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Dead End
I like a guy... but it's a total dead end. Things would never work out as far as dating, but we're really good friends. Me having a crush on him is tainting our friendship. (he doesn't know I like him, but I can't think about him without wanting him as a bf.) I do not want to want him but he's just so awesome. I really like him. Is there any way to STOP, though? I know my heart will just get broken, and I don't want to let my feelings get that far. Cursed emotions!
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I'm in the same situation. Me and this guy couldnt be any closer and I've liked him for years now. He of course always has a girlfriend and is now almost at a year with the one he has now and loves her more than any other girlfriend hes had. The point is.. if you don't tell this guy how you feel.. he (being a guy and all) wont just magically know you like him. You need to tell him how you feel so you put yourself out there as a possible girlfriend for him. You never know..he might feel the same way. And as far as thinking it wouldnt work out..how do you know? If youre already really good friends..why not take it to the next level? good luck
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hm ... maybe just keep an open mind and even if it doesn't equal up you can start getting a little interested in someone else. That or... sometimes it might just be good to let him know how you feel. I mean, you say it would ruin your friendship, but if you really love him ... and your really good friends... then I don't think anything will be ruined, but hey, you be the judge.
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Same position. But I'm a guy. What I'd do is take your chances, but if you have to break up, stay friends. You should want whomever you want to want... if that made sense. Hope I helped, good luck!
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you need to let your mind sink in what you want to happen.and this may hurt...but evertime you think about how u like him>tell yourself the reality.or 4 kik's try 2 get him 2 get in 2 you' lol hope i helped
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take a little time off from this guy n meet some new guys. i have the same problem with my guy friends but u just hafta meet new people n think of him more as a friend
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i know how your feeling..being apart would help..meeting new people and talking to other guys will help.
in my experience i have found that feelings are feelings and sometimes you have to let them run their coursee..they will eventually fade and not be so strong. until then, just be his friend and have fun hanging out..its so tough i know..i know trust me
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