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speechless?


Question Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 1:58 pm

sometimes my freinds and i will be watchin a movie and i will say somethin and my one friend will just sit there and not say anythin. like i may say i like her dress on drew barrymore and she will just sit there.

why does she do that and not say anythin? i know she hears me cause other people respond to me.


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katie_knows_all481 answered Friday August 18 2006, 10:04 am:
She either is really absorbed in the movie, so much that she doesn't hear you, or she has bad hearing. Maybe, if there are other people there, she didn't know you were talking to her. Next time say something like, "Jessica (use your friend's name) don't you think Drew Barrymore's dress is pretty?" or something like that, and she might be more likely to respond.

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fabulous11 answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 10:32 pm:
Maybe cause she wants to watch the movie.
Not to be mean but most people hate when other people talk durring a movie. Mayabe wait till after then tell her.

Jess

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xY0M0MMAx answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 7:13 pm:
Well, she probably just wants you to stop talking or she has really bad hearing.

I honestly hate when people talk during a movie. It drives me crazy and I can't hear the movie at all because they won't shut up!

She probably just thinks that if she's ignoring you, eventually you'll stop talking..that's what I do.

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HadesJr answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 7:00 pm:
Your friend may just be into the movie that they don't care. So here is a crazy idea: next time don't say anything. who knows, they might ask you why didn't you say anything?Hope it helps!

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vermillion26 answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 6:57 pm:
She probably doesn't like it when people talk to her during a movie. When my friends talk during a movie I tend to shh them, I'm not mad at them I just want to watch the movie without inturruptions. I know you might want to talk during the movie, but lots of people don't like that. Maybe you should hold in your comments about the movie until it is over. She will appreciate it a lot. Hope I helped.

Love, Rainbow

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elipongo answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 6:50 pm:
Well, first off I hope that you're talking about watching videos at home. Talking out loud in a movie theatre would be very, very rude.

My guess is that your friend wants to watch the movie and not miss anything because of talking. She might want to talk about the dress or whatever after the movie's over rather than while it's still playing.

Of course, the way to be sure would to be to ask her why she didn't respond to your comments.

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sunnyville answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 6:17 pm:
You should know that other people have lots of things to talk about maybe because she's like the shy type,you could change that like you too should hang out more,teach her to be social,outgoing,make her feel that she could trust you so she start talking like tell her some things about you that she didn't know,then she'll get used to you more,and you'll see another side of her.

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Helpful answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 5:59 pm:
I know some people who do that... Sometimes it just means that their mind is somewhere else... and considering that you were watching a movie, she was probably watching that. Hope I helped!

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curliecue answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 5:32 pm:
Maybe she is just shy or underconfident. She might not want to say what she thinks because she is afraid that you won't agree. Maybe, to get her to talk more, say "I love that dress on her, don't you think so (name of friend)" Maybe something along those lines. Directly include her in the conversation. It will make her feel more comfortable. I have a feeling that's the case. Good luck!

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