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My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.

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ok. i should be on the period like RIGHT NOW. but i'm not. i haven't had sex or anything but it's late. can someone explain why. thanks.

like the person said below me, it depends on your age. most teens periods are kind of off balance until they've had it for a a few years. of course, you might also be stressed about something going on in your family life, school life, or just plain...life.

hope i helped :)

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ok so im thinking about changing my look to like the surf /beachy kinda thing. but i was just wondering is that a turn-on for guys? i know all guys are different but if your a guy can you give me your opinion? or if your a and you know any guys who don't/do like it can you tell me about it? thanks.

i'm not a guy, but i personally think its all up to you on how you want to dress. :)

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how do you know that you have black heads? cuz i have black dots on my nose and my aunt keep talking about buying me medicine but i looked really close in the mirror and it seems that it's hair because one time this girl leaned really close to look at my face and she asked if i shave my nose =(

black heads are little tiny block dots. they're not very noticable until you really come up close, and make up doesn't really do it no good (it makes it worse, in a way). try buying some blackhead pads (i'm not sure what they're called, but they're made by most face-wash companies.)

hope i helped :)

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whats the diff bewteen a zit and a pimple?

i don't think there is a difference..

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last friday i was with these guy, and i had drank a bit and , onething lef to anothe, and so we finished kissing. the problem is that he is a firends`s ex guy. they had been togehter for two months or more, but these was like a year ago. this friend of mine is not here, se went on holidays, and she wont be back until next week.
i know i have to tell her about these episode, but, how can i do it????????? help meeee

well, like the person below me said, explain to her that you were drunk when you kissed him. she should understand. you shouldn't be so worried about it either...unless you know if she still has feelings for her ex? either way, she should understand that you were drunk and weren't thinking properly.

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thanks for awnsering my last question but to all the people that didnt read i have a crush on this boy name anthony and all my friends think he likes me back anyways he has a girlfriend how 'bout if he makes a move and i let him what should i do HELP

you shouldn't let him make a move on you. he has a girlfriend, remember that. she will hate you if she ever found out. and in guy world, most of them go around flirting with other girls, but in the end, there's only one girl they care about most. so basically, i wouldn't make a move until you KNOW he's single.

hope i helped :)

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ok im having a party. i've tried loosing weight for like a month or two, but sometimes i have like instead of writers block, like weight loss block hehe. but my party is in about a month. i just wanna loose ten pounds. i tried on my dress and it looks beautiful, but i really want to loose ten pounds. i really need tips and tricks so i was wondering if you guys can please please please help me out. it's not like i've been slacking on dieting, but maybe I just haven't been dieting correctly. any helps?

well if you've been sticking to your diet, have you lost any weight at all? have you been doing any excersises like walking, running, cruches, etc? doing crunches or situps might help you loose your gut. thats what i'm currently doing right now, and i'm already down an inch :)

hope i helped :D

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Ok so I'm gonna keep this short and simple.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and everytime I see her I fall more and more in love with her. She don't like me back. I'm a very emotional person so it hurts that I can't be with her like that. I have stopped talking to her to get over her. But she and I dont wanna lose our friendship. How do I get over her and be her friend?

try hanging out with other girls that might like you. you don't have to go around rubbing it all up in her face that you made new friends. maybe you two can start talking a little more and hanging out a little less. (yes confusing, but it may work.)

i wish i could give you further advice. but thats the best i could do :)

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Is there a way on AIM to make a persons screen name appear as something else? Like if their screen name was 2jkgLJ and I wanted to make it, "Laura Johnson", can I do this? If so, how?

no. you can't change screennames on aim. you can make a new one..but you can't change it.
if you wanted to change 2jkgLJ to lowercase or uppercase letters, you could. but changing it to Laura Johnson..i'm pretty sure you can't do that.

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okay so i'm a little scared i'm 13f and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i havn't even started my period yet and i'm afraid if i have it with him something bad might happen can someone please help me i'm afraid.

okay.
1. your 13. you should wait.
2. if you havn't had your period yet. you definitly SHOULD NOT have sex. it could really screw you up.
3. just wait until you know your ready. you should've have sex just because your boyfriend wants to. chances are, you won't be with him forever (since your thirteen), and when u actually do want to have sex, you want to at least have that feeling like your going to be with him forever.

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is it possible to get pregnant if u get raped?

yes it is possible. rape is the same as having sex. just rape is being forced into it.

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Okay, this is iffy. There's A and B. We're all girls in 9th grade. Last year, we were all good friends. But A started to be a scene and a total *beep* and B was just..uhg. So this year I'm pulling away from them.

There was this whole little drama abuot A "cutting" (which were little paper cuts) and B doing drugs. B stopped A from "cutting" but A tried drugs twice before saying she didn't like it. B is doing drugs...and I mean serious drugs. Apparently, A told B that she'd tell the counslor that B was doing drugs unless B stopped. Now B is mad because A said she was going to tell. And me, I'm stuck in the middle. Both of them come to me at random times saying "She said this and that!" and B is really snappy to people accusing them of being on A's side and A is getting "depressed" because her best friend is mad at her. And I'm still stuck in the middle for some reason. Both of them will get mad at me if I agree with the other or stay neutral, etc.

My question is how do I get ymself out? I've already told A to tell B "I'd rather lose a friendship than a friend" but I don'tt know how that went. And another thing...does B have the right to be so pissy at A? I mean, B did bring this upon herself. A is just looking out for B telling her she's making a big mistake. B brought this upon herself and she's blaming the consequences she brought upon herself on someone who's trying to help. I just want different points of view on this. Thanks

well. its a good thing that B cared about A cutting herself. and its a good thing that A cares about B doing drugs. yes, i do think that B is being a tad bit unreasonable in this situation. if i was A i would've done the same thing. but i don't think A should be cutting herself, its dangerous. and B doing drugs is even more dangerous, and if they're freshmen, they shouldn't be getting into that ALREADY.. its a good thing your' trying to pull away from them. try ur best to stay out of it. but if things come to worst, you have to tell a trusted adult about this problem. a guidance counslor maybe? they can help you with these sort of issues with your friends. if not, hopefully, they will grow up eventually.

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o.k., so i have this friend, let us call her "t" well she is fake signing my name on things she dose not want anybody to know about!! and she called me badgirl on one of her questions!!! i don't know what i should do!!! pleasse help!! and fast, she will be here in 15 minutes!!!!!! thanks for anything you can give to me!!!

well, you didn't really give enough information about what was going on. do u mean..that she's been fake around you? if she's been fake, then she isn't worth the time. you don't have to be mean to her about being fake or anything. just hang out with different' people? and..badgirl on the questions for? a survey? well..if your not a 'badgirl' she was probably just kidding or something.

i wasn't sure on what you were asking in this question..so really, this is the best i can do..

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i've been on the pill for almost a year.. and i got my period when im not supposed to. what does this mean? could it mean im pregnant??

no. if you've got your period, you can't get pregnant. if you skip your period it could mean your prepgnant. but you got it. so your fine.

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okay so last month i had a few drops of blood..barely any tho. but i dont know if i started or not. i havent had anything since then. does anyone know if i started or not?

well it all depends on if you had it before or not. if its your first time getting the period, the same thing happened to me at first. then the next month i got more of a flow.

but if you've had it before, then the reason why its so little is probably because of some sort of stress.

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you just answered my question : losing weighhhht and i was jwing every 2 weeks ill lose a jean size too, ont he special k diet ?

well loosing 6lbs=one jean size less.

which is basically an inch off your waist
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is it okay for a girl to ask a boy for his cell number

i don't see a problem with it.

i did it with the guy i liked, and i only called it once. haha.

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im 15/f and i weight 137 and i amm like 5'3 or 5'2 and i wanna get down to 110-115 ppounds before bathing suit season and i wanna get a flat stomach so if anyone can think of a good diet or w.e thatd be greatt..thankyouuuu !

try the special k diet.

it works for me :)

all you do is eat two bowls of Special K, and then the third meal can be whatever (just under 500 calories though). and you can loose up to 6lbs (a jean size) in two weeks!

yup yup. that great :D

as for excersises, just do some push ups and take a thirty minute walk every day/every other day.

hope i helped :)

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I took a break and now I'd like to play again.. but I can't install Ragnarok.

I click on ragnarok.exe and it doesn't do anything. Eventually the folder that it is in goes (Not Responding) and I have to reboot.


I've re-downloaded the file about five times and it still doesn't work.

I used both Firefox and Internet Explorer. And I also tried the full download and the incremental files.

I also cleared cache as some people said to do on the iRO's BBS but it doesn't do anything.


What can I do to make it work?

And for some reason, I cannot post on iRO's BBS. D: Know why that may be?

you might need a newer computer. i used to play ragnarok, but then my computer crashed and i couldn 't get it on my older one.

find an older version maybe? i'm not sure..i havn't downloaded it in awhile.

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I used to excercise 1 hour before I eat but actually I don't think my stomache digested the food in an hour because I get a stomache ache so I started excercising right before I eat my meals and my Dad told me to stop because it's unhealthy. I need a professional to answer this one. If it's not healthy to excercise right before eating lunch, then when is it a good time to excercise?

you can work out right after you eat.
it will build up your metabolism (sp) and you won't get those stomache ache's anymore.

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