Question Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 11:52 pm
okay, so there is this guy at my school and he randomly started talking to me one day and he sat with me on the bus and he asked me if i was going to this sleepout thing for school and said i wasnt going and then he was on the bus the next week and then he started messaging me on myspace and being like *hi your cute* and *you should come over we can go swimming* and all that crap and then he started iming me and asking me to homecoming and he put me as number 1 on his top 8 and he always talks to me in school.. he hunts me down if he sees me pass by and he puts up away messages directed towards me and like followed me at the football game the other day.. and i dont really know/like this guy very much and i dont know if this is like a joke or something..or if he really likes me.. so if you could tell me what you think that would be great and he is also known to be sort of a player so i dont know if hes just saying/doing this to get some.. because some things he says to me are sexual. thx for the help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Sunday September 17 2006, 11:38 am: I would say that he really does infact like you. But, I would be a little freaked out by everything, it seems a little on the stalkerish side to me. And if it is said that he is a player, then the reason he's probably so sort of, open, about it is because he's used to being this way with girls since he "gets so many". He could possibly be saying that stuff to get some, but I really can't tell, because even though he does say sexual things, all guys do to either just joke around or whatever. Girls do to. But I'm not sure exactly how sexual the things he's saying to you are, so if they're not just like, little sex jokes or something, then he might want something from you. My suggestion is to just let him know you don't like him like that ; only as a friend so maybe he'll ease up a bit and back off. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
pottergirl05 answered Sunday September 17 2006, 7:18 am: lol sounds like he is just a guy with one big personality that does actually like you!!!Lol i'd say the sexual remarks are just a joke and his way of showing that he isnt a total soft cock. He sounds cool as, someone that just likes to have a laugh..I'd say him liking you isnt a joke because he appears to like you even when he isnt around his friends and stuff.... and he flaunts it! i think if someone was pretending to like someone for a joke ten they'd only be doing it to make their friends laugh... so why would he do it when his friends aren't around?? It'll become clear real soon what his real inentions are anyway so good luck [ pottergirl05's advice column | Ask pottergirl05 A Question ]
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