okay to make a long story short me and my ex have been dating for 2 years and a month and we just recently broke up but when we were on and off we both were talking to other people i love my ex to death and i want to be with him but the thing is i like this other boy at the same time. and i know my ex talks to other girls today we talked about being truthfull to each other and letting each other know everything that went on. I kissed this other boy and lied to my ex and told him i didnt do anything because i know it would break his heart. I feel so guilty but i cant stand to tell him. What can i do to not feel guilty i feel so bad but then again we werent together but we are trying to staart over. What can i do?
How do you know it would break his heart? If hes talking to other girls, hes probably doing just fine. And he moved on, just like it seems you have too.
Don't start over. Just tell him you guys need some space, to figure out what you really want. Because it seems you too are both confused about your feelings for eachother, and others. Figure out your feelings, and when you figure out who you really like, and you find out its him, then tell him. But, intill them, take some time off from eachother. [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
kiran answered Saturday July 28 2007, 12:05 am: Well if your trying to start over again then you should unless you don't like him alot. And you say that you like this other guy too? Well if you get back together with your ex then what are you gonna do about the other guy. If you like another guy I don't think getting back together with your ex is a good idea. I know life is confusing and especially if it has to do with guys. But if you are completely over this other guy then you should get together with your ex and work things out and then tell him what went on. I mean you were single and you weren't commited so just tell him and he should be ok with it to know you won't do that while you are with him. But if you do still like this other guy tell your ex to wait for a while so you can sort out your feelings. But I hope everything goes well for you [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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