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I liked this guy, and he ended up liking me back. So we hung out a few times, and I got dared to kiss his friend and so I did. Then he was saying that he thinks I like him and we should go out. So told him I kinda of liked him though, and he said he did too,but he could never really see us as more then friends because whenever we hung out, it was really awkward. :(
I still really like him, and I want to know if theres anyway to get him to like me back again?
The thing is he doesn't really talk as much anymore now that he doesn't like me. What should I do? =\
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Getting a guy to like you shouldn't be work. If it is, it's usually one of two things. Circumstantial: He's too focused on his friends or the game or grades or whatever to see you for who you truly are. Or something happened: Like the chick he was into kissed some other guy. "Oh wait a minute, I don't think I want to give her my heart after all." (My words, not his; don't think 100% that he thought that.)
Kissing his friend was a mistake though. A big one. I would say talk to him about it and see how he REALLY feels about you. The only problem with that is most guys don't like to talk, and like talking abou thier feelings even less. So my peice of advice is this: Tell him how YOU feel. Tell him how you really feel about him: Put it all on the table. Then a million things can happen. He can act the same, he can freak out, he can clam up, bottle up, blow up, he can say "okay, let's give it a shot", he can say "oh i never knew you felt that way", he can start bawling (tears of happiness or sadness), or he can do that one-millionth-thing: He can tell you how he feels back. At least at this point you put the ball in his court. If he's got the ball and doesn't do anything with it, he's not worth your time.
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You can't make a guy like you, unfortuantly. You can flirt with him and see how he reacts or maybe just give him some time and maybe he will come to you. Sometimes you can't take it so fast but you also don't want to take everything slow. If you like him then you should still go for him. If he just doesn't like you its his loss and his problem not yours. There are plenty of guys in the world and not everyone will be 'Mr. Perfect' You can still talk to him and take it from there maybe he will warm up to you and things will go the way its supposed to. I hope everything goes well for you.
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