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my name is sarah. or doodle. i'm 16 and now a junior at SMHS. HATE IT! i play slowpitch and fastpitch softball. im verrrry sarcastic. you'll never know if i'm being serious or not. i'd have to say i've been through a lot, but you might not think so. try me, i could surprise you =)

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Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest??

how about no where? like other people said, stab fruit or punch ur bed or something like that. but dont cut yourself or do anything to hurt yourself!
~*Sarah*~

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How can you get rid of hickeys. and if you cant, how long does it usually take for them to go away?

i think you can put a spoon in the freezer for about an hour or 2 and then rub it on there. or u can use concealer. or put a band-aid over it and say something happened, like a cat scratched you, you burned urself with a straightener, something along those lines.
~*Sarah*~

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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!!

if you have went out with him 4 times and he broke up with you all 4 times for some other girl, i dont think you should go back out with him. i think hes just tellin you loves you and holdin your hand to get him to go back out wit you. maybe you 2 should be friends for a while and if his feelings stay the same for you, then try going back out. but stay friends for a while.
~*Sarah*~

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I know people say that when you skip meals and stuff, that you actually get fatter. But how long do you have to skip meals b4 you start getting skinnier?

for one, charmed-cherry21 was wrong and you were right, by not eating it makes you gain weight. each person is different so it depends. and i think it depends on your metabolism also. if your used to eating lets say every day at 5 and u eat a big meal every day at that time and the same amount of food, your body would get used to that so everyday around 5 it would expect food. if you eat a lot, i think it is going to be hard for u to just stop eating and try to loose weight that way.
~*Sarah*~

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does anyone know any cheats for Sims 2 besides the one that gives you more money because i already know that one.ill rate u a 5 if u answer! thanks

go to cheatcodes.com they have codes for everything
~*Sarah*~

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I am writing an essay for school and the prompt is What Courage Means to me. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or examples of courage and tips on what I should write.

write about a personla experience you have had where you had to have a lot of courage to over come that particular thing. my teacher always told me to write about some but not a lot personal experiences when writing essays. we had to write them last year and take that state writing assessment thing.
~*Sarah*~

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hey i know you all know the feeling.. im bored out of my brains! im at work at the moment im filling in for someone as a receptionist on my school holidays.. im on the computer all day and i get REAL BORED does anyone know any entertaining sites that dont involve sound or sex..?

you can go to bored.com..they have a LOT of stuff to pick from to do.. games, music stuff, romance stuff, all kinds of stuff! or if u wanna play games, you can go to miniclip.com!
~*Sarah*~

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I have this boyfriend, he's 17 and I'm 14. My boyfriend's home situation and law situation aren't too good. He has outworn his welcome at my house because of my dad. My dad has tried to convince both of us to break up with eachother. How do I tell my father that I'm being responsible and love my boyfriend and age doesn't matter? Or is he right?
signed,
in need of help.

for one thing, he's not right for trying to make ya'll break up. or at least i dont think so. have your boyfriend try to show your father that he wouldn't do anything to hurt you or stuff like that. also, in my state, ya'll can legally date. once he turns 18, and ya'll are still together, and ya'll have sex or something like that (im not sayin that ya'll are going to) and your dad finds out, your dad can press charges against him. its called like statutory(sp?) rape. im pretty sure you know all about this stuff though.
~*Sarah*~

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im 14/f a Freshman..my brother-in-law has a nephew which is 16-Junior...if me and him were to start going owt..do u think it would b weird to tell my friends im goin owt wit my brotherinlawz nephew?..i mean would that make us 2 related?...nd do u think im considered a hoe for dating a junior when im only a freshman?

if he is ur brother-in-law, then ya'll dont have any relation at all. and dont tell your friends your going out with your brother-in-laws nephew. unless you want to. if they ask where you met him at, simply say through my brother-in-law. and no, you wouldn't be a ho for dating a junior. i thought you were only called a ho for sleeping with numerous people?
~*Sarah*~

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Okay I am 40 weeks pregnant. I was due xmas day. I still have not given birth! What could be taking so long? I am becoming so miserable, uncomfortable and irritated, not to mention impatient. Please if someone has any suggestions please help!

shouldnt you have already gone to the hospital? i think so. cant they give you an emergeny c-section? or is that only to have your baby before the due date? sorry i couldn't be of that much help, maybe not even any help at all.
~*Sarah*~

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I like this guy right, but he is in 7th grade and im in 6th. i really do like him and hes very cute, and hes sooo nice and funny. sometimes i think i may love him.i joke around and call him babe and hun and hottie and all those things but i really dont know if i should ask him out or wait till we meet in person. but im not that pretty amand so im afraid to wait.please help!

wait, you've never meet him in person? so is he like an internet friend? if he is, how do you no for sure that he is really a 7th grader? anyway, back to your question. i highly recommend that you wait until you meet in person.
~*Sarah*~

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I really wanna make cookies but i have NO EGGS!! does anyone know a substitution besides going out to the store and getting some??

ask your neighbor if you could borrow some. i dont think ther really is any other substitution you could use.
~*Sarah*~

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This is so embarrassing but i feel like my breath smells really bad all the time... i brush and use listerine twice a day and still cant get rid of it. Is there any good products out there or any suggestions on what to do? I don't think gum would help that much.
Thanks
*Erica*

hey! why dont you try using those listerine pocket strips (or whatever they are called). or buy some brush ups and after lunch during school go to bathroom and use them. they work.
~*Sarah*~

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My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else.

i think you should give him another chance. apparently, fate is bringing ya'll together. and about his past, forget it. start a new chapter in ya'lls life and see if that works. im pretty sure it will!!! and its good that ya'll are taking things slow right now, instead of speeding into things. and if you still have feelings for him, dont second doubt them. try to get back with him! but like you said and i said, take things slow so that way you won't do anything you regret (and im not saying that you will!)
~*Sarah*~

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what are signs that you are pregnant?

throwing up and either not gettin ur period at all or getting it late. thats all i no of, except for your stomach getting bigger. the only way to no if you are pregnant is to go to the doctor or but a pregnancy test.
~*Sarah*~

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how do you delete aim screen names? i want to delete my old sn and get a new! how would i go about doing this?! i rate! :)

if you go to aim.com it should tell you!
~*Sarah*~

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And its causing my legs to hurt in pain. Ive been exerising for two days at the same place. I cant walk properly without having some kind of balance, and I've crawled most of the time even up the stairs. My mom thinks I'm faking it just because I dont want to go exerising again. I dont, because the pain will only get worse. Is doing the same exerise helping me or hurting me?
I'm 15, and female.

you should do different exercises. and maybe not exercise as long as you do if it is hurting that bad. and maybe exercise every other day so that way you can give your body a rest and it can get ready for the next day. and if all your doing is one exercise that could have an effect on your pain. do different ones. ex: pushups, situps, run, etc. get what im sayin?
~*Sarah*~

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im 13 and i weigh 173. i need help bad. how can i loose weight? i dont look like i weigh that much but i do. please help!

cut back on your sweets and sodas. eat 3 healthy meals a day. maybe eat 1 (ONE) apple or any kind of fruit between each meal. make sure u eat breakfast because that is the most important meal of the day. and dont skip meals because that makes you gain more weight. and maybe exercise more than you do. go outside and run about 10 minutes each day to start with. gradually increase about 5 minutes about every 5-7 days. or when u can run 10 minutes without really gettin out of breathe. play other sports too. hope i helped!
~*Sarah*~

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are there any ways to enjoy making out with braces? or is it too difficult and bloody?

i dont think it would be as difficult as you are making it sound. and no, i highly doubt it would be bloody.
~*Sarah*~

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16/f
well, there is this guy that i have known since i was like 4 and he really likes me! but i only like him as a friend and the thing is, is that i REALLY like his cousin! what should i do?

oh man. well if ya'll have been friends for 12 years and you like his cousin a lot, dont you think that would ruin ya'lls friendship if you dated his cousin and he really likes you? maybe talk to him about the situation and go over some stuff. like how maybe you can date his cousin without dating him. or maybe you can give him a chance and if that dont work out then maybe(?) go for his cousin. i would just be careful of his feelings. well if you were, you would also hurt your feelins. you should see if his cousin likes you, then if he does, go from there.
~*Sarah*~

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