Gender:
FemaleMember Since:
July 30, 2006Answers:
359Last Update:
December 12, 2009Visitors:
25258Favorite Columnists
Cux
Solaris
H0LLY_W00D_FAME
Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Fashion and Styles
View All
about
"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
advice
There's this guy that I know and he keeps commenting on the way I dress. LIke for example, when I had my nails painted black, the moment he saw it he said "Hey your nails look rotten".
And there was once his dog stepped on my toes and I was like "OUCH". And then he just said "Good boy" to his dog without even smiling ! It was like as if he has something against me.
And he'd always say "hey how's life? Any lesbian friends? Got hooked up with any girl ?" And I'd say "NO!" .
I mean he's really making me mad with all those comments. I didnt do anything to offend him. Really. And I've heard of things like whenver a guy does that to you it means he likes you. BUt well I really don't think that's the case here! Cos there was once when we were crossing a really dangerous road and he didnt even bother to help me or hold my hand to cross the road. So this really shows that he doesn't give a shit bout me. And so, that proves he doesn't like me as a crush or something. So can someone tell me what's the matter with that guy?
Yeah, I know how you feel. This guy from New Jersey who was visiting my friends called me a lesbian and pushed me into the pool after I got my hair highlighted, which caused it to turn green. I hate that kid more than anyone I know.
But, that guy needs some help who you're talking about.
With the nails thing, is he blind or something?
Why the hell does he care if you have lesbian friends? That kid is a freak.
If he said good boy to his dog after it hurt you, the guy is insane. I would suggest some counseling.
"Just don't let it bother you!"
God I hate when people say that, don't you? It drives me crazy. I know you can't ignore it, so I'm not going to say that. But, what I am going to say is GET BACK AT HIM!
His mission in live is obviously to piss you off.
how do u get a guy to notices u
Go up to his face and scream, "I CAN'T SPELL AND I HAVE TERRIBLE GRAMMER!"
I'll bet you anything that he'll notice you that way.
hey y'all
this guy i really like is so sweet, but he'll get real moody real fast. then our conversations get really akward or boring or he just won't talk. I really hate it. Could y'all tell me ways to start conversations that will not get him angry?
thanx soo much!!
♥
My best friend from last year is like that. He's an asshole now, so I don't talk to him anymore.
Just a little warning...
you'll realize what I did. Guys like that need serious help.
The only thing my friend wouldn't get mad is if I said this, "Hi. What's up?"
Do that and stare at each other the rest of the time until he says something. I'm being serious. That's the only thing I'm sure he won't get mad about.
okay, so there is this guy at my school and he randomly started talking to me one day and he sat with me on the bus and he asked me if i was going to this sleepout thing for school and said i wasnt going and then he was on the bus the next week and then he started messaging me on myspace and being like *hi your cute* and *you should come over we can go swimming* and all that crap and then he started iming me and asking me to homecoming and he put me as number 1 on his top 8 and he always talks to me in school.. he hunts me down if he sees me pass by and he puts up away messages directed towards me and like followed me at the football game the other day.. and i dont really know/like this guy very much and i dont know if this is like a joke or something..or if he really likes me.. so if you could tell me what you think that would be great and he is also known to be sort of a player so i dont know if hes just saying/doing this to get some.. because some things he says to me are sexual. thx for the help
Yes, he likes you.
Actually, I think he's a bit on the stalker side.
i need to know, how can you become a pretty person outside? i dont think im pretty or anything,i want to be a girl some guy would like. but how? tips? gerneral stuff? im a kinda preppy person,i dont dress bad,i wear makeup,but i dont know how to be pretty. i have brown hair,big brown eyes,long eyelashes,dark eyebrows,kinda light skin,kinda circles under my eyes,oval face shape,4"9 13...please help i want to look nice and aprochable,and pretty.
Um excuse me?
You should have just said this:
I WANT TO BE FAKE! CAN YOU HELP ME?
sometimes my freinds and i will be watchin a movie and i will say somethin and my one friend will just sit there and not say anythin. like i may say i like her dress on drew barrymore and she will just sit there.
why does she do that and not say anythin? i know she hears me cause other people respond to me.
Well, she probably just wants you to stop talking or she has really bad hearing.
I honestly hate when people talk during a movie. It drives me crazy and I can't hear the movie at all because they won't shut up!
She probably just thinks that if she's ignoring you, eventually you'll stop talking..that's what I do.
MY mom is like super emotional and my dad is horrible to her. He yells and screams at me and her. I have nightmares about him and I'm like really scared of him. please give me some advice, he is very mean to us. One time I ate an apple that he told my mom not to touch and I didn't know it was his but he like screamed at my mom and all. Then he went to slap her so I told him it was me. I got a big beaten. Help!
Oh my god. I am so sorry.
1-888-767-2445 is the abuse hotline thingy.
Tell your parents that you are going for a walk and then go outside and once your house and out of site call it from your cell phone.
If I were you, I would try and stay at a friends house the night that you call just to be safe.
Good luck!
i have a friend and she had sex with her bf and then everyone found out that she did that and know i barley have any friends cause they thought that i was the one telling everyone witch i wasnt! it was someone else now im kinda scared to go to highskool cuz i think everyone going to talk shiznit that im the "RUMERER" and i had allot of friends know i only have about 4 so cana help a sissta out pizzz??
Screw them. They SUCK.
Walk up to your "friends" and go, "LOOK ALL YOU FAGGOTS. I DID NOT SPREAD A FREAKING RUMOR ABOUT MY FRIEND. YOU CAN'T JUST GO BLAMING THE FIRST PERSON YOU SEE. IT WAS (say the faggots name who told everyone)! OKAY? NOT ME. SO STOP TALKING ALL THIS CRAP ABOUT ME."
They seriously are being immature, though. Pshhh four is more than none anyways. At least they believe you. It's better to have four true friends then 53 faggots who talk about you behind your back and lie to you and all that crap.
well, theres this one guy named James and i have liked him for a while but nothing serious because i barely know him. once i talked to him but it was kind of a while ago. well school is starting and i found out from one my friends that him and i have a class together this year. i'm really excited but how do i get us to start talking?
See if he has instant messanger. If he does then get him screen name magically and talk to him on there. Most likely he's gonna be like, "who the heck are you?" when you IM him but just go, "(Your name). Im in your (whatever class it is that you to have together) class." and he'll be like, "oh! hey" and then say, "sooo do you like the teacher you have now?" and you'll figure it out from there. But as soon as he responds don't freak out and go OH MY GOD!! AHHH IT'S TAKING ME OVER 5 SECONDS TO TYPE THIS TO HIM!! AHHHHH HE'S GOING TO SIGN OFF! Just count to 10-20 and then respond. Make it sound like you have other people to talk to instead of sounding like an obsessed stalker. Or you could simply try flirting. It's MAGICAL.
okay something has really been bugging me lately. i always, always feel like i'm invisible. it's like this .. whenever i'm hanging with one of my friends and other people come along, i turn invisible. people leave me out of their conversations all the time. i feel like i'm just a substitute person or something; like, i feel that most people hang out with me until someone "better" comes along. and you wouldn't believe how many times people have said to me "omg i'm so sorry i forgot about you!" people i've met either forget my name or forget me altogether and when i say hi they're like "do i know you?" it seems to happen alot. and guys always ignore me, even though people say i'm pretty, and i know i'm really not unattractive. i really don't see what's going on, i'm nice to everyone and i would never do that to anyone, but it seems like the mean people who ditch other people have more people talking to them and everyone wants to hang around with them. and i have a lot of friends, but i wonder why it always seems to happen to me. maybe i'm just not agressive enough, who knows? but i really need help on this one, like advice on how to become more noticed and less invisible. thnx.
I know how you feel. And trust me, it effing sucks.
Well, this is what you gotta do:
Speak up...Talk louder. I normally got left out because I was so quiet.
If you want guys to notice you and stop being little faggots and ignoring you then flirt. They'll notice you and you'll probably make friends with a lot of the guys. Maybe they are intimidated. That happens to a lot of the pretty girls...well that's what everyone says. Guys are too nervous to talk to them I guess.
If someone can actually forget your name then screw them. Next time someone asks you that just go, "YO MOTHA!" and run away. They are too selfish for you to waste your time on them.
my friend is the different gender than i am.i am a boy.she gets angry sometimes when i don't give her enough info sometimes for example if we are on the phone and someone calls me in the background she would be like who was that and sometimes i really dont wanna tell her so she would start an arguement then i would hang upthe phone and after i would call back to say am sorry for no reason.she yells at me.she iz not really friendly but when am bored i could call her,shes a nice talker.should i keep her as a friend?what should i do?
Yeah I agree with the person below me.
She probably has a crush on you. Obviously, she gets jealous very easily
Yes, keep her as a friend.
Talk to her and ask her if she likes you or get someone who is one of her close friends to ask her for you. That way you can figure out if she has a crush on you or if it's just that she is really messed up and gets jealous wayyy to easily.
I have a pimple like on my lip kind of, its right near the edge of it and i think part of it is on my lip. I've been trying to get rid of it. My question is how do I get rid of it? Any tips?
Ohh I have an awesome idea.
Get a permanent marker and put a huge black dot on your forehead.
Then no one will pay attention to the pimple..only the huge black dot on your forehead.
This kid, Ryan, was visiting my friend's brother and so was his other friend and I seriously think his mission was to piss me off! I've never had a boyfriend and he asked me if I had and I said, "No, I've never had one.". Then he asked me to rate how hot his friend was and I said, "No." and he said, "Well fine then. I guess you're a lesbian."(I would've have called him an asshole right there and slapped him but my friend's mom was there.) When I went down to the pool ryan was there, my friend, my friend's brother, and ryan's friend. He kept getting this water gun thing and shooting it at me(I just dyed my hair a few days ago and the chemicals from the pool water can turn your hair green)and I told him to stop and all he did was laugh and keep doing it.(By the way, my hair did turn this stupid green color and I had to wash my hair about six times to get all of it out) Then when I was leaving I fell down and I scraped myself really bad and he started laughing. He kept saying all this perverted crap too and it freaked me and my friend out. He said I was weird so I went up to him and I said, "Okay. Now how am I weird? At least I don't IM random people and say, "HEY BABY! WHAT'S UP?!" like you do." (He did that to me.) and then he said, "Psh. I never did that." and everyone believed him and then he said, "Oh yeah and don't ever talk to me on IM again." He had ASKED for my screen name! He really pissed me off. He finally left yesterday but he is coming back here for thanksgiving. He has instant messenger and I have his screen name. I want to yell at him about everything and tell him what an asshole he is. But, he'll turn it all around and say HE was the one who cussed me out. So I don't know what to do now! Should I IM him and cuss him out (if you think I should do that then what should I say to him if he tries to turn it all around?) or just not do anything?!
That guy is a fag.
Next time you see him you should be like, "Hey faggot. What's up?" And kick him as hard as you can (where it hurts for guys) and start laughing. Then say, "Ah, see how it feels when you are hurt and people laugh at you?" then walk away.
Really though.
He's a jerk. If I were you, I would go for cussing him out on IM. Then next time he visits, do the thing above.
i want my hair shiny and nice like on the comercails any tips?
okay.
first of all. that's impossible. on the comercials they use some gay thing and through the computer or camera..whatever..they cut out the frizz and make it look shiney.
now.
you can get that smoothing milk stuff from garnier fructise, frizz-ease shampoo and conditioner, pantene restoratives shampoo and conditoner along with some of their hair spray.
16/f. At school I get hit on all the time, and at the mall, things like that. I am so not a slut I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and never had sex. The thing is I'll be walking down the street and there will be these like old mexican gardeners and they will like check out my ass and that just disgusts me so much. I feel so disgusting because of them. How do I get over this?
hm.
you can close your eyes.
it works.
how come advicenators has changed so much? a while ago.. people could ask anyone question they had. now there are all these rules and they really restrict what i am curious about. a lot of serious questions i have, have all been deleted. i dont understand this and i think it should change.
because the people who made it are awesome.
well..also because some of the things people asked are not "appropriate" or they are pointless. OR they have been asked about a million times already.
my friend is alwayyss flirting with my boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. she even sleeps with them and it makes me soo mad. how can i overcome this feeling or deal with this problem?
she SLEEPS with them?!
if I were you, I would NOT be her friend anymore. Just say, "Look, if you don't stop flirting and all that crap with my boyfriends and my ex-boyfriends, then I'm sorry but I don't think we can be friends anymore."
ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?
you know 11 year olds that aren't virgins!?!?! DANG!
and heck no. there is NOTHING wrong at all with being a virgin.
just ignore the people who think you guys are weird. they suck.
I want to get highlights for my hair. I'm female 13 blue eyes amd light brown hair. I want to get a lot of medium brown streaks, and then also a few blonde streaks. I'm not sure if this will look good so I need opinions if thats a good combination for highlights?
Yesssss.
It'll look awesome.
Trust me.