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Does it work?
My boyfriend is in rehab and could be there for up to six months, most likely four months and three weeks. I hang out with his friends and write him letters every day (it's been a little over a week) to help miss him less. My question is, is there anything else I can do to miss him less? What are the chances of me cheating on him? (We were going out for one month when he left he's 17 I'm 14) Has anyone been through this same situation? Please help I'll rate.
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you shouldnt be counting on a guy three years older than you who will be gone for 5-6 months to be just as devoted to you in that time.you need to think about finding someone closer to your age and who you will be able to be with,dont just cheat on him though, make sure he knows that you care and are just worried about your seperation in this time and that you dont think its really gonna work.
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I think the main problem is that you're dating a 17-year-old who's in rehab. You need to find someone closer to your own age and with fewer problems. I don't think its a good idea to tie yourself down to someone like this - it will only be bad for you.
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Sometimes it takes a person to be sent away to get you to see the big picture in your life. First of all you are young and have your whole life to look forward to. Second do you want to spend the rest of time being with someone who is headed to a bad road in their life. Do want to take that same road. The question you need to ask yourself is that does this guy make you want to be a better person. Because it seems like he doesn't want to better himself. Meet other people and see what's out there. You never know. You may find someone that leads you to a more happy road in your life.
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dear .does it work
if you have some of your own friends .you could spend time with them .go see a movie or go shopping with them or something .there is alot of stuff you could do to help you not miss him so much .
i think if you really care about your boyfriend you will not cheat on him.
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I'm in a worse situation. I could never see my "b/f" until next year. Well, I missed him a lot, but I cried and cried and cried until I got it all out. I still feel sad whenever I think of him, but I don't cry EVERY night like I used to. I don't even cry anymore.It only took a month and a half for that to work.
If you really love him, then you won't cheat. Trust me. Hope everything works out! :)
~Diamyn~
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I'm not sure how the whole rehab process works, but I think in a little while you will actually be able to visit him, and talk on the phone, which might make it easier on you. Remeber to stay supportive of him, it will make his stay and sobriety easier, and might help him finish sooner.
As for the chances of you cheating on him, if you don't want to cheat on him you won't. It doesn't just happen; people make conscious decisions to cheat.
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well if he is concentration on his rehab then he wouldn't be cheating on you. evenif you dont end up b/f g/f at least stand by him as a friend. he is going through a difficult time so help in any way you can. good luck
~ANGE
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