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ok not too long ago i put a question up about my b/f but after breakin up with him i took him back and everything is goin fine except...my dad dont like him cuz hes blak and he wants me to dump him..but i dont know what to do?
Um, tell your dad that that's rude and really prejudice and that if that's the only reason he doesn't like him then his argument is politically incorrect. If you like him, keep dating him.
What is your opinion on religion? I've heard about the theory of evolution and it makes a lot of sense.
And right now the theory of god and heaven doesn't seem real. There's no proof.
Can any of you give me your point of view? I want details b/c i'm really troubled with this.
plz help
thanks!
Well to me... evolution emanated from two atoms colliding. It just seems like, well, where did the atoms come from and why? Why are we here on this earth just to die? How bout that feeling you get when you just feel someone is with you/ behind you... and really nobody is physically there. That's what makes God real to me. Surely everything has it's rhyme or reason... wouldn't it be great to think there's another being in control and we're not all alone? And believing in evolution could possibly result in going to a hell if there was a God (which there is)... but say you believed in God and there was none, and evolution was correct... there would be no penalty. So why not believe?
i am redoing my room. the walls are white, and the rug is light-blue, which i cant change. does anyone have any ideas on what colors/theme i should use. i'm 14 if it helps.
You could do something nautical (like boat/ocean), or make the theme be light blue and white with a bunch of extra pastels mixed in. Like you could have a light pink and light green be throw pillows, and have your accesories match that. Go to a local decorating store like Homegoods or even Marshalls should have some good stuff and then pick a comforter to go with your personality, and to match your room. Have fun! And remember you don't have to match perfectly.
How do I show or tell my boyfriend how much I love him?
Write him a letter, dedicate him a song... or just prove it since actions speak louder than words. Defend him... stand by him when life gets tough. You know, the usual.
Hey guys
I was wondering if you knew any good conversation starters or something to talk about with people.. cause I hate that awkward silence.. ick.
Websites would help as well.
Thanks for your time
what to talk about? Hmm ... ask people about their day, if they've seen a good movie lately, what they liked about it, some actors/actresses they like, how they're doing with school, how their love life is going, how their family is, talk about upcoming holidays/birthdays, crack a joke, ask them if they've heard any good songs lately, talk about different types of music they like, ask them what's new with them, ask their favorite radio station, the last c.d. they bought, compliment them, explain to them how your day went if they seem interested, tell them something suprising or important.
okay so i have picture day in a few days and i just got a pimple! what do i do!!!!!! like what are some GOOOOD products i can use to get the pimple away in just like a day or two ?!
Oxy Pads, Clean and Clear Face Wash, Toothpaste, Taking an actual bar of soap and just scrubbing it against the pimple and leaving the soap on, Aveeno Face wash. My advice? Use atleast 2 or three of these!
i heard that if you put toothpaste on your pimple overnight, the next day it because less red and smaller. do ya think colgate works well ?
Really any toothpaste at all! It's a well known fact... if you put it on and your skin begins to sting a bit you know it's working. (Don't worry it's not painful really, just a sting that you can definetly determine)
this year im taking two high school courses (algebra 1 and intergrated pyhics and chemistry) along with advance placement classes. but my problem is that the teachers have loaded us with homework each night and its only the fourth day of school. i have stayed up until 11:00 every night doing homework and i get off of school at 2:25.
can someone give me some tips on how to finish my homework faster...so i can get some sleep.
BTW: im 13/f and i rate high enless its a smartass answer...
signed-
Sleep Deprived
Well you don't want to rush your homework too fast. If you have a study hall, then make sure you utilize that time to take care of some of the hw. If any substitute teachers come and give you a free period, or you just get one in general, use every minute of it to do homework. On the days with a bigger load, skip lunch with friends and go do homework in the library. It might suck but taking these advanced courses may really help you out in the end. If any of the homework is taking you long, go to lunch in the teachers room for extra help if they offer. They can help you with strategies to move you along faster. Don't dawdle or go online after school, get straight to work and maybe go online after. Depending how long it takes you to get ready, try and get ready faster in mornings to give yourself that 15-20 minutes extra sleep. It may really make a difference for you. It's all about shifting around your schedule to make it work for you. If you get homework that you have a couple of days to do, do it straight away to free up time during the week and weekends with friends. Most of all, if none of this works you might have to consider dropping one high school class and going the next level down as not to deprive yourself... it's unhealthy. School is really tough, but trust me alot of it may pay off in the end.
my brother ethier never hangs out with me or or trys to make it as short as possible. and everytime i ask him if we can hang out more, he yells at me. how do i get my brother to hang out with me more often
Brothers will be brothers. Depends how old he is... but at his age he probably just wants nothing to do with family. You can't force him to do anything. Just explain to him you enjoy hanging out and that it would be fun to hang out more often. If he rejects it, just seem upset and maybe he'll feel the least bit guilty. Other than that just be as nice to him as possible and I guess that's all you can do, you really can't force anything on him.
does anyone know how much money you get paid an hour for working at a job like af & hollister?
Honestly, usually not much at all. My cousin used to work at A & F and I guess every location is different, but I think it was only like 4 something an hour. So figure around like 4 dollars or something? Might've been even 3. And they make you wear their clothes too while you work there so that kind of sucks as well because you have to have an Abercrombie or Hollister outfit every day depending at which you work. The only benefit is you'll probably get a small discount.
I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high.
There's a hairspray by Aussie "instant freeze" works really well.... that combined with either pretty much any gel or mousse scrunched up with a towel and your good to go. Either that or also a really wet look is take a shower the night before you want to scrunch it and put it in a bun with some gel (not hairspray) and take it out in the morning and it should be curly! Just hairspray and touch it up a little. Remember keep your bun with a part so you dont have to comb one in in the morning and mess it up. Get any of this stuff at a local pharmacy or definetly Walmart.
iwas installing my ipod and it froze. wtf. it wasnt low batterty or anything. what can i do 2 unfreez it
even if it isn't low battery, charge it. Try to see if it has it on the lock button on the top, make sure it isn't on red. If you can completely not get it to work, you can most likely exchange for a new one depending where you bought it. If you need further help, inbox or IM me at
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so i just got a new ipod mini & i was wondering if you have to pay to download the songs?! ...and if i get download songs from like my windows media player. so thnx if u cann help
yeahh 99 cents a song I'm pretty sure. Not too bad considering... but it depends how many you want to download. Uploading songs from your c.d.s you already own is free though. You cant download songs from windows media... but try limewire (pretty sure you can download from there for free... though it's illegal)
what exactly is the difference between an poid and a mini? besides the mini have colors? thanx
-chelsea
Not really... mini is just like it sounds it's smaller than the regular iPods, and it holds a little bit less songs. But, I have a mini and I find it very portable and fun and the minis are cheaper. So if you were thinking about being economical and getting one (dnt know if that's the case) get a mini! By the way, they all have colors regular or mini.
i know this isnt a real advicenators question..but does anyone have any good "i cant lose you" songs? thankssss ♥
Everytime- Britney Spears
When I think about leaving- Kenny Chesney
Everything to me- Brooke Hogan
ok i cut my hair about 4 months ago really short and i hate it b/c my hair has always been super long and my mom will flip if i show her but i feel bad should i show her or shouldnt i
well eventually she'll see.... just say umm Mom... I can't stand it and I don't want you to be mad but my hair's short. It must've atleast grown a little. But I guess if in your situation you can avoid it till it gets a little longer then do so.
How do you get rid of pimples.. fast as possible that is.
Putting a little toothpaste on them, or using 'oxy pads' (just scrub real good!), or clean and clear face wash. Any of those are trustworthy and should clean your skin right up.
I like a guy... but it's a total dead end. Things would never work out as far as dating, but we're really good friends. Me having a crush on him is tainting our friendship. (he doesn't know I like him, but I can't think about him without wanting him as a bf.) I do not want to want him but he's just so awesome. I really like him. Is there any way to STOP, though? I know my heart will just get broken, and I don't want to let my feelings get that far. Cursed emotions!
hm ... maybe just keep an open mind and even if it doesn't equal up you can start getting a little interested in someone else. That or... sometimes it might just be good to let him know how you feel. I mean, you say it would ruin your friendship, but if you really love him ... and your really good friends... then I don't think anything will be ruined, but hey, you be the judge.
way back when; i had a friend and he was the best thing in my life. i could tell him anything and he would always take up for me and i was always there for him in his times of emotional needs. But he was one of the guys everyone liked because of his looks and they didnt take the time to know him. But the next school year we didnt talk. in the hall he would just smile at me like I was some adult or something which made me feel akward because he was like the best thing ever for me. Well another year later which is currently he always looks troubled walking around school and he always lets people put him down like all of the pretty girls and they hurt him so much and I love him like a whole lot and hate to see him like that. I want to talk to him again so should i start sitting with him at lunch or write him a letter or what? I really want to be a part of his life again but i am just not sure how to approach him... if you could help me that would be really great and i would highly appreciate it I need you guys ok? :(
Yeah definetly I wouldn't do a letter... more like just talk to him. You can start with the simplest conversation, maybe crack a joke or something. Ask him the time... or sit with him at lunch. You'll see. Maybe he was just waiting for you to approach him and become friends again.
Hey my name is meaghan, and I really want a nickname for myself besides meg. I`m having a hard time finding a nickname, i just want a pretty one, not a goofy-ish one...i used to have the nickname mya but i got sick of it, so if anyone has any ideas on what i could use as a nickname, i would love to hear your ideas!
things about me:
I`m 15
Puerto rican, colombian , spanish
Dark hair
just in case you needed that to help you think of ideas.
THANK Y0U S0O0O0O MUCH ! x3
Megara!! lol jp, that's from hercules. You could do something spanish like Boricua or something. Meggles, Meg-Meg, or something with your initials. Meggy or Maggie. jen, or just megs.