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bar mitzvah
ok so ive been invited to my first bar mitzvah!! yay! here come the bad news. every year i go to halloween horror nights to please my dad because he thinks that i enjoy it but really i hate getting scared. he already reschedualed it because of something that i needed to do the weekend that he planned it but now i really want to go to this bar mitzvah because hes the only kid i know that jewish and i want to go and see all my friends from my old school. the problem is hes more my brothers friend and i just got invited to tag along but still i want to go really badly. i talked to my dad about reschedualling again but no he says i have to choose between halloween horror nights and the bar mizvah but my brother wants to go to halloween horror nights because he loves it and he doesnt want to go to the bar mitzvah but i do and i cant show up without him. so one more thing the guy i like is going to the bar mizvah and i never get to see him anymore because i went to a new school last year. im so confused and extreamly mad at my dad so please help!!! i cant confront my dad u see im a little scared of him sometimes and he tries to hard to impress me and my brother.
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ok well first of all u should never be afraid of your dad! i've had to learn that the hard way... even though i'm still kind of afraid of himat times. But u shouldn't be afraid of talking to him. I think that you should talk to your dad about the situation. If you don't get to hang out with your dad alot then i would go the the halloween thing, but it the bar mizvah is more important than you should go to that. It might feel unconfortable for you to go to your brother's frinend's bar mitzvah with out him if you don't know the kid well. If you really want to see your old friends maybe you could have a halloween party and invite them all! i hope this helped you a little! remember, don't be afraid to talk to your dad!!
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Why can't you show up alone? You got invited so just say you came here for you brother. I can see from your dad's point of view too. He rescheduled it already and it would be asking for a lot for him to rescheduel it yet again to fit your schedule. Doesn't Bar Mitzvah occur only once in a life for that person (sorry, I'm not very familiar with this)?
Tell your dad if he won't mind you going to this kid's bar mitzvah for it only happens once in his life and you wish to be there and observe it. And promise that you'll be at the horror night thing next year
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