Question Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 11:04 pm
My boyfriend and i have been going out since june but a couple of weeks ago i broke up with him bc i heard he was flirting with other girls but then we stated going back out like a week later and the night we started going out again i heard that this new kid...(who is really hot and the smartest kid in our grade and the best at all sports) likes me and i really like him but idk what i would do if me and my bf broke up again because i really do love him and idk what to do because all these guys start liking me this year and i have no idea what to do!!
katie_babey answered Thursday October 4 2007, 1:32 pm: dont break up with your bf because some hott guy came around thats really mean to do to him esp. if he loves you and if you love him. If your even thinking about doing that then that means you really dont love him or your confused. just because all these guys start to like you doesnt mean you have to go out with all of them and if you like this new kid and you break up with your bf that you love it might turn out a mistake like he might turn out something that you dont like and then you have no one because you let your bf go. You have to think that threw and see how your feeling. Like are you willing to take a risk by dating someone else? let me know how things go and i hope i helped you [ katie_babey's advice column | Ask katie_babey A Question ]
Lola answered Thursday October 4 2007, 8:39 am: No don't break up with your boyfriend, stick around with him. Cause was it definitely true that he was flirting with others, or was it just another everyday rumor???
Here you guys love each other ,and although you heard stuff, none said it was true or not, but you still were given a chance, to work things out, and get back together, then take advantage of that and make the best out of it.
And if you hear anything else of such,and make sure its true, then you have all the right to back out, and break up, and screw any other chances with this guy, that'll come your way.
About that other new kid that you said likes you and stuff, you can be good friends with him. Tell him your already involved now, if he asks you out, but you can still hang out with him as good friends, and have small talks and check up on each other.Just Maintain good relations with everyone, but at the end, your boyfriend is your boyfriend, and you love him and he loves you, so focus here on that. And then if you break up and stuff, you can do whatever you want with whoever you choose.
Thats my opinion, if you need any other help, please be free to contact me. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
Chivalrous answered Thursday October 4 2007, 2:21 am: Pretty much those two said what I was going to say: Do your homework before you make a decision. The only thing I can add is that it would be pretty mean to jerk your boyfriend around like that if you were wrong, don't you think?
Also, you have plenty of time to date whoever it is you want to date. Never date more than one at a time. LOL.
kiran answered Thursday October 4 2007, 2:12 am: You have your choice. But you don't know who to chose? Your boyfriend, was it true that he was flirting with other girls? If so its true that he might do it again and might lead other girls on and so on. You need to talk to your boyfriend about that, you don't know if it is true. And the new kid, you also don't know if that is true. If its just things you heard it might not be true. You have to figure out who you like, really. If need to find out the facts, all this stuff that is going around might not be true. And it could lead to some trouble. First of all figure out what is going on. Second, do you like your boyfriend? Or is this new guy, who is super smart, hot, and the best at sports the guy you like? You should talk to this guy, he might not be all you expected to. I hope everything works out for you. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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