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A and B
Okay, this is iffy. There's A and B. We're all girls in 9th grade. Last year, we were all good friends. But A started to be a scene and a total *beep* and B was just..uhg. So this year I'm pulling away from them.
There was this whole little drama abuot A "cutting" (which were little paper cuts) and B doing drugs. B stopped A from "cutting" but A tried drugs twice before saying she didn't like it. B is doing drugs...and I mean serious drugs. Apparently, A told B that she'd tell the counslor that B was doing drugs unless B stopped. Now B is mad because A said she was going to tell. And me, I'm stuck in the middle. Both of them come to me at random times saying "She said this and that!" and B is really snappy to people accusing them of being on A's side and A is getting "depressed" because her best friend is mad at her. And I'm still stuck in the middle for some reason. Both of them will get mad at me if I agree with the other or stay neutral, etc.
My question is how do I get ymself out? I've already told A to tell B "I'd rather lose a friendship than a friend" but I don'tt know how that went. And another thing...does B have the right to be so pissy at A? I mean, B did bring this upon herself. A is just looking out for B telling her she's making a big mistake. B brought this upon herself and she's blaming the consequences she brought upon herself on someone who's trying to help. I just want different points of view on this. Thanks
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you need to realize that you are neither A or B, you are C. If you do not favor these girls, find new friends...blow them off. refer both girls to the counselor...anonymously...then search for some new compadres who aren't into cutting or drugs. don't let A and B hold you down.
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i think A tellin B she waz goin to a counslor was stupid cause B see it as A taken away wat makes her feel good.so if she really cared she would just straight up do it and i kno she waz tryin to protect her by tellin her wat she waz gonna do but B really takes it as a threat.i kno yall care 4 her but there's sum reason why she started doin drugs n yall need 2 find out wat that reason is.den try to help her.if dat don't work tell a counslor.if her problem ends up bein fixed then in the future she'll thank yall 4 not givin up on her and not touch drugs again.
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well. its a good thing that B cared about A cutting herself. and its a good thing that A cares about B doing drugs. yes, i do think that B is being a tad bit unreasonable in this situation. if i was A i would've done the same thing. but i don't think A should be cutting herself, its dangerous. and B doing drugs is even more dangerous, and if they're freshmen, they shouldn't be getting into that ALREADY.. its a good thing your' trying to pull away from them. try ur best to stay out of it. but if things come to worst, you have to tell a trusted adult about this problem. a guidance counslor maybe? they can help you with these sort of issues with your friends. if not, hopefully, they will grow up eventually.
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