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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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eagles or patriots??????...i think patriots all the way but how bout all u guys??

from what i've heard... patriots

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Im just wondering how i can see what people rated my ideas after i gave them advice...if sum 1 could just show me how that works, cuz ppl are saying that they rate good so im wondering also why that is important

go to your advice column and click on the 'view feedback' button. a 5 is good and a 1 is crap.

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well, i'm into the whole punk-rock scean. the real stuff (anti-flag, bouncing souls ect.) but anyway my friends aren't they think they are so cool because they listen to Jessica Simpson. So i've kinda grown away from my chick friends and started hanging out with guys but i need some chick friends around to help with the boy troubles and what not. But i can't have a conversation with them without them either getting mad at me or judging me. it really pisses me off.

if you dont get along with your girl friends dont hang out with them. f you rather hang out with guys... good for you. if you really need to ask questions, just ask me. if u dont wanna ask me then i'm sure there are tons of girls on here that would love to help. good luck babe!

~ANGE

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I'm in love with my boyfriend.. but he used to be best friends with my ex boyfriend. Me and my ex are friends but my boyfriend told me if i talk to him he would get pissed.. but i feel bad because i would have to like ignore my ex.. what should i do?

it all depends on wether you are willing to lose a friendship for a guy. i'd hope not! just tell your b/f that your ex is a friend only and that if he doesnt want to accept that then get rid of him and find a man who will.

~ANGE

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ok well ive been goin out wit this guy 4 about 2/3 months and we still didnt kiss he alwayz sayz he is gonna kiss me and wen he is wit me he he dont stay by me at all he alwayz makes ^ exuses about y he didnt tak 2 me n stuf i realy like this guy & he tells me he luvs me & he tells his friendz he loves me but i dont this he realy likez me ! he also dont like some of mi friendz i think & he says they r the reason y he dont tak to me and i think it is wrong i am not alowed to have a boyfrend cuz i am only 12 and he alwayz says he wanna hang out n stuff but when we do hang out his frendz alwayz come before me and he ignores me n wen i talk to him about it he says he tried n stuff and im getting tired of it ! i really like him ! so wat do i do !please help mee
is he shy , scared of me or wat?

already answered that one darl!!! lol.

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ok well ive been goin out wit this guy 4 about 2/3 months and we still didnt kiss he alwayz sayz he is gonna kiss me and wen he is wit me he he dont stay by me at all he alwayz makes ^ exuses about y he didnt tak 2 me n stuf i realy like this guy & he tells me he luvs me & he tells his friendz he loves me but i dont this he realy likez me ! he also dont like some of mi friendz i think & he says they r the reason y he dont tak to me and i think it is wrong i am not alowed to have a boyfrend cuz i am only 12 and he alwayz says he wanna hang out n stuff but when we do hang out his frendz alwayz come before me and he ignores me n wen i talk to him about it he says he tried n stuff and im getting tired of it ! i really like him ! so wat do i do !please help mee
is he shy , scared of me or wat?

well, because of your ages i'd say he's shy and scared. he may not have even kissed a girl yet. he prolly dont know what to do. at that age guys act all macho around their friends so dont be surprised if he puts you down in front of them. it a pain in the arse time in your life to date. guys are so immature! think about it... it has been scientifically proven that guys take at least 2 years longer than girls to mature. keep that in mind. and also, this is time for you to have a bunch of fun with your friends. if a relationship with a guy gets in the way of that then leave him. friends stay forever, boyfriends leave when bored. keep that in mind. dont ruin your friendship for him. good luck darl

~ANGE

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hey im having a superbowl party and should i decorate for the patriots or the eagles..(which one of them will win) IM thinking patriots all the way but what about you guys?

patriots! lol

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My boyfriend is in rehab and could be there for up to six months, most likely four months and three weeks. I hang out with his friends and write him letters every day (it's been a little over a week) to help miss him less. My question is, is there anything else I can do to miss him less? What are the chances of me cheating on him? (We were going out for one month when he left he's 17 I'm 14) Has anyone been through this same situation? Please help I'll rate.

well if he is concentration on his rehab then he wouldn't be cheating on you. evenif you dont end up b/f g/f at least stand by him as a friend. he is going through a difficult time so help in any way you can. good luck

~ANGE

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a long while now. I never had the need to come to him with my problems, because up until about a week ago my life was fine. Last week, however, I was going through some problems at home and with friends, and when I talked to him about it, he pretty much blew me off and didnt try to make me feel better at all. The converstation died within a few minutes, and after I hung up, I felt completely hurt. Shouldnt he be the first person I run to when something happens? My girlfriends have such close relationships with their guys that they're both best friends...but now I'm starting to doubt the closesness of the relationship my bf and I have. The friends I've told, told me it looks like he doesnt care and is just using me. I dont want to believe that, but when you feel like you cant come and talk to your guy..what else do you beleive? What do you guys think? What should I do?

my advice is to dump him. if he doesn't show an interest in your life and problems in your life then he is not worth your time. go find a man that you can be friends with too.

~ANGE

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Hey my name is J.B. I am 17 year old male and I really like these two girls at my school. I have asked one out several times but she is always busy. The other girl is not dating anyone else and is also (in my oppinion) the most beautiful girl in school. Im not sure she even notices me. I need some help.
P.S. I love to write poetry and i have used her as inspiration a time or two.

OMG girls love poetry! forget the one you've asked before because if she really liked you she would have made time for you. give the other girl a poem. put it in her locker or something... then if she likes you too... well the ball is in her court.

~ANGE

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i like this girl, but i need to know if she likes me. so how do i know if she likes me?

ask her! slip a little note to her or something... send her flowers for valentines day or something. soon you will get your answer!

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ok im an 18/f.. whenever my boyfriend and i get in arguements i start screaming and cussing at him when im really mad. i usually feel bad about it later cuz i can be so mean.. but i cant calm myself down when i need to. when im really pissed off i dont think about it, i just start yelling. sometimes i feel like its the only way i can get him to listen even though i know it only makes things worse.. what should i do to stop doing this?

when you feel your temper rising, breathe in and out real deeply. just try stay calm... its also good to take up some kind of sport that you can use to vent your anger through... if your not into that, when you go to bed every night scream into your pillow. u need to do something to let out al that bottled up anger or even the slightest thing will set you off and that will scare off your b/f

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Ok, this guy didn't kno what I looked like and my friend pointed me out to him and he still talked to me on AIM, and then I asked him if he saw what I looked like and he said "No I forgot" and then later on another day I asked him "so do u remember what I look like know?" and he said "Yeah I remember now" and then he started talking to me less and less. He never said I was ugly or anything, and he's the type of person to say if ur ugly or not. He didn't say anything. I'm confused! Why is he being this way?!

~ Confused ~

i think your best bet is to ignore him. if he has some kind of problem with you then he can deal with it... dont pester him trying to figure out why, guys are strange ;) somethimes they dont even know why the do things!!! lol.

~ANGE

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Okay...I'm 18, and I have these two certain good friends that I've been friends with for a couple of years. I've been feeling left out lately, because they're going to the same college, and I'm not, and they always talk about it in front of me. We also have this thing where we wait for each other after soccer practice, and lately they've just left without me, talking and laughing all the way. I take this as a sign that they just forget me, and it makes me mad. One of the girls I was good friends with until the other one came along, and now they're best friends. And I'm left out. I keep giving them HUGE hints that they're leaving me out, but they're either too clueless to know, or just don't care. What should I say to them/do??

you have to confront them. if they are purposefuly ditching you then they are not worth having as friends. if they were doing it by accident, suggest you go somwhere together... the three f you. good luck!

~ANGE

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okay my best guy friend and my best girl friend are going out...i really wish them luck..but i cant help but feel jealous...i keep telling myself that i dont like the guy.but every time i see him i melt..the girl invites me to the movies with them but i dont think i could take it..watching them hold hands..is there anything i can do about it..or should i just sit back and watch them go out to the movies and crap right in front of me...i promise ill rate high and i really need help...(13 female)

okay... you could your girl friend how you feel. but she might get a bit angry... you could also look around for another guy. it really depends on what ure friends are like. if i was in that position i would try move on... get another guy and forget about my feelings for my friend. but that could crush you if it doesn't work. i'm sorry... havn't really been that helpful. if you think your girl friend will take it well then talk to her.

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thank you for your advice, it means a lot to me. Keep in touch with me if you really want to know how it works and i will definately let you know!

i'd love to know how it works. if you want you can e-mail me... angiemills88@hotmail.com i have msn too if you've got it.

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I know this is going to sound like a stupid high school crush, but thats what it is i guess, this guy said that he liked me and he asked me out. At the time i didnt like him, i did about a year ago but since we had no classes together and i barely saw him. Now over the past few weeks ive started seeing him in the halls and beginning to like him more. I am very shy unless im with my closest friends and have never told anyone to their face that i like them.I want to know if i shud just wait it out and let it, like all my crushes, slowly fade away or should i tell him how it is?

you should definately tell him how it is. if you dont go for it now then you never will. it's best to ask him to his face because then you get an immediate answer but if you cant, just give him a note. good luck! tell me how it goes.

~ANGE

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OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them?

you shouldn't let other people tell you how and how not to dress. if they are like that then why would you want to be friends? is being popular so important that you lose yourself? my advice is to use your bag and dress how you want and if she doesn't accept that then go find some other friends.

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female
hey guys
well there are a bunch of girls that are best friends in mi class. Lets call them G, J, L, and R.
ok well L is a new girl in mi class this year. She is an aweful person. She talks about G J and R behind their backs. And no one liikes L in the first place. G J R and myself are bffs tho (ever since 2nd grade). Today in skewl everything was crazi. All of us were going crazy because L J and R were all talking about G behing her back and calling her bossy and a B*tch and stuff like that. It happened 2 times TODAY!. the first time i heard but i didnt tell any1 then the second time, G was right there and heard them so she told off L because ever since L came to our school, she has caused all of us to fight at least once. G was totally bummed and it ended up making her cry at the very end of the skewl day. She would NEVER talk about L R or J behind their backs. Now I am afraid because we all are helping out at skewl on sunday with open house for skewl. so right now i'm soo confused and I cant stay out of this because we are only friends with eachother and dont like the other grls as bffs and i just cant stay away from mi friends. They have been in fights b4 but i have a feeling that this is the end of all of us being friends. It is going to split us up. Just talking doesnt help with these girls. Should I totally ignore R and J ?? its kinda hard because just talking and trying to figure things out doesn't help. R and J ALWAYS wait for me to get mi books and walk w/ me to class. And also me and J have a Notebook for passing notes but we write sort of like a diary entry one night at home and then the other person gets the notebook the next nigght and responds w/ a "diary entry"
I'm also very mad at R and J (i was never friends w/ L) because it totally surprise me that they would do something like that. what should i do!?¿¿¿
please help
sorry it was sooo long
signed
bff trooubles

girls are bitches. i know i am one too but it's true. girls are bitches! lol. there is always going to be some little thing causing rifts between friends and the best thing to do is to confront them. tell R and J that you overheard their conversation and you didn't think it was right whet they were doing. say you still wanna be friends but they have to stop with the bitching. what my group used to do is chooze one day a week where we sat in a circle and told each other how we felt. this doesn't work with everyone because some people get upset. but it did work for me. i'm not saying to try it. it's just a suggestion.

~ANGE

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i want to pierce my belly button but im not sure how to. someone who has pierced their belly button and didnt get infected please tell me how to do it and i was planning to pierce it with a safety pin, do you guys think itll work? please help me step by step? thanks!

Do NOT do it yourself. get a professional. once it is done clean it regularly with salty water. i have had mine for 4 years and it hasn't been infected yet!

~ANGE

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