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how can i meet new kids at school
on the first day of school kids are always hanging out with there freinds in litle groups they dont really care about the new girl and i dont want to juststand there by my self but i dont want to go up to them and be all you have no clue who i am but be my friend what do i do?
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i know its hard because your putting yourself out there but just walk up to people who you admire and would maybe like to be friends with and say hi my name is ____ and im new or something like that. or during lunch be like hi im ___ do you mind if i sit wit you guys and then theyll probably say sure and youll become friends with them. good luck
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look for people in a semi-circle (it mean that they're open to other people coming up) and that are smiling and don't have their arms crossed. i know it might seem scary but you can just go up, introduce yourself and ask them about their summer. if someone came up to me and my friends and did this, we wouldn't think that they were weird - we'd just talk to them! people aren't as scary or mean as you think. and by doing this you'll make some new potential friends right off the bat - and, that way, if you see them at lunch or in one of your classes you won't be afraid to go up and talk to them because you already did it! good luck and if you need anymore help drop one in my inbox.<3
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In class, you might get to interact with people. Ask girls if you a girl and boys if you are a boy to hang out at lunch. If they reject, don't feel left out. Sit near girls and so people won't see you are really alone. In class, ask some girls if they have a pencil or something to borrow. if you return it in a good condition, that's good! Don't worry, within the days, you will get a lot of friends. be urself and nice
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Find a few people that look like a good group of friends. Then just small talk with them. Like just make a few small jokes. Show them your personality. Right now it sounds like you're just hiding out in the background. Make yourself noticable. Be friends to EVERYONE< don't start taking sides with people or making fun of people because the other ones do. And smile a lot, it makes a person much more likeable. I know it's hard to take that first step, but be brave (i mean what do you have to lose??right?) Good luck! You'll meet people eventually just give it some time.
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