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is he in to me????
I like this guy a lot, but everytime when i try to talk to him i get nervous. I think he knows that i like him cause his brother keeps looking at me weirdly and because sometime i see him looking at me too. sometime he would be very close to me that my back would touch him or sometimes he would come up and say half a sentence to me but never finishing it and just leave. other times he would just ignore me and do nothing, so one day i ignored him too when he was walking past me and i think i hurt him..
i am very confused, does he like me?
if he does then why cant he make the first move? and why does he keep giving me mixed signals?
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Sounds like he's into you, but shy. It's hard when two shy people like each other because neither of them has the courage to do anything about it! The worst thing you could do at this point is tell him you like him, or ask him if he likes you.
That would seem desperate. Don't tell him, show him. If there's electricity in the air, lace your arm through his. Gauge his reaction before you do anything else.
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alright here we go...... im 13 and i know for a fact that guys are con fusing... shor and sweet never ignore anuone its bad and rude and if someone likes u its devestating. i cant tell you if he likes you or not but u have ta take the initiative and ask him!!!!!! guy are sissies. yau have to ask him and the mixed signal means he is scared of something
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Hey,
If he does all the things you are tellin me, then yes, I believe he does like you. Staring, not finishing sentances, and standing close to you are all signs. Him ignoring you is also a way of saying "hey im here and hopefully you notice me and make a move". I believe he was trying to gain your attention and when you ignored him, he was probably expecting more of a response to his actions towards you, instead of an ignorance. He may be confused himself now, for you sent him a mixed signal by ignoring him after his flirting. I don't think he is hurt, just wondering what is going on in your mind.
Why can't he make the first move? Guys get just as nervous as a girl can. Maybe he is a shy guy when it comes to asking a girl out or maybe he thinks the girl should be the one to make the first move. The reason for his mixed signals is probably because he is still figuring out his feelings in his mind.
If you truly want to know what his feelings are for you, flirt back. When you see his response of a smirk, touching of his body, him not being able to respond, or something simple as him staring at you.. you will know he has a thing for you. Try asking him for his number or out for a soda, you will be sure to start something ;)
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