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Q: have you ever been fingered?

WOW! that does not require "advice" is that just a random question lol. Or do you actually have a question about it?

Q: DOES IT HURT TO HAVE BRAINS THE FIRST TIME IS THERE ANY PAIN FROM THINKING?

It hurts .. when you cant think of that answer anyways! haha im just messing it shouldnt hurt.. not that i am aware of anyways! *trixie*

Q: What are the best foods to eat everyday when your at an amusement park. Can I eat burgers and fries

Yeah you can eat whatever you want. Its a AMUSEMENT PARK! have fun! do and eat whatever you want. Of course you can eat burgers and fries... but after you are done with that stay away from roller coasters... if you want the food to remain in your stomach! *trixie*

Q: so me and my boyfriend are at this hotel room doing you know what. well all of a sudden the door flies open and something falls into the bed next to the one we are in. well any who I jump up and see my parents. were they actually doing it? well my mom is screaming at me and telling me that I told her I wouldn't do it again. which is truth cus she caught me before. Well any who what should I do?
*caught in bed*

WoW!! that cant be good. Seems to me like your mom doesnt trust you in the 1st place. You need to really talk to you mom. If you are truely sorry in the first place that is. Let her know that you will stop. Cuz it seems like you do. You are young. *trixie*

Q:
My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating?

My mom doesnt let me go on a date date. If im with another couple let her go. Nothing would happan. You have people all around you anyways. And if theres a parent bringing there and back its not a official date in that matter. I already had that convorsation with my mom last night. Its not a date. Its just a group of 4 hanging out. Weather they like eachother or not. They're young let her live life to the fullest. And let her know that you trust her and if she breaks the trust you will have a hard time letting her do something like this again!

Q: my friend Breanna is pregnant. But she smokes and drinks every month. What do I do to stop her from killing the baby?

Tell her that she is being stupid! she needs to care for the baby! yeah it might be hard but she needs to! tell her you believe in her and that she can do it! Ask her if she would have liked to be killed in her mothers stomach and never be here on earth? point good reasons why she shouldnt be doing that kind of things. No baby or No body deserves to be hurt or killed in that matter. Or any matter what so ever. You need to speak up now before it is to late.

Q: I have a 3 year old daughter with an UNCONTROLIBLE temper and she slaped my friend in the face what should I do?

Tell her to stop. Dont yet extremely to loud that you scare her all the way just enough to get the point across. Nobody should be able to hit your friend. Time outs are good. Put her in her room. You need to put a stop to this before it gets even more uncontrolable. The younger you are and learn the better! *trix*

Q: So I know this sounds alot like my first question but I still need more advice. The guy that I am kinda going out with (lets call him blurb) was a senior in my high school when I was freshman. Now I am going into 10th grade and Blurb is going to college. He will be leaving in August and although he is only going 2-3 hours away I know that we won't get a chance to see eachother a lot. Although we have discussed this he maintains that when I am a senior in high school (the age that my mom said we could offically date) he will come back for me. He says he's going to come and visit me and that we're going to keep in touch but I know it's going to be hard. My biggest issue is not what I am going to do, but what he is going to do. I want him to be able to experience college fully and I think if he still thinks about me and worries about coming back to me, he won't have as much fun as he would otherwise. Because I want him to have the best experience possible, should i let him go entirely even though I love him?

WoW. Your a defintly NOT selfish at all. Well its his choice let him see how it is the 1st month at college without you 2 going out. See what happans. Unless you know what you have is something that is so strong that can last even 5-6 hours away. 2-3 isnt real bad compared to some places away. But maybe give it a shot at the single life for a bit. Maybe you will relize that you shouldnt have let him go and from the sounds of it he will take you back no matter what. So i say do what your heart chooses but let him know whats going on that way it doesnt just fly at him without him knowing whats coming at him. Give him the heads up! Good luck! inform me on whats going on! *trixie*

Q: I like this guy i'v liked for a long time but i just recentley found out my bestfriend likes him too and she too just found out that i like him she says there talking and that there so close to becomeing a couple me and him are friends and he told me that all he wants is a f*ckbuddy should i tell her that he's really not up for commetment or just let her figure it out by her self please help me.

(so confused)

Well if this girl is your best friend .. you should tell her. Don't let her get hurt. I am sure she would do the same for you if she was in your place. And you would muchly like it. Even she doesnt believe you when you tell her just say hey listen you can believe what you want but thats what he told me. And leave the rest up to you honestly.

Q: yah well there is this guy that i have liked for 2 years and he likes my best friend...and it seems like he doesnt even know i am there and i even told him that i have liked him for 2 years....even loved him!!!! what should i do??? i really love this guy!

Well be like remember that one time when i told you i had liked you? what do you think of that.. cuz thats got me confused.. i dont know if you like me or what. And if you 2 are good friend he should understand. but you might not want to ruin what you have by going out now would you? That often crosses my mind when i meet someone. But it turns out me and nathan are just fine. He was my best friend but i just waited for him to come around. Or have someone ask this guy what he thinks. *trix*

Q: how can u get a guy to notice you????

Wear something that grabs someones attention. But not to out there. Just be yourself. Laugh and smile alot! and Hang in there! *trix*

Q: well im 15 and there is this guy ricky that ive liked for awhile & alot of people think he likes me 2, & the way he acts around me it seems like he does. but its been a few weeks since this whole thing started & nothing has happened.how could i talk to him about what his feelings are & if anything is going to happen without seeming like im pushin too hard? summer is days away & id like to figure out what is going to happen with us befor school is out.

Maybe.. if you 2 have a same good friend have the friend talk to him. Unless your not to shy to confront him yourself. Just ask. be confident. stand tall. and you'll be able to do it. We only have one life so make it worth it! Chances are you'll to be going out pretty soon if you speak up! Good luck on you to! Let me back in on whats gunna happan! *trix*

Q: wut if i was molested wen i was little? can i do anything now?

How long ago? cuz it could be difficult to press charges and get alot of facts on it like from 5 yrs ago. but yes you should tell a adult or somebody close you to asap.*trix*

Q: dude i really like this kid but he like is a player n he wants me to go to his house tom n have sex i dont want to n i m like in love with him but he messes with my mind it sux wuta i do?

Well.. be like umm its nice out.. cant we do something besides be stuck in side? or just dont do it say you have to clean the house or go with your mom somewhere. or maybe babysit or something. Im sure you can think of something. And it will probably not be the last chance to hang out with him.*trix*

Q: I use a false certificate to get admitted into the college, now i've graduated , will it have any effect on me

hahah .. prolly .. check with a good friend .. then have him check with his parents .. so something doesnt seem up .. or ask your mom or something like that i really have no idea but im assuming if its false somewhere something has to be wrong with that!*trix*

Q: Could you get pregnant if you have unprotected sex in a hut tub? And wouldn't a condom slip off in the water? PlEaZe WrIte BaCK AuDREY!

You can get pregnant anytime you have unprotected sex.. thats why condoms came along! just buy and use them if your messing around like that. The hot tub has nothing to do with unprotected sex and you getting pregnnat. It shouldnt slip off unless the guy buys the condom to big thinkings he's all mocho ;)!! (just hope he doesnt want to show off to you buy getting it to big)

Q: I live in a log cabin in Texas that is a real log cabin. It is really really old but I do not know how to tell how old it is. It is in Harris County, near Houston. It actually has a Houston address but it is just outside Houston. Anybody have any idea how I could find out how old it is? Any websites I could go to? I have tried those websites that you pay and they could not turn up anything.

Records. Check with some real estate person. I know when we put our house up for sale they said how old the house was. So they could be in use of some help. Maybe the library also!!*trix*

Q: I've always been curious about this. If anyone had ever talked to a ghost, or almost died, and came back to tell about it, I'd like to hear your story. I never have done either, and I wonder what it is like, and if this is for real.

no not really. i mean.. sometimes.. i think there is a ghost in my house.. but im not allowed to talk about that.. there fore i could get "hurt" or so she says.. Issac Kaleigh you guys no what im talking about

Q: I'm doing an extreme makeover on myself this holiday break and I need to change my whole style,especially my clothes. I'm in highschool and I've been going there dressed up as though this was elementary school. I'm still suprised no one has ridiculed me for wearing overalls the other day. I'm 6 feet tall and I am not model thin. What styly could help?

Casual. Jeans and a cute shirt!! good luck!

Q: can u get birth control without ur parents knowing?

Depends. on A)the state you in which you live in B) on the age you are. sometimes there are side affects and your parents might wonder whats going on. so you may want to give them the heads up! go to plan parent hood!

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"