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19 female. i like and HAVE liked this guy joe who is 18, for awhile now. we're pretty good friends too, so you wouldnt think it would be hard for me to ask him to hang out right? WRONG.
i'm always so nervous of getting rejected, who isnt? so i never ask him to hangout, i rarely text him first, it's how i am. lately i've been getting better. my friend gave me 4 free tickets to a major league baseball game sunday, so of course i think about asking joe to come. this was our conversation:
me: hey my friend is giving me four tickets for the baseball game friday. i'm going to find two other people to come, but do you want to come?
him: i have a football game.
me: on a sunday? werid. just thought id ask.
him: you said friday!
me: oh sorry i meant sunday.
him: what time?
me: 1:10
him: i have a hockey game.
...REJECTED:( i mean i know he's not lying, i know he does play hockey and football, he wouldnt lie to me but i just feel dumb. and i have these handcuffs and he stole the keys from me so then i was like:
me: will you like leave my keys at your neighbors tomorrow since me and my friend will be over there (i didnt want it to be a hassle and bug him so i said that..)
him: just come get them
me: will you be home?
him: sometime yea
me: ok i'll just text you and see if your home
him: alright
is it me or does he always seem short with me? or is that how boys just are? and now i have to see him tomorrow, i will be embarassed because i asked him to go to the game and he couldnt. maybe its just me overanalyzing but i dont know. what do you guys think? (link)
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aww you sound soo sweet!firstly you didnt get rejected. im sure if he didnt have a game hed be sooo happy to come. you need to know this...girls=overanalyse boys=dont really think much about things. hes not being short with you its how he txts. he must want to see you if he told you to come get the keys from him in person. guys arent really the txting type usually theyd much rather speak on the phone or meet up inperson. dont stress about it. he didnt reject you so stop think about it lol just go there and see him for abit like get your keys and talk to him about things.its obvious he wants to chat with you just relax
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I like this guy at school, and he likes me, he asked me out at the start of the year like 2nd day of school and i said no because im not the most confident person around guys. I gues is how i would put it. He told me a couple of weeks ago he still has feelings for me and that he loves me. Then he asked me what i thought of him i told him i do like him to and yeh from then on we got closer. He is now my boyfriend. Im a shy kind of person and im happy to admit that but it gets the better of me. The other day after we said goodbye and hugged, he kissed me, i froze, and kind of stepped back. I didnt expect him to kiss me. the next night he asked me whether i think of him differently because of what happened but i dont. i love him just as much. But he asked me why i stepped back. i answered "i wasn't expecting it, i gues." he didnt mind. but since then we hug and stuff but we dont kiss. I Havent kissed any one ever before and it kinda freaks me out. He always askes me if we could kiss. I always say yes but i chicken out when it happens at the last minute. I dont know why. It gets really awkward. I want to kiss him but ive never kissed someone before and i just chicken out :( hellpppp... (link)
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awww your totally cute!dont worry its natural to feel like that. have you told him that youve never kissed anyone before?i think you should tell him so that he knows its not him thats doing soemthing wrong. dont be embarassed k!theres a first for evrrything. next time he asks you to kiss me tell him not to ask you and to just do it then your job when hes does it is to not walk away or push him away and to just let it happen. you have to over come this shy thing!you be incharge not it!
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The other day i was talking with friends and then my boyfriend came over and we walked over to the side of the building were no one was and then all off a sudden i froze and started crying :(. I dont know why. My friends say it might have been from all of the emotion over the last few days, but i dont know. Its like when im around him i mentaly crash but when im near my friends i can hold it in i dont know why.. it was awkward between us for the rest of the day because i walked off on him when i started to cry.. he thought it was because of him but i explained it wasnt and that i had no idea why i was crying.... (i walked off coz im self consious and i hate getting embarassed)i hate crying in front of people.... Can anyone help??? (link)
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sounds to me your scared to be alone with him..is he your first boy friend?you may get nervous around him or scared. is there anything that happened to you in the past that may trigger this now? that may make you feel scared to be around guys alone?(just a theory). i think you need to let him in because hes going to over analyse the situation and as much as you say it was nothing hes still going to think he did soemthing wrong. let him in next time you cry dont walk away. the more you push him away the more he will want to stay away. just be honest with him.:)
PS SMILE!
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i bleached my hair about five weeks ago and i'm really sick of it. anyone who is experienced with hair or who has personally done this before, is it too early to dye it back dark? (link)
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id wait alittle longer because you could start to get white hair. I dyed my hair over bleach and the only thing that happened is the ends got really dry and unhealthy so you may need to have a trim afterwards. but people say that if you dye your hair it can fall out abit or you might have strands that grow to be white..wait alittle longer before dying it
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So I am on my 31st day and so my period should be starting. Me and my boyfriend both 11 days and 19 days after my period last month had sex and we were protected with a condom. The first time he just pre came but it didn't break , then the 2nd time he didnt cum or pre cum at all. But I am just stressing cause i feel like I am starting my period late. Maybe it's cause i am stressing and playing volleyball. but I've been feeling so sick and hungry all the time and nervous. I dont know what to do. I want my period to come and all I have had is wetness in my underwear, no red!!! :[ I can't just whip out a test or tell my mom, that would be bad (link)
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take a prenancy test 10days after your missed period...it might be nothing. is this discharge normal?because prenant women get discharge soemtimes...just dont stress k its probibly nothing but in 10days after your missed period take the test k just breathe im here for you
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i heard this saying in a song " find your calling"
and i dont really understand what it means. haha.
can someone explain?
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i think it means find what your made to do. find what your good at.find what your ment to be doing on this earth
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a guy asked me if i wanted to try smoking with him and i said sure because i like him a lot. and so we were walking to his brother's apartement and he started making out with me really randomly,,he was going a little too far and i told him to stop. he got really mad and started yelling and then he walked away. wht am i supposed to do, i dont want to ruin our friendship!!! (link)
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he got angry because you didnt want to go further with him??firstly id like to say...goood on you for standing your ground and not feeling like you had to go further just to impress him!
if hes going to force you to do soemthing your not comfortable with then hes not really being a true friend hes kinda using you. tell him how you feel and let him know that your not ready to go further. if he likes you and not using you then he will respect that if he gets angry then dont feel guilty id advice you to keep your distance because its obvious what his motives are
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Well i dont know how to put make up at all i think i look really ugly with make up its just how i am stupid i know though i just need to know what colours would suit me i'll prove photos of me and also like i want a smokey eye sort of thing i want my eyes to stand out but what colours would suit me ?
my eyes are green and im white lol and i always have red cheeks if that helps?
though i really want my eyes to stand out toehr words i really wanna look pretty !
http://i887.photobucket.com/albums/ac77/HildaaJrCarter/LMAO.jpg
http://i887.photobucket.com/albums/ac77/HildaaJrCarter/hildaaamayne.jpg (link)
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omg your gorgeous!you dont even need make up! ok well i really think your eyes would stand out if you put silver eye shadow at the tips of your inner eyes. draw the silver on like a point (like cat eyes)let me find you something that might suit
this look will bring out the green in your eyes
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IvZQt8WZ_W0
this is a smokey look that may suit you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z49yr0zk_pk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMJjVggLf8o&feature=related
i love this one!except less eyeshadow on the very top of her lids
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LtEFoj5HPYM
this one is a very nice natural look
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cVmlrFfwoeM&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAo5gneF5fc&feature=channel
k lol sorry theres so many links i just wanted to find a variety for you hope you have fast internet to watch them, if not send me a personal message and ill try find pictures instead
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14-f
ok so last night i went to a party and i met this REALLY hot guy who is 17, after a while i drank a little bit too much and this morning he sent me a text saying that i was the best he ever had, need to do it again soon. and im pretty sure u know what im talking about when he said best i ever had, considering i woke up in his room...... what am i supposed to do????????????????????????? should i see him again?? (link)
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let me get this straight, your 14 you got drunk and had sex with some guy :S i dont judge you but your alittle too young to be having sex.Im only saying it for your sake.looking out for you. i mean imagine you got pregnant are you mature and old enough to be put in that position??your not legal yet and he could get in alot of trouble for sleeping with a minor!just looking out for you thats all
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and i'm not exaggerating, there's nothing there- i have hips, started my period, etc. and my chest is completely flat as of a 10-year-olds. im 110 lbs, almost 5'6, and i'm really starting to wonder if i will ever get them. is it possible i'll just stay flat-chested the rest of my life and have the chest of a man? as you can imagine i'm really starting to hate and feel completely self-conscious about my body, even though i wear padded bras, etc. i can't do that my entire life and i'm starting to be really really concerned because i've been waiting for them to grow for about 6 years now (some of my friends started developing as early as age 9.) now every single girl my age has them and as much as people tell me i'm "just a late bloomer" and i "still have time" well guess what? i have a woman's body (hips and all), but absolutely no chest what-so-ever. every. single. girl. i. have. ever. seen. or. met. has. boobs. my. age. not only that, but all other signs of puberty are there. so how can i accept myself like this or continue to wait it out? my mom started developing when she was in junior high, and i'm in TENTH, yes tenth grade. i can't even go swimming because guys and girls will plainly see my non-existant chest and it will be it's completely repulsive. please help if you have any advice at all i would really appreciate it :(
thank you
p.s.: (sorry if this is really long), and please don't give me answers if you're gunna say something like "you're only 15 stop being so god damn impatient", it's easy to say coming from someone who's not in my position, believe me. when you're surrounded by people who all have something you don't and are supposed to have, it's a bit destructive on your self esteem. (link)
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omg you poor thing!!!trust me i went through the same thing.i got my period when i was 16 and extra large bras. it was soo frustrating and i know exactly where your coming from. everyones body is different and grows in different ways. by the sounds of things your going to grow up to have a smaller top and a bigger bottom just like a coke bottle shape. It alot more sexier than having big boobs and small bum. guys love the coke bottle shape!you will grow boobs oventually but they may not be bigger than your other friends. When you turn sixteen you can talk to your mum and doctor about going on the pill which in some cases can make you grow boobs.
for now learn to love your body. who cares if you dont have boobs youv still got a great figure and you have curves!!!alot of girls dont have that so your very lucky. i mean if youv got no boobs now you may aswell learn to live with it and learn to love it and just remember you will get boobs oventually. you cant change your body it changes you.
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I know this isn't about sex but i didn't no what to put it under lol.
So I think Obama should have never became president
I think hi is an idiot.
So i want to know people who did vote for him why you did what were your reasons?
Cause if you think hes ganna pay for your bills and provide for you hes not.
I just wanna know everyones reason for why they voted for him or why you didn't vote for him.
Also a lot of people including me, Think he manly won cause he is black and i think if that is true witch i think it is i think thats wrong.
My resons are because I think racism is wrong and if people vote for him only because he's black just means your being racist. Now you might note be but your basing your decision on the color of his skin i and i think thats horriable.
I bet if he was a white man he would not of one or he wouldn't of one for the reasons he did.
PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS OVENSIVLY IM JUST SPREEDING MY OPINION ON WHAT I BELIEVIE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE OR THINK. (link)
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I dont live in the USA but i herd Obama's speaches and the reason i think people voted for him was because he wanted peace. alot of people disliked bush and Mccain gave out the same vibe as bush did when he was president. Obama came out in a more positve mannar and a complete opposite to bush so people trusted that he would make their lives alot happier/safier...if it was me i would be undecided
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is it true that when you put butter on your boobs, they grow bigger???????/???//??//? (link)
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lmao this is a very funny question!but unfortunately no that doesnt work
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How heavy is inplantation bleeding (a sympton of pregnancy)? Is it similar to that of a period, heavier than that, or lighter? I believe that I may be pregnant (I've got strong, other symptoms), and I just had what was a little less than my regular period but more than just spotting. It lasted about three days. Is my period just light this month for some reason? Thanks guys! (link)
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its something that is common to happen when it is your first time being pregnant. its nothing to worry about but see a doctor just incase.
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My prom is in june next year (I know it's far away but EVERYONE in my year is talking about it already) and as I can't take my boyfriend because he goes to a different school, and some of my friends don't even want to go, I was wondering what else we could do instead of going to prom?
I was thinking about a party at a hall near my house, but it might cost too much. But I still like the idea of having a 'end of year party' I guess XD but is there anything else anyone could think of that might be more fun and not expensive? (link)
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organise a bbq at a beach that would be soo cool!have a bon fire lit and stuff itll also be reallky romantic too
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do u think its wrong for a 13 year old boy to have a girlfriend (link)
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well in my opinion 13 is alittle young. the first time i had a bf was when i was 16 and i was old enough and mature enough and understood the concept of having a bf. but at the age of 13 people dont really understand the concept of having a gf they just do it because its cool. problems can arrise and until your ready to be responsible you should take it easy. id wait a year or so because the nicest girls always go for the boys who are still fresh. you have yearrrrrrs ahead of you take it slow and just savour the moment :)
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My mother is a narcissist and used to abuse me emotionally and psychologically. I just came to college a few weeks ago hoping to heal somewhat from that by being in a different environment. However, my roommate has similar issues with her mom, and when she calls her on the phone I can hear a lot of their conversation. It brings back memories and makes me feel the feelings all over again and it is very uncomfortable. I don't know how to make myself feel better when instances like this arise.
When I found out that her family was like mine, I thought it might be nice because we could share our experiences. We did that once, and I didn't even say a lot. But I started panicking and my hands were shaking. I had to go to the bathroom and calm myself down.
If anyone has any advice on any of these issues, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks! (link)
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have a read of this it could help you
http://tearsandhealing.com/narcissist-8.htm?utm_content=8-liv-ocomelove-dealAb&gclid=CPCQ_vq6-JwCFQkwpAodiETnaQ
hope it does
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is it okay for a 19 year old to date a 24 year old? just curious to everyone's opinions :) thanks! (link)
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YEAAAAHHH!!!im 19 and dating a 24yr old ofcourse it is!
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my best friend died about 2 months ago on father's day so that had to be really hard for her dad but anyways we were best friends for almost 10 years and she was the only friend I had in the world so I feel like nobody loves me so i've already tried to commit suicide twice since her death. all I want is to be happy again is that to much to ask? How can I be happy again? (link)
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happyness doesnt come just like that. you need to find happyness.before you find happyness you need to believe that you can be happy.you need to understand that life is happyness altogether. im soo sorry about your friend and im sure shes watching down on you.
you need to live life for your friend. you need to furfill her dreams and desires that she cant be there to do. live for her and make her proud. she wouldnt want to be all the way in heaven to see that your not smiling!it would kill her to know this and not be able to do anything about it...if your unhappy and crying over her she wont be able to rest in her grave (my mum always told me this because i also lost my sister)
scuicide isnt the way to deal with your sadness trust me. its just not worth it because you never know whats on the other side so what if you killed yourself and ended up in a worse position like hell which would be amillion times worse than being tormented on this world. its not worth it. this is just a bump that you need to get over. ofcourse its going to hurt to loose your bestfriend, shes your sister, your family.
do the things you love doing like listening to music, reading books.you know what helps me when im angry or sad is to write in a book about my feelings and whats going through my head because youll feel alot better and if you really wanna go all out you can burn the paper or rip it up or even burry it. seriously youll feel soo much better!!!
talk about your feelings go to a counsellor..or if you like im here for you to talk at any time..im a good listener this is my email sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
PS I LOVE YOU!
Siaxo
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okay so my boyfriend and i were hookin up and weve neevr had sex or anything. anyway he started going in and did the motion of sex and everything but he wasnt actually inside me. it wasnt until now (a few hours later) that i realized that could get me pregnant. we r both 15 so PLEASE tell me what the chance of me getting pregnant is. he is SO WORRIED now and im nervous too and i feel really bad scaring him about this so we need some facts. please post things in your replies because i cant open links because i have blocks on my comp that block ANYTHING sexual.
i really just need to know the chance of me getting pregnant from it. im a virgin and SUPER tight so is the way for me to get pregnant even opened up yet???
thank you SO much! i reeaalllyy need some help. :/
i'll rate!! (link)
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ok relax breathe let me find something on symptoms of pregnancy...i dout you r but just to be caucious!now remember to use a condom please!but by the sounds of things you are not ready for sex. i think you should wait next time :)
Timing of Pregnancy Symptoms
Symptom Usually when?
Temperature drop (dip) Implantation day
Implantation bleeding or spotting:(a slight staining of a pink or brown color) 8-10 days after ovulation(Period)
Lower abdominal cramps / Implantation cramps / hot flashes 8-10 days after ovulation
A positive blood hCG pregnancy test 10 days after fertilization/ovulation
A positive urine home pregnancy test (HPT) 10-14 days after ovulation/fertilization
An elevated BBT 15+ days without a menstrual period
No period. A missed menstrual period
(amenorrhea) Your period is supposed to come 14-16 days after ovulation
Nausea 2-4 weeks after ovulation
Nipple or breast tenderness 3-4 weeks after conception (Conception is the process of the sperm (from the male) and the egg (from the female) coming together
Fatigue and tiredness 3-10 weeks after conception
Vomiting 3-10 weeks after conception
Food cravings 1-2 months after conception
Frequent urination Usually after 1-2 months
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Okay, so here's the story.
I'm 15/f and my ex boyfriend is 15 too. When we were about 7 months into the relationship, I became pregnant, I decided to keep the baby. This put a lot of stress on the relationship. We went out for just about a year. I decided it was time to breakup with him because I was feeling like that was the right thing to do at the time. I regret it extremely, but it's something I have to live with. I do still believe we have feelings for each other.
(With the pregnancy thing, please don't judge me, I used protection, and I still don't regret having sex with him.)
The problem is, I've had 4 boys in my life before, and each was different, and I learned sort of how to compare one to the other and realize if I loved or not. He's never had another girlfriend but me, so he thinks he loves me, but he really has no prior experience and it can be hard to tell with your first.
This boy, my ex boyfriend now, I believe is the absolute love of my life. I just simply can't get over him. It's been about two weeks now, and I think it's best to let him just move along and date again because then he may be able to just get a little bit more of an idea of who he likes in a girl. It's really hard. I can tell that I'm having a harder problem with it than him, because I'm constantly thinking of him ect.
He still calls every once in a while, and we get along. He will text me occasionally, and we have yet to hangout, but he told me that in the next few weeks we will.
(he will still be here for me and the baby, he has made that very clear)
So I really don't know exactly what I'm asking here, maybe for some advice, and if you agree that by him going out with other girls, he will gain more experience and knowledge about what he wants in them/life/expectations etc.. and he will really be able to tell he was in love with me or not.
Because with my first boyfriend I swore I thought I was in love, but in the end, realized I wasn't.
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hey heeey... you know what i think is that you need to stop over analysing the situation and try plan for his future. he can make his own decisions and i rekon love isnt something that needs to be experimented on. your really not going to like it if he was with another girl. its really going to hurt you and i dont want you to go through that. give him some space to clear his head and let him think about what he really wants. if theres still a connection adn still a spark between you two then let him know before its too late. dont wait until hes with another girl because what if that girl wont let him go??things can get conplicated. just give him space then tell him that you still miss him and want to try work things out
P.S dont worry i dont judge you at all
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