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Member Since: March 19, 2005
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Last Update: February 12, 2007
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me and this guy hooked up *we made it to about 2 or 3 base-ish then he said it was moving to fast, but hes was the one making the moves and stuff and i didnt really do anything but yeah so now were just friends but how do i get him to go out with me and see how awesome i really am? (link)
oh my gosh! that happened to me on the weekend! how crap is it? maybe find some other guy to go out with to show him that you are hotstuff. or get your friends to make out like these hot ass guys dig you. guys are so annoying. just live it up and pretend you're happy cos thats what will show him what he could have..


omgoodness. i'm so jealous of everybody and everything. i get jealous of people i don't know and people i do know. i can't help it. it's like a disease i can't get rid of. i don't know what to do about it because not only being jealous really sux for a personality it really brings me down inside. please help me find a cure for this disease! so what should i do? (link)
darl, dont be hating. yeah, there is always people who are better than us but it doesnt have to be like that....no doubt there will be something awesome about you that you cant see but is obvious to everyone else. i get jealous of people i dont know too but thats just cos they seem to be perfect but if you took the time to get to know then you would see they're just gay like the rest of us, with their own issues...instead of focusing on what you dont have focus on what you do have and learn to love it. theres no need to be jealous if you're a sweet dude, so be cool ok!? i know its hard, but seriously..so not even worth it!! theres people that would be jealous of you too and its just mind over matter just dont let it get to you and remind yourself that you're great


okay, so there is this guy at my school and he randomly started talking to me one day and he sat with me on the bus and he asked me if i was going to this sleepout thing for school and said i wasnt going and then he was on the bus the next week and then he started messaging me on myspace and being like *hi your cute* and *you should come over we can go swimming* and all that crap and then he started iming me and asking me to homecoming and he put me as number 1 on his top 8 and he always talks to me in school.. he hunts me down if he sees me pass by and he puts up away messages directed towards me and like followed me at the football game the other day.. and i dont really know/like this guy very much and i dont know if this is like a joke or something..or if he really likes me.. so if you could tell me what you think that would be great and he is also known to be sort of a player so i dont know if hes just saying/doing this to get some.. because some things he says to me are sexual. thx for the help (link)
lol sounds like he is just a guy with one big personality that does actually like you!!!Lol i'd say the sexual remarks are just a joke and his way of showing that he isnt a total soft cock. He sounds cool as, someone that just likes to have a laugh..I'd say him liking you isnt a joke because he appears to like you even when he isnt around his friends and stuff.... and he flaunts it! i think if someone was pretending to like someone for a joke ten they'd only be doing it to make their friends laugh... so why would he do it when his friends aren't around?? It'll become clear real soon what his real inentions are anyway so good luck


what does that quote mean i wear my heart on my sleeve i was just wondering b/c i could never figure out what that meant!!! (link)
lol...it means they are kind of very emotional and not afraid to show their true feelings...they wear their heart (which is like the place where your feelings come from) on their sleeve ( which means everyone can see it)., haha get it? it basically means they show their feelings


last summer i dated this guy for about a month. but we've had feelings and hung out a lot before that. he broke up with me becuz we couldn't really hang out too much, which is completely understandable, i was pretty much grounded for no reason. i moved afterwards w/ my sis. and he used to randomly say cute things. after his birthday last month after i wished him a happy b-day, we haven't talked since. but i think we left off on good terms. i think i love this guy, can't get him out of my mind for a second! i try to move but i can't.. do u think we would ever get back together? (link)
Its always nice to hope.. You never kno he might feel the same way... why dont you call him up sometime? if you'r 2 scared jus text or somethin, but if you feel that way, he's not worth letting go of right? and seriously....the guy of your dreams might be right in front of you, you jus have to look... somoone out there, whether you realise it or not loves you for you and will sweep you off your feet n treat you lik the princess you r... u jus gotta be positive! live life to the full n dont waste a second being hung up on fella's that arent even sure things haha! yoU go girl take care!


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Okay. I know this question is getting SO annoying..but I need an answer...and haven't found one that goes to what I need to know.

Alright, so I and this guy have been going out for 3 weeks tomorrow, and on Valentines day it will have been 5 weeks (That assuming I can count. :P ) We're both new to having a boyfriend/girlfriend, so we aren't really lovey dovey or "cute" or anything like that - heck, we don't even hug that much.

I want to get him something for Valentines day, but I don't know what. I don't want to get him anything big, but I also think it would be kind of awkward for me to MAKE something for him, because thats just not the kind of relationship we have.

He's in to music, horror and comedy movies, and acting silly almost 24/7.

What would be a good gift idea, something that isn't..strange..for our relationship, but at least something to say "Hey, its Valentines day and seeings as we're boyfriend and girlfriend, I thought I should get you something, because..thats how it works and I like having you as a boyfriend." (link)
hey... wel jus get him something little and a card or that...... that way it shows ya care but ur not crazy obsessed lovey dovey....like buy him a nice cd or sum choccies or a shirt or somethin,,,,,,n dont 4get the card i hope it works 4 ya lol good luk


OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?! (link)
HE's only doing it because he wants a reaction, i know what it's like. Try to laugh it up but if you can't just bloody do something to cut him up sooooooo bad (ur mate will help u on that one) Like, just try not to show him it's getting to you. Well sorry if that's crap advice but it's all i have.




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