about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

how do i masterbate? and how is it healty for you?im scared to becasuse i dont know what to do please help!

I dont know how its healthy for you but it just is. Dont be scared. You can just finger yourself. ♥

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Do you have anii websiites that giive you cute desiigns and gliiter words for your profiile?..Thanx hunz.

Try this. http://lascivious.vzz.net/

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ok you look pretty young like my age im 13 almost 14 in about 6 months and im going to 8th grade i was wondering do you masterbate?because idk if i should and i dont know if girls my age do..:-/same with shave down there..:-/

If you want to masturbate then do it. Nothing is wrong with it and its pretty healthy for you. About shaving down there. Yes.. you should or else it would be just kind of unatractive. ♥`

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What does spooning mean??

Its a sexual position in a cuddling kind of way. Like both of you are facing one way and the guy in behind the girl. ♥ `

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I'm 14 and I'm one of 3 people in my grade that doesn't have a cell phone. I'm constantly out with my friends and they don't like me to call home on their phones cus it uses there minutes. *They didn't mind at first but when I have to constantly call home they got frusterated* My parents want me to call all the time when I'm out. I've tried explaining to them all the reasons why I need one, Like how they want me to call home and all that but they still say you dont get one till your 16 like your brothers. Well, im not my brothers, im more responsible, but i tried to tell my parents that and they wont believe me!
What should I do?

Woah my parents are the same way. It really does suck. They just dont trust me with cell phones anymore. If they keep saying no there is nothing you can do to change their minds. Thats just totally not fair I know! Save your money and buy your self a phone or ask one of your brothers to get you one for you birthday or Christmas! ♥//

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why is virginity and breaking virginity such a big deal? like oh, you had sex for your first time. whats so big about taht? all it is is having sex except the first time. im serious can someone tell me why this is so big?

Sex isnt just a game or activity. I mean the first time you want it to be very special and with someone you really care about. To some people it doesnt matter but to most it matters. Its just a strong feeling a veriaty of people have. ♥//

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I'm 12/m and sometimes when i'm around girls my penis starts hurting and gets really hard...is this normal?

Aw lol. You just get attracted to them and you might get a boner? Huh lOl but yes its normal. ♥//

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Ok so ive known this guy for 2 years and he is my best friend and i love him to death . we joke around and say stuff like he is my lil bro because thats how close we are. but recently i noticed that he gets me i mean he understands me completely and cares about me he gets mad if other guys stare at me or say somethin like flirting with me. i really really like him. so i told him that i liked him and it was like awkwardness for 2 weeks,and he didnt tell me that he liked me which i thought he would. so now its back to a brother sister relationship and he is stil my best friend,but i really like him alot and i dont kno what to do ....somebody help me

Since he didnt tell you he liked you I dont think he has those kind of feelings towards you. He had the oprutunity but I think he would just want to stay in the brother and sister relationship. I think that he would just stay the way you both are. I mean even if he was your boyfriend you wouldnt love him any more or less. Just accept his feelings. Hope everything works out. ♥//

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Ok so my dad teaches a 10th grade guys Sunday School class, and im friends with all of the guys in there. well i recently went on a youth trip with my church and several of them were there. I got to talk to them alot. im just friends with some of them,but i realzed that i kinda liked this one guy. he is really funny and really cute. im really good friends with his best friend so i asked him what he thought about me liking his friend,and he thought it was an awesome idea ,and said that they guy had thought of asking me out before. Well see my dad is really good friends with these guys and they absolutely love my dad,but they kno not to touch me because my dad would kill them. so i really want to get to kno this guy better but im scared that he wont want to because of my dad. even though i kno my dad wont do anything to him . haha but the guy doesnt kno that. im really stuck give me some help

He doesnt have to tough you so you can get to know him better. Start talking to him and stuff like that and if your dad gets concearned tell your dad you are just friends and that its nothing serious. After the guy asks you out then you could tell your dad. Since your dad teaches the class and since he is good friends with him then he shouldnt have a problem not trusting him. ♥//

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ok well i told this kid knows i like him but he wont tlak to me about it and hes leaving tomorrow until friday until the 30th..and i honestly am in love with him hes going to florida and i know what he does when hes on vacation...and that makes me wanna cry he gets with all these girls and im hurting so bad

what do u guys think i shouold do??

Aw Im sorry about that. But he isnt your boyfriend so he has the right to do stuff with other girls. I mean I know it hurts but you just have to accept that. Just dont worry about him and what hes doing and try having a good time with your friends. Talk to him about it when he gets back. But he still cares about you. ♥`

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Okay, I don't know what to do. Should I shave my bikini area? I've shaved it before and it was really itchy and painful. I don't know whether it's normal to be shaved or not. Is it?

Yes shave it. I would rather suggest waxing so it doesnt itch and hurt. But if not wax then yes shave and make sure you use a good razor and shaving cream. ♥`

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I was over at my friend's house today and we started fooling around and I gave him and handjob and he asked me to give him head. After a while i did but it only lasted a few seconds before he told me he was about to cum. He did so I guess he liked it but I started to worry because it didn't last long so I didn't get to do much. I'm afraid I didn't do well and he won't want to do it again. He kept touching me and stuff the rest of the day but..I dunno. advice?

If he cumed then he liked it. He should be happy you did it! I think he would want to do it agian. =] ♥//

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hEy! whats the rap song thats out noW that says something about dem hIps?! thanks a million!

Pimpin all over the world? by Ludacris. Personally a lot of raps songs have that saying so I hope thats what you meant. ♥

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....um ok plese no weird answers cuz i really dont kno what to do...ok...me and one of my friends took some pills...6 to be exact and when we were a lil bit high...i think you could call it that ... but she called this guy thati liked and told him i would give him head...i am 13 and female..and i dont wanna do this..i didnt wanna take the pills eather...my mom already knows cuz she read my diary....and now i am grounded and she will never trust me alone with this friend again....but what should i do> this guy moved but still comes to town alot...and i dont kno if he is still expecting it or not and i dont kno what to do...sorry htis is fo fuckin long but it as kinda hard to explain...i rate high and i really need quick answers! thanck you and bye!

Just tell the guy that your friend was just messing around and that she wasnt serious at all. He will probablly just say okay so no biggie. Apologize to your mom. Being grounded is one thing but you dont want to make her more dissapointed so say Im sorry I will never do it again! Good luck hun! ♥//

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this is a very embarrising topic but i have a gf who has done numerous things to me (sexually) the problem is i truly dont know the perfect way to finger a girl.....very embarrassing but please help

Honestlly there is no perfect way so just be gentl, go slow and tease her a bit and then if she is liking it && enjoying do it faster. ♥//

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okay so like 2 years ago me and my friend begged our moms to get our belly button peirced.. they said after i turn 16..which is in august. but i duno, am i right wen i say getting your belly button peirced is played out?

Played out? No. A lot of girls have it done and I think its cute && guys love it. ♥//

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What does an orgasm feel like?

It feels.. good I guess. You cant really explain it. Some people like the feeling some dont. You should try. ♥//

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My friend has diabetes(sp?) and she eats like a pig! lol no offense but she never gains weight. she's like 5 foot 4 or so and eats all the time but weighs 995 pounds. is this normal? i don't think she's anorexic... but

Your right she isnt anorexic its just that she has high metabolism and thats where you dont gain weight easy and her body burns fat faster. ♥//

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alright, im 13 and my mom put me on birth control pills...but im a vergin. she doesnt belive me so now im starting the pill on sunday. so i told my bf and he said that if his mom knew about it she would buy him condoms. so we both laughed....sigh...ok now my problem. does this mean that he wants to have sex? or wat? i mean i LOVE this kid...and i was thinking about having sex with him for awhile now. but im not sure if he wants to. i mean i know were like really young but i really do love him. so do you think i should have sex with him and do you think he wants to have it with me or is he just kidding around? and if we did have sex where would we have it? please help me im so freaking confused! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! sorry if this is too long.

If he truely wanted to he would of said something. I mean all guys do want sex. If you are'nt sure why dont you ask him? Just be like were you serious or were you just joking around? If you did happen to have sex eather at your house or his when parents are'nt there. You cant really do it anywhere else. ♥ `

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okay well i have these 2 friends and they're both my best friends..well me and one of them (christina) live across the street so we're the closest in our friendship or 3 but my friend just moved across the street from us (karlie)..and well now when all 3 or us hang out i feel like i'm the 3rd wheel..and i feel like i'm losing my best friend (christina) i mean i love karlie right to death but i just feel so left out when all 3 of us are together..like christina will leave the room and karlie will have to follow her every move..idk what to do and i'm just afraid that our friendship is going to fall apart over something stupid..what can i do to make things better please help!

Like you said they both are your best friends and if you feel like you are the third wheel telling them how you feel is always the answer. They are your best friends and they will understand and they probablly dont even relize how they are making you feel. Just dont think about your friendship falling apart just do anything and everything to have fun and stay close friends like usual. You guys will remain friends so you really should talk to them. ♥ `

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