guy. You don't need to impress a guy just to get their attention. If you act yourself the guy will more come to you than he will if your acting like something your not. And if he does come to you if you aren't yourself, all he likes is a bunch of lies. Just forget about what other people think, this is for yourself and when you are older most people aren't gonna think about what shoes your wore, what clothes you bought, ect. They're most likely gonna think of what you acted like.
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