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ok so i was just wondering without being a slut becuase i like to flirt!! How can you get guys to like flirt with you and hug you alot but not just ine ALL OF THEM..ehe i know sounds bad but i like flirting...is that bad? and im not usually the one to do this ..ive always been like the saint of my group ive never done anything bad or even had a bf but i love to like be touch with guysss...helppp
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Hey,
Lol, sounds like you love the guys! Flirting is not a bad thing, unless you are dating someone, then you should only flirt with that one guy. Otherwise, flirt away. As long as the guys don't mind it, it is acceptable.
Flirting keeps a person young, gives you excitement, keeps your heart happy, and allows you to be free with your emotions. As long as you have a positive attitude, are accepting of others, and are an outgoing person, guys will love you. They will also be drawn to you. If you are comfortable around a guy, come up behind him, wrap your arms around his neck or place your arms on his shoulders then just talk to him playfully. If you are sitting near a guy, scoot closer and gently touch his leg. If he responds positively, then keep it there.. squeeze his knee. As much as you love touch, majority of guys love it even more. Most guys, if they are comfortable with you will appreciate and/or get turned on by touch alone. Give him a massage ;)
Feel free to smile and ask a guy if you can have a hug too (hugs increase your lifespan, plus they are nice), most will oblige if you have the three things I mentioned above (starting with positive attitude). Then, if you ask him once everyday, eventually it may become normal for him and he will welcome your hugs anytime (he may even ask you later). If one guy sees you hug another guy, he may get jealous and want to hug you too. Do not be pushy if a guy says 'no thanks', just casually move on. There are a ton of guys and you will always find at least one that is outgoing and willing to accept anything you would like to offer.
Make sure the guy is comfortable around you, then be your flirty self. If he knows you, then he will understand how you act around guys. Once a guy is comfortable around you, then make a physical move. I think we all know saints have a little sinner in them.. <3
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You can't trick guys into flirting with you and hugging you.
It's natural to enjoy flirting, but you can't expect every guy on earth to reciprocate. If a guy wants to flirt with you, he can do it on his own terms.
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