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Ok the LOVE OF MY LIFE is in prison for 7 freaking years! He really does care about me but thats so long! I love him but were in two tottally differents worlds ritte now. What should I do??
Hey there,
If he loves you the way you love him, then you could try to make the relationship work by writing to him as much as possible. If you really want this to work, then you have to be able to communicate with him and support him. It may be difficult to deal with the two different environments and not being able to see eachother, but you can get through it.
But, if at any time you find that it isn't working out or it is too frustrating trying to keep in contact, it may be time to move on... you do say he is the love of your life, so hold on tight, write him, and let him know how much you care about him. Keeping in contact is what will hold you two together. Tell him about your world and let him tell you about his
It seems like my husband has been putting me down a lot from the way I grocery shop, cook, put grocery's in the car, in the house. He makes fun of my feet because they are cracked, my hands because I bite my nails, and he is constantly joking about stuff that is not funny. I'm to the point where I'm embarrassed about when he opens his mouth if we r in public. I have withdrawn from him and even though we have sex there is absolutely no emotional connection. I love my husband but I'm scared that we are growing apart and he doesn't even see it. I have asked him directly to please keep his jokes to himself n that jokes are not on me and then he tell me I don't have a sense of humor. What do i do to get him to see that this is not healthy in our marriage. I'm no saint and I think that I'm really angry inside n I do want to not be around or talk or communicate at all anymore and that frankly scares me.
Hey there,
It is not right that he can treat you this way. What you need to do is sit him down and tell him from the heart that you really do not appreciate the way he has been treating you. If he does not listen, try seeing a relationship counsellor together. They can help you to discuss things better with your spouse and allow you both to open up about how you are feeling. You should not be having sex with someone you cannot put your heart into. If it is mindless sex, it is pointless sex. If he does not listen to what you have to say or does not want to see a counsellor with you, then maybe it is time to move on and get a divorce. But, before it comes to that, try to talk it out and have him understand what you are feeling.
If you cannot talk, it is not a relationship. You deserve someone who will listen, support you, and treat you how you deserve to be treated; with respect. You need to have a life where you are happy and free to be yourself. It is alright to love someone, but just because you love someone does not mean you have to live with them
We are both 16 and i'm not sure what he means. I have been friends with this guy since I was in second grade. He has always been like a brother to me, so I dont think that this has anything to do with sex. We have never dated or done anything. He helps me when I'm in trouble, but i'm not a bad peron who gets into trouble either. I've never had any desires or urges to become sexual with him and he hasnt either, sometimes he tells me I'm like one of the guys.People keep telling me its only about sex thats why I'm sying its not. He keeps our relationship non sexual, fully respects me, never says anything sexual and is always being nice to me,so what did he mean he wanted to teach me about life?
Hey,
He may of meant that he wanted to show you new things, go new places, and explore the new with you. He could also mean that he wants to be more than just friends. If he isn't a sexual person, then I rather doubt that he means he wants to have sex with you. I believe you know him better than those people that tell you he's only in it for sex. So, if you feel he has been wanting to become closer lately.. then you are probably correct. Since he respects you, do not be afraid to casually ask him "what did you mean that day when you said you wanted to teach me about life?...". He should be willing to let you know what he meant.
He sounds like a great guy, so do not let him slip between your fingers. Let him know you were questioning what he said and when he explains it to you, say "thanks for helping me understand" and smile at him. If you want to ask him out, ask him. If he says he wants to be closer, tell him it is alright with you :) When you let a guy know you inner thoughts, it brings your hearts closer together
thanks to anyone in advance!!!
ok so i want a Kodak easyshare camera!! any tips or advice?? my main question is does the "share" button work?? it shows on the comercials you click the share button and then select "facebook" and it uploads. does this really work? thanks!!! ill rate you 5 if its worth it!! thank you soo much!! :)
Hey there,
Yes it does work. I personally do not own a Kodak camera, but my friend does and she says it is simple, easy, and she loves it. I have seen her use it. Heres a website I found that may help you, check out the cute video! ;)
http://store.kodak.com/store/ekconsus/en_US/ContentTheme/pbPage.1004_share_cameras_lp?pq-path=9355&pq-locale=en_US&_requestid=12019
OK so i am 13 and boys keep trying to feel me up i keep wondering why then my friend tells me she told a boy i would do anything cause i was desperate.Why did she do this?To be popular! Please what should i do i am dying from embarrisment :(
Hey there,
She probably did it because she feels insecure about herself. When someone is insecure, they feel the need to bring other people down in order to make themselves seem higher. Maybe she is having problems with her home/school life. It was definately wrong to start a rumour about you. Perhaps she wasn't thinking at all..
To clear things up, tell this guy straight that you aren't that kind of person, that you would appreciate it if he stopped this kind of behaviour to you, and that if he tries anything again you are going to report it. It takes courage, but sometimes if a guy keeps bugging you inappropriately, then the only way to get out of the situation is to tell someone you trust.
Try to hold your head up high; you can be stronger than these people. Explain that you are nothing like your friend said, continue stating who you really are, and in time people will start believing your inner self. Not hanging out with this guy will also make people see you in a new light. Obviously this girl is not really a good friend for you if she did this to you. Let her know it was wrong of her and she should have more respect for people. Be yourself, hang out with the people you trust, and don't let this incident bring down the true you. If you let the real you shine, no one will even stop to think about what happened that day
I know what inside jokes are so dont go on telling me haha :) but what is a quick way to make inside jokes with your boyfriend over texting!??? LOTS of answers!!!:):)) thanksss I'll rate after two or three people have answered!!
~Kaiya
Hey,
A quick way to make inside jokes would be to know what he finds amusing and use it to your advantage. What I mean is if he says something alot, such as "reaaaly" then you could be talking about anything and say "reaaaaaly" to him. Only he will understand the concept/double meaning, for he is the one that said it in the first place.
Or... if he tells you oneday "I really don't like pickles", then on another day, you could be talking about a meal and when he says "was it good?", you can say "at least it didn't have pickles!". You know what I mean? You have to know what he will laugh at, know what he finds humourous, and refer to things you have in common with him. Then when you say it, he will be sure to know you are cracking an inside joke. Sarcasm ususally helps.
Every guy has a different amusement, so find the little things that make him grin and try it on him. Only you will know what makes him smile
i feel empty without a gf, do u know anyway to fill that ga without getting a gf?
Hey there,
You could fill that gap by doing things to distract your mind from that topic. Do things you enjoy. Go for a walk, play sports, learn a new hobby, rearrange your bedroom, make a checklist of things you have always wanted to do (actually do them and check them off as you go), listen to your favorite tunes, and hang out with your best bros. When you hang out with your friends, you are likely to always have a good time and be ditracted. When your heart is filled with new people and fun activities, the gap will be filled.
Try not to get caught up in believing you need a girlfriend all the time. Girls, sure they are nice... but they do come with a hassle as well. Girls can be picky, annoying, disturbing, cling-ons, backstabbers, shop-a-holics, and plain bi*ches.
I am not saying there aren't good girls out there, but when you are single, you don't have to worry where she is, what she is doing, when your next anniversary is, what you should buy her for a gift, if she is checking out another guy, if she is cheating, if she still loves you, and etc, etc.
Majority of people are single in this world. I believe it is because a person believes they have found the right person, gets aqquainted, gets married or in a deep relationship, and then they find out the person is not at all who they thought they were.. resulting in divorce, break-ups, and a lot of complications afterward. Fill the gap by thinking of the positives of being single, kicking back with just the guys, having a chip and dip party while watching a movie, and as I said before; do the things you have been meaning to do. There is no better time than now, for when the girl you are meant to be with shows up... you will wish you had all this free time to do things alone
Okay so me and my bf saw eachother tonight and had a great time. He told ke when I was leaving that he liked seeig me alot and was happy he cld see me. We hugged and I left: (we haven't kissed yet so that's why we didn't do anything else) but he texted me and this is our conversation...
Him:hey
me: hey did you and ____ (
Hey,
There could be many reasons why he left your convo at that. He could of had to go do something (eat supper, have a shower, go do chores), he might have forgot something and suddenly remembered he had to do it/get it, he could of been pleasantly suprised that you would say that, or he may not have known how to respond.
It sounds as if he may have a lot on his mind. Ask him if everything is alright, tell him you will be there for him no matter what, and reassure him that you will always love him. Maybe he just needs a break from life. If he is having a rough time, give him a little space. Wait for him to text you the next day (like he said he would) and then see if you two can hang out sometime. Relaxing with one another, supporting his feelings, working out problems, and understanding eachother better will help you two be even closer.
Do not worry about being too paranoid. It is normal to wonder what is going on in a guys head. Guys are sometimes hard to decypher. Hang out with him and read his body language to see if he feels the same as when you first became boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes all you need is a little one on one to let eachother know everything is alright
Me- f/15 Brother- m/17 going on 18
I am a little worried about my brother. He just graduated high school and will be off to college in August. He got a large amount of new friends during senior year. Some of them known to party and what not. I knew he drank illegally at parties because I heard rumors and stuff. This summer I have seen him going off with his school back pack whenever he goes out. I got a little suspicious and recently found it in his room full of drugs. I am worried about him. I don't want him to go to college and fail out. I know that if I tell my parents they will be surprised because he was always and honor roll student, if I don't tell I feel like I should. Should I keep my mouth shut so that my brother won't be mad at me and never trust me? I feel bad for snooping in his matters, you can tell me it's not my place because he's almost an adult and can make his own decisions but I had to know. So tell or not?
Hey there,
Yes, it was wrong of you to snoop in his bag.. but, if he is setting himself up for trouble, somebody has to set him back on the right path. Don't believe every rumour you hear, unless you have proof. I am sure he may have been doing bad things, but do not tell your parents unless you are absolutely sure. He could just be having a good time at parties without alcohol..?.. he could just be carrying his pack around with drugs for some of his buddies..?.. you never know.
Before you tell your parents anything, talk to him about it. First, admit that you looked in his pack. He can be mad if he wants, but explain that you were concerned and that if he is doing drugs or drinking, you thought he knew better than that. Do not raise your voice at him, but let him know it is wrong and that if he doesn't tell your parents, in time you will. I am sure he will be mad for a while, but do not tell your parents for at least a few days after confronting him. I know it will be hard, but that way you allow him to think about what he is doing wrong and it gives him time to turn himself in without the hassle of you telling and having a bomb thrown at him.
He will always have some respect for you since you would have given him a chance to do what is right. Talk to him, give him time, then talk to your parents about it calmly. I am glad you know that drugs and alcohol are bad for him and for anyone. It is alright to worry about these kinds of things. Kudos for you looking after your brother. Do what you know is right. Even if it hurts at first, he will appreciate it later
I'm 17 and a female. I went to the mall today and I am hanging with some of my friends. This guy shows up and I didn't know who he was but he was ne of my friends friends. So I'm hanging out with him. And I find out that hes a really cool person. So i start talking to him and start to flirt with him and he flirts back. He is 19 and hes really cute and sweet. Not to mention he does have a sense of humor. But i dont know if he likes me too or not. and im afraid to really try to do anything with him because i am afraid of what he might do. I dont want to be dissapointed. What should I do? This is the first time asking for help with a guy. I am so confused right now..
Hey,
If he seems nice, but if you are worried, then get to know him a bit more. Find out what his interests are and spend some time with him. The only way you will know if he likes you, is if you ask him or flirt with him in person and see if he reacts positively.
Texting doesn't really show you what feelings he is expressing towards you, it really is a bunch of words on a screen getting figured out by your imagination. Do not judge him; find out what he is really like by spending time with him (try gaining some alone time to have private convos), go to a movie together, go for a walk with him, and learn how he would treat a potential girlfriend. If he is respectful, loving, and sincere with you in person, he is likely a good boyfriend. Do continue to text him too. If you are not the only one starting convos, it shows he is interested.
You already say he is sweet and funny, so go for it. It sounds as if he is a cute gentleman. If you do not feel comfortable about something when you are with him, let him know. He will show his true colors by reacting to how you show your feelings. If you like a guy, do not let him slip through your fingers!
ok so i was just wondering without being a slut becuase i like to flirt!! How can you get guys to like flirt with you and hug you alot but not just ine ALL OF THEM..ehe i know sounds bad but i like flirting...is that bad? and im not usually the one to do this ..ive always been like the saint of my group ive never done anything bad or even had a bf but i love to like be touch with guysss...helppp
Hey,
Lol, sounds like you love the guys! Flirting is not a bad thing, unless you are dating someone, then you should only flirt with that one guy. Otherwise, flirt away. As long as the guys don't mind it, it is acceptable.
Flirting keeps a person young, gives you excitement, keeps your heart happy, and allows you to be free with your emotions. As long as you have a positive attitude, are accepting of others, and are an outgoing person, guys will love you. They will also be drawn to you. If you are comfortable around a guy, come up behind him, wrap your arms around his neck or place your arms on his shoulders then just talk to him playfully. If you are sitting near a guy, scoot closer and gently touch his leg. If he responds positively, then keep it there.. squeeze his knee. As much as you love touch, majority of guys love it even more. Most guys, if they are comfortable with you will appreciate and/or get turned on by touch alone. Give him a massage ;)
Feel free to smile and ask a guy if you can have a hug too (hugs increase your lifespan, plus they are nice), most will oblige if you have the three things I mentioned above (starting with positive attitude). Then, if you ask him once everyday, eventually it may become normal for him and he will welcome your hugs anytime (he may even ask you later). If one guy sees you hug another guy, he may get jealous and want to hug you too. Do not be pushy if a guy says 'no thanks', just casually move on. There are a ton of guys and you will always find at least one that is outgoing and willing to accept anything you would like to offer.
Make sure the guy is comfortable around you, then be your flirty self. If he knows you, then he will understand how you act around guys. Once a guy is comfortable around you, then make a physical move. I think we all know saints have a little sinner in them..
About five years ago, I had a seizure. I think it would be what's called a grand mal seizure. I passed out and started jerking. Ever since then, I've had these weird things that I've always called mini seizures. I'll be riding in a car and the sun will be kind of flashing through the trees, and if I close my eyes, it's like I'm having a seizure only I'm awake. I'll freeze up and feel like I'm jerking, and it takes me about 10 seconds to snap out of it. Sometimes I'll be talking when it happens and I'll hear my voice get shaky, but when I ask the people with me if they noticed anything, they say no. They never see me jerk or hear my voice shake or anything. I've heard about mini seizures before, but none of the experiences I've read about sound anything like mine. Any advice on what this could be?
Hey there,
I have had seizures before and so I can relate to you. I believe what you are having is a type of seizure, they are just more mild now that its been a few years.
I used to have brain bleeds when I was little, so now I have minor seizures. When I am about to have one, I have a 'feeling' I'll call it, where I get a weird feeling inside of my stomach and then I know I am going to have one. People hardly ever notice, for they only last about 20 seconds and I don't shake or anything, I just kind of blank out (like staring into space, which most people do anyhow). My mom says I seem to turn my head a little to one side, so she notices sometimes when I am going to have one. She also says, that if im in a middle of a sentance, I will just start slurring my words if I am having a seizure.
Flashing lights, worrying, and stress are main causes of seizures. Try not to get stressed out, do things that you enjoy and take time to relax if you start to feel exhausted. Simple things like pulling over in your vehicle when you feel like you are having one can save your life too.
Whenever you feel like you are going to have one, just relax yourself and breath. You probably have epilepsy, which is common for a lot of people, even famous actors. I would go to your doctor and get it checked out, for if you continue to have seizures you could damage your brain and end up having a bunch of grand mal seizures for your adult life. It is better to catch them when they are small and fix it while it is easy. I hope you find the help you may need so you can continue your life without any worry of seizures
I feel...Lonely. It's not like I don't have SOME friends. I do, it's just that, I never want to be with them until I am on the verge of tears.
Recently, I have been rather taken with my best friend and I'm close with him and his family, but then on Facebook, I see that he went to a nearby beach with his family and a girl(who I'm also friends with).
Now, this girl is close friends with his older brother and maybe that's why she was there. I know I'm being clingy and paranoid but I just feel that I need to move on.
How do I do that? This boy has taken 5 years of my life with him. I want to make other friends, closer friends, and maybe be with someone. But, how do I go about it? Especially in the summer?
Hey there,
It is normal to feel lonely. But, you should't let it go to far. It is alright if you feel as if this other girl should not be in the picture. To get your mind off of him, try involving yourself in activities and positive things you normally wouldn't do. Such as: take a walk (even if its around the block), listen to your favorite music, play with/get a small pet you would be able to take care of (my little pug entertains me), rent a movie (have some popcorn,your favorite candy,or just a fluffy pillow,just chill), do things with your friends (have a spa day, pack a picnic, have a slumber party), just chill by learning to cook/bake something you want, find a penpal! (they are loads of fun, will have common interests, and will love discovering new things with you), Or do something you've always been meaning to.
To make new friends, join a group, go to a camp, go bowling, hang out at a mall and comment someone that looks interesting to meet, or join the friends you have on a night out with their friends. Try to step out of your comfort zone, it will expand your horizons.
The best way to meet a guy is to go somewhere guys go, always smile, get out more, play a sport, and/or go to the movies. Always be sure to be yourself. A guy usually comes when you are not looking for a guy. Go somewhere where you will enjoy yourself. When a guy sees you happy, he is more likely to be happy and make a move. If you see a guy that looks cute, don't be afraid to comment on something he is wearing or his hair, etc. He will be sure to react positively, then flirt and work your way from there.
When your body is doing fun things, it has no time to think about the bad. Fill your time with all the things you love. Start making a list now and checking them off :) Everything will work from there
I am a fifteen year old girl and one of my very very best friends is a boy who is sixteen. No. I don't like him. He has always been there for me. He used to be my boyfriends bff but when me and my bf broke up I kind of took him with me... teehee :). Anyway, even when I was dating my ex, my guy friend and I were super close. We tell eachother everything. But I feel like our relationship is sooo weird. Cuz we hold hands and cuddle and I sit in his lap and what not and we flirt with eachother sometimes but we never kiss or anything. We're just really touchy and flirty friends? Haha. But we both like different people. The guy I like right now doesn't really liike the kind of relationship me and my guyfriend have and I guess I can't blame him. I'm not really sure how my ex was ever okay with it... But I dunno, we've always done this. Is it weird?? It doesn't feel that weird to me when we do it but it sounds weird haha I don't know! I wanna make things work with this new guy. He knows I don't like my guyfriend he's just not comfortable with us being so touchy... What do I do? I feel like the touching is just part of our friendship...
Hey there,
I totally understand what you mean :) It is totally normal and it is okay if you and your guy friend are playfully touchy/friendly with eachother. But, if your new guy feels uncomfortable or doesn't like you being this way around your friend, then talk to your new guy about it and explain that you are just friends with your friend.
It is okay that you are this way with him, just make sure your new guy understands what is happening. Obviously, your boyfriend (I'll call him) feels that his territory is being intruded by your guyfriend. So, tell him that he is the only one you truly want to be in a relationship with. If he still feels that you are crossing a friendship line with your guy friend, try not to be so touchy around your guyfriend in front of him. Treat him different, continue telling him he is the only one for you and make sure he feels like he is the special guy. Don't ignore your guy friend, but make sure you keep your real loving side to the guy you truly want to be with.
Talk to your boyfriend about it and if he doesn't want to listen, maybe he isn't the right guy for you. Never lose your loving flirty side towards your guyfriends ever (just keep it to a minimum around your real boyfriend). It is what keeps you positive and shows who you really are. Also, it is pure fun and lets you express your emotions! Go ahead and be yourself ;)
What are some things I can do so my boyfriend will be really turned on? I do NOT want to have sex or show him anything of mine or touch anything or his or vise versa! Haha but I want him to just really want me. And remember no sex or anything like that!!! Lol Please help me soon! Anybodys help is appreciated! :) please and thank you!!!
~Kaiya
Hey there,
You can talk sexy to him, saying things like "I like it when you ______" or "You really look hot when you wear ______", it will make him feel loved and turn him on. A guy loves it when you tell him face to face what you really appreciate about him. You could also, rub his shoulders, give him a back massage, or kiss him passionately, a guy loves touch anywhere on his body; it is a big turn on. Other then that, I would just flirt alot with him or find what makes him tick and use that to your advantage. Every guy has a physical and also as you want to know, a non-physical thing that makes them turned on.
Every guy is different, so once you know what makes him hot (figure it out or ask him), use it on him; soon you will be on your way to him being turned by you no matter what
Okay... uhm. Here's how it's going. I got dumped by a toootal a$$. Anyway. I've moved on, its been about... two months? And I like this boy, we'll call him J. J is super duper nice and I really like him but I don't really know what our relationship is right now. We've been talking for about a month and a half and we've hung out a few times never kissed or anything but we're both really flirty. I just don't know if we are "talking"... Like I don't know if I should ask him...? Cuz I don't wanna scare him off... And I don't wanna ask him who he likes and then him think I'm asking because I don't see what we're doing as something that could become romantic ya know? I just don't know what to do but I wanna know where we stand...
Hey there,
If you are unsure, then maybe hint around the subject. You say you flirt alot, so say things like 'hey do you think im cute?' flirty and sarcastically, 'I really think you would look cute in sexy boxers' and grin at him, or 'have you ever thought of us as ________?'. These things will grab his attention and notice that you may want to move to a closer realtionship. Possibly he believes you are just being a friendly, flirty person right now, instead of giving him a girlfriend potential kind of flirting. If you don't feel comfortable being bold, then when alone with him, casuallly asking him how he feels about you or mentioning you really like him while looking into his eyes will make him get the hint. If he reacts surprised or such, just say 'I was just curious' or 'it is alright if you don't feel the same way', so that he doesn't feel turned off.
If you want to be in a romantic relationship with him, don't be afraid to ask him. Be yourself, respect what his response is, and you shouldn't scare him off by just asking. He must be understanding if he is as nice as you described. Just go for it and don't be afraid to talk to him about anything that you are wondering. He will hear your heart if you speak it
i slept with my ex a day after my boyfriend and i went through this huge break up. but then we got back together and now he feels like i cheated on him. it's 7 months later and he still has a hard time trusting me. how can i regain his trust? i dont wanna lose him.
Hey,
The only way you are going to gain his trust again, is if you be honest from here forth. Tell him you that you thought it would be okay since you had just broke up with him. Say you are sorry that it happened (let the past be the past), you are willing to talk about 'rules' needed in your relationship (to keep it going and so you are on the same level), and that you will try to respect his needs from now on. He may not believe you or trust you at first (keep telling him every now and then until he does), but after you have told him what I have said above, he will have a better respect for you and then it is all up to him.
You cannot make someone trust you more, you can only stick to your word and continue showing your honesty until your guy says he believes you; only then will he truely trust you. Trust is a hard thing to gain.. it takes patience, respect for one another, and determination to gain the others trust. Show him your honesty and your heart, then you will be on your way
Theres this guy named Jeff. I dated him for 2 months and then he broke up with me for some girl. Well we have been talking some (Jeff and me) and well we have had long conversations. Him and Kimberly broke up and well i told him i loved him and then randomly he says "so hows your mom" (by the way this is facebook chat) Does this mean he likes me? And im 13 hes 14 and im a girl.
Hi,
I would say, there's no way to know if he likes you or not just cause he said "hows your mom". It sounds as if he was changing the topic. He could possibly like you, but maybe his response was also a way of saying "I am a little shocked you came right out and told me" or "what should I do now that I know she likes me?".
I would flirt with him a bit. Try to talk to him in person and read his body language. If he stares at you, is fidgity, or is at loss for words when you are having a convo, then I would say he likes you. Based on what you told me, I cannot determine what he may be feeling. Hint that you like him and see if he responds positively. If he does, there could possibly be feelings for you still hiding inside of him. Obviously he cares about you based on his comment. If this facebook chat is not private, you may want to make it private for him so everyone cannot read it, just you two (such as text it instead).
Open up to him and he should be comfortable to open up to you. Watch for signs that he used to do when you were together, these things will let you know he is still interested. When he said what he did, it could also be his way of being shy about how he really feels. Saying "It is okay if you feel _______ towards me" will help him realize it is alright for him to share his feelings he has about you. It sounds as if he will open up to you, so just be yourself... the person he fell for the first time
I like this guy a lot, but everytime when i try to talk to him i get nervous. I think he knows that i like him cause his brother keeps looking at me weirdly and because sometime i see him looking at me too. sometime he would be very close to me that my back would touch him or sometimes he would come up and say half a sentence to me but never finishing it and just leave. other times he would just ignore me and do nothing, so one day i ignored him too when he was walking past me and i think i hurt him..
i am very confused, does he like me?
if he does then why cant he make the first move? and why does he keep giving me mixed signals?
Hey,
If he does all the things you are tellin me, then yes, I believe he does like you. Staring, not finishing sentances, and standing close to you are all signs. Him ignoring you is also a way of saying "hey im here and hopefully you notice me and make a move". I believe he was trying to gain your attention and when you ignored him, he was probably expecting more of a response to his actions towards you, instead of an ignorance. He may be confused himself now, for you sent him a mixed signal by ignoring him after his flirting. I don't think he is hurt, just wondering what is going on in your mind.
Why can't he make the first move? Guys get just as nervous as a girl can. Maybe he is a shy guy when it comes to asking a girl out or maybe he thinks the girl should be the one to make the first move. The reason for his mixed signals is probably because he is still figuring out his feelings in his mind.
If you truly want to know what his feelings are for you, flirt back. When you see his response of a smirk, touching of his body, him not being able to respond, or something simple as him staring at you.. you will know he has a thing for you. Try asking him for his number or out for a soda, you will be sure to start something ;)
Every time I put on a 36 c cup, i pop out of it. i try a 34 D 36 d and so on.. they always run out of my perfect size.. and my family is always really low on money.. so we go to walmart..we need a brand that is not 30 dollars per bra.. but 20 is okay i guess. what is that brand that can help women when theyre 'in between' sizes? im 16 so i don't want those pointy fabricy bras. i really want cute types.. i really don't need patterns.. as long as they don't have HUGE straps and aren't pointy with a lot of fabric then im fine. thank you! ohh and i dont want just a thin bit of fabric.. i dont like extra cup padding but i do like thinish protective padding for my nipples. thank you!!
Hey there,
It can be hard to find a bra size that fits you correctly.. but there is this store/brand that sells a ton of different, colorful bras that fit comfortably. It is called LaSenza. Their prices can range anywhere from $10 up and once I found out about them, Walmart bras seemed crazy. You can find cute bras there and ones that are padded differently. If you end up like me and think that there is only a smaller or larger size for you, go for the slightly smaller one. You will find that after you wear it a few days, it seems to fit right. You don't want to end up with a big oversized one.
Check out the site and see if there are ones you like. I hope you find one that is right for you: http://www.lasenza.com/eng/categories/Bras