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Do we have a future?
Lately I have been confused. I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I'm 23 and he's 25. My boyfriend sends me mixed messages. In the beginning of our relationship it was very rocky. He made a lot of excuses. He's in medical school and is very busy. He didn't invite me to many important events and he didn't attend things like my birthday. I thought seriously about breaking up with him when he told me that his father said I couldn't come over to his house for New Years. We talked it over and he said he cared about me. Now it's 1 year and a half. I had a serious talk with my boyfriend about our future. He never likes to talk about it. He gets mad that I can't enjoy each day. I want to marry this man, but I'm not sure if he wants to marry me. I asked him if he saw a future for us, he said yes. He said we could possibly move in together after he graduates medical school. Recently, he's been telling me how much he really cares and loves me, how important I am in his life. My sister told me that he's probably trying to appease me. I am so confused. He always tells me that he doesn't want to make promises that he can't keep. I'm getting a message that he cares, but we have no future. I don't know, am I right?
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I think he's. Blowing u off because when you said you haven't got to atend newyears with him and he says he's too busy for you he's making excuses .I think seriously something eles is going on iv been there before he might be hideing something from you need I go into details but I think you get the idea and I'm not trieng to put the scare on you by no means but long distance relationships hardley ever work out so my sugestion to you is just break up with him if he truely has any fellings for you he will come around trust me then you will know for sure where you stand
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We can't really tell you if you have a future with this guy...
Only you know if he is right for you or not, Bare in mind that people can say anything though. Long distant relationships are very hard they take commitment and time for them to work out. Medical school is stressful and takes up a handful of time, I'm not sure when your boyfriend graduates but I do know that medical school is a long time in college.
One thing that concerns me, The relationship was rocky in the beginning, He made excuses, Did invite you to any important events...This right here is a big one that tells me that it probably won't work out. Why? He never seemed committed into the relationship. From the sound of it, He could just be telling you things you want to hear, Maybe he is trying to appease you. Again, Only YOU know the real answer but remember that you are 23 years old, You need to start thinking about yourself and your future. Don't let a guy hold you back, If you think he is worth your time..Then go for it. However, A guy that ignores me from the beginning wouldn't find me sticking around long.
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