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Long Lost Buddy
way back when; i had a friend and he was the best thing in my life. i could tell him anything and he would always take up for me and i was always there for him in his times of emotional needs. But he was one of the guys everyone liked because of his looks and they didnt take the time to know him. But the next school year we didnt talk. in the hall he would just smile at me like I was some adult or something which made me feel akward because he was like the best thing ever for me. Well another year later which is currently he always looks troubled walking around school and he always lets people put him down like all of the pretty girls and they hurt him so much and I love him like a whole lot and hate to see him like that. I want to talk to him again so should i start sitting with him at lunch or write him a letter or what? I really want to be a part of his life again but i am just not sure how to approach him... if you could help me that would be really great and i would highly appreciate it I need you guys ok? :(
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ok here is what you should do...
go up to him and tell him how you feel and if that is too hard write him a letter telling him every thing but give it to him your self because that would probebly mean more to him good luck xxx
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you've totally got the right ideas, because the longer you wait, the more distant you two are going to get. bridge the gap asap, just sit him down, anytime, anywhere, and tell him everything you just told us. he likely needs you as much as you need him.
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Yeah definetly I wouldn't do a letter... more like just talk to him. You can start with the simplest conversation, maybe crack a joke or something. Ask him the time... or sit with him at lunch. You'll see. Maybe he was just waiting for you to approach him and become friends again.
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There are a lot of things you can do to try and get back in the guy's life. Writing him a letter would be a good idea if you wouldn't be afraid to approach him and give it to him face to face. But then again, you could always have a friend give it to him. (however, there is always the chance that he would not recieve the letter that way) If you do write him a letter, just explain to him how you feel, and why it is you want to start talking to him again. You could always IM him on the internet sometime. If you have his phone number or cell phone number, you could call him and try to talk to him that way. Ask him if he would like to hang out sometime. Or just see if he could make time to talk on the phone every nite or every other nite. Another way would just be to go up to him and talk to him. Don't be afraid to tell him exactly how you feel. If he is still the same guy he used to be, he should understand. Maybe he is feeling the same way you are rite now. He might be just as confused as you are rite now. And the only way you can find out is by talking to him.
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when ever you see him next just ask him whats ben going on. if he answers you, ask him if he is mad at you or if you did something wrong.if he is mad at you, ask what you did. if not...ask him why he stopped being the way he was be 4.
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i think you should sit with him at lunch yea or talk to him after school and just say i really miss talking to you and hanging out with you and just keep talking from there
hope i helped!!
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i think you should sit with him at lunch. we there for him. it sounds like he needs you right now, he may not show it but, he needs you. i think you should invite him over and have a long talk with him. show him what you wrote ( ^^) up there. show him your question. if he wont listen write him a letter, call him do anything. just talk to him.
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