Ok I'm really close with this guy let's him Sam. We met sophomore year in high school,I hated him a first and then i liked him. Then like me and him just became best friend and we talked about everything and i love him so much but never ever told him,so he gets a girlfriend senior year lets call her anna. Of course shes the captain of the cheerleaidng squad and the two of them share the love of country music. But this girl is totally bipolar and always wants sam's attentiona all the time and shes is insanely jealous. He talks to me all the time about her and its driving crazy. summer comes and still dating and cant take anymore so i left to europe for three weeks i come back and they break up. He needs me more than ever but I cant deal with his feelings when i cant even handle my own. I dont know what to do, should i take this chance and tell hiim or shut up about it. Where going to college together and if i dont say it now i never will, but are my feelings really worth losing a three year friendship?? he left for vermont yesterday and i miss him so much already WHAT SHOULD I DO???? sorry about it being so long HELP!!
maxgrey answered Thursday July 8 2010, 1:23 pm: Tell him. It's not really a friendship if you have feelings for him. You're going to college soon, anyway. There will be plenty of other guys there. [ maxgrey's advice column | Ask maxgrey A Question ]
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