Theres this guy named Jeff. I dated him for 2 months and then he broke up with me for some girl. Well we have been talking some (Jeff and me) and well we have had long conversations. Him and Kimberly broke up and well i told him i loved him and then randomly he says "so hows your mom" (by the way this is facebook chat) Does this mean he likes me? And im 13 hes 14 and im a girl.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kibawolfe answered Sunday July 4 2010, 4:06 am: He might be scared also it's better to tell him in person, boys take almost nothing online seriously and who knows what kind of glitch there may have been for him to say that often that will happen to my friend. Online is a huge way for boys to right away easily change the subject if they want to or just feel uncomfortable. He was probablly scared you should ask him how he feels in person, and tell him you love him in person so he can't ignore you, change the subject, and will take you seriously.
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gr8fruit answered Saturday July 3 2010, 6:51 pm: Hi,
I would say, there's no way to know if he likes you or not just cause he said "hows your mom". It sounds as if he was changing the topic. He could possibly like you, but maybe his response was also a way of saying "I am a little shocked you came right out and told me" or "what should I do now that I know she likes me?".
I would flirt with him a bit. Try to talk to him in person and read his body language. If he stares at you, is fidgity, or is at loss for words when you are having a convo, then I would say he likes you. Based on what you told me, I cannot determine what he may be feeling. Hint that you like him and see if he responds positively. If he does, there could possibly be feelings for you still hiding inside of him. Obviously he cares about you based on his comment. If this facebook chat is not private, you may want to make it private for him so everyone cannot read it, just you two (such as text it instead).
Open up to him and he should be comfortable to open up to you. Watch for signs that he used to do when you were together, these things will let you know he is still interested. When he said what he did, it could also be his way of being shy about how he really feels. Saying "It is okay if you feel _______ towards me" will help him realize it is alright for him to share his feelings he has about you. It sounds as if he will open up to you, so just be yourself... the person he fell for the first time <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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