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Getting over you


Question Posted Thursday July 8 2010, 1:58 am

I fell for my best friend which is not good how do I get over him? I know they say there is no way but there has to be he was my best friend we talked about everything and nothing we were so close yes I kind always had a thing for him but I could deal with it before he even went out with my friend me and her don't talk any more but it don't matter I'm not all that I don't think i'm cute but I don't think i'm ugly I say I'm okay even if I never had a boyfriend I'm big not. Huge but still big well I like him I thought he liked me cause he kissed me even though he has a girlfriend and well after that day he stopped talking to. Me after days passed it happened again this time I went for the kiss he pulled away he left I cried and then I left we were all drinking we were drinking the first time he kissed me both times we were drinking so I left he followed he said sorry and I told him to stay away he said he wasn't going to leave when I went back in I went to the room laid down with my friend and told her what happened I started to cry again he came in asked to talk to me in the bathroom we went in he told me to take care of my friend and myself I asked him why did he do that to me does he think i'm ugly he said he was sorry and that I was preety. I started to cry and asked why not me does he even love his girlfreind he said he doesn't even know then he started kissing me I kissed back he even got hard while we were kissing I saw his dick which was weird we did nothing but kissed nothing more he wanted to but I won't do that yet I told him he had to pick me or her he said he couldn't not yet he needed a week turns out he also kissed my friend just thought I should put that in it wAs before we did anything anyway the next day it was like it
never happened we were at his familys birthday party he took. His girlfriend he looked at me a bit but then they all left I was okay with it well I thought I was I sAw him a bit he just stared that's all I hAven't seen him or talked to him seen the funny part is that he lives upstairs from me you see I live in building and I can't live like this it kills me how do I get over him I have to get over him so please help me ????????


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Kitchel17 answered Thursday July 8 2010, 2:33 am:
Falling for your guy best friend it happens all the time. I see that he's going to stay with his girlfiend and keeping coming to you because he knows how you feel. You need to be the one to end it. Let me tell you right now, it is going to hurt you so much, because you'll tell yourself that he can change. But he won't, guys are greedy and want two girls fighting for their attention. MAKE IT VERY CLEAR that you won't be the other girl. Start focusing on other things, hanging with new ppl anything to distract yourself. Keeping telling yourself your better off without him and it will actually start happening. I know he's your best friend but you deserve so much better.Hang in there girl,time heals all broken hearts. Good luck :D

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