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best friend.
okay sorry this is so long,
i met my best friend jess now 4 years ago. best friends since with only a few fights here and there over stupid things.everyone knows we fight then are best friends again. well 8months ago she found this kid and fell head over heals for him. he was a jerk to me and i started being one to him and i hated him and i told her that many times. well we started fighting more and more like once a week over things all leading back to her boyfriend and stuff. now its been almost a year and she has been changing more and more. she used to be the perfect best friend the one everyone dreams about. now she couldnt be worse. lets just say i have a 34 just about c cup and the friends she invites over are pervs and well they somehow started grabbing my boobs, it didnt really bother me for some reason but it bothered jess. the other night she had 8 guys over and all of them were on me i couldnt do anything it was 8-1 but she FLIPPED out. friday night there were a few people over and one of them wanted to play spin the bottle for whatever reason and (before everyone got there she got mad at her bf because he got grounded but was able to go over that night but he was with his friends so she was like oh im gonna flirt so much tonight and said it again when we got home) well she didnt play and was by herself so i was like jess come play! and she started screaming at me in front of everyone! well that was it she was pissed at me all ngiht. so last night she imed me and i had been ignoring her in school not that i see her much but i didnt even look at her whe i did. and we got into a major fight, she was saying im turning into the typical "freshman sluts" and that ive changed and my morals are messed up and that i care more about the guy next to me than my girlfriends (totally not true i could care less about the guy next to me) none of that was true at all! all that stuff is true to her like shes becoming the slut and cares about the guy next to her. not me, everythign she said about me was what i would say about her!! shes losing her good friends shes had for years like me and she doesnt realize it, ive tried talking to her but she doesnt believe me and other people have to and it ends up with us fighting. i dont know how to change her back since i cant talk to her. i just wasnt o have her and her bf break up and get things back to normal
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i think everyone is different and everyone has there one personality. i think you should really tell her how you feel. ive had friends like that. dont worry she will either come back to you or go farther away. there is nothing you can do. just stick with yuor ither friends for a while. but i think you should really tell her how you feel.
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Okay, you need a major reality check. You are being a horrible friend, on many levels. Let's just start with the part where you said your friend is a slut. That is just plain wrong. Her having a boyfriend doesn't make her a slut. Actually, having a boyfriend is perfectly moral and accepted in our society. However, letting eight guys on you at once, letting random "pervs" touch you and playing spin the bottle and then flaunting it in your friend's face, well yeah, that's just plain messed up. It's obvious you are jealous because your friend has an actual relationship while you are being used as a squeeze toy. To be honest, that's your own fault. You deserve much better than what you are accepting from guys. As far as her putting her boyfriend above you, that is probably a wise decision, given the fact that you are acting so immature.
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I have been through issues like that and no matter what it never ends the way you want. These things happen to alot of friendships once people hit high school because people change and mature not always for the best. I mean it seem's she's letting high school and her boyfriend come between your friendship. If she's willing to let that happen to your friendship then it must not have ment that much to her and you are better without her in your life.
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