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Texting him? Anyone/everyones advice needed!!!
Okay so me and my bf saw eachother tonight and had a great time. He told ke when I was leaving that he liked seeig me alot and was happy he cld see me. We hugged and I left: (we haven't kissed yet so that's why we didn't do anything else) but he texted me and this is our conversation...
Him:hey
me: hey did you and ____ (<--- my friends name...) Have fun after I left? Haha
him: I mean it was kinda weird but I beat her in ping pong and then I left. I wish she didn't have so many friends over though.
Me: yeah but you know...at least I got to see you.
him: yah... I gotta go bye text u 2maro bye.
Me: ok..bye
and that was it. I know nohin went wrong with him and my friend because are not like that. She wouldn't flirt with him and I know he is faithful so keep that out of your mind :) My
question is why did he just end our Convo right there? And I am probably being paranoid but what happened? did he just have to go? I don't think he would but am I being way to ove paranoid like thinking abou his too much? Thanks to all!! :). I'll rate people once I have at least two or three answers but I'll rate everyone that answers!!
Thanks!! :)
~Kaiya
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Hi...
Just sounds like he wasn't in a texting mood. Most guys don't like texting or talking a ton in the first place.
I can see where you might think that there is an issue, but I wouldn't really worry about it unless he stops talking to you after this.
Good luck!
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Hey,
There could be many reasons why he left your convo at that. He could of had to go do something (eat supper, have a shower, go do chores), he might have forgot something and suddenly remembered he had to do it/get it, he could of been pleasantly suprised that you would say that, or he may not have known how to respond.
It sounds as if he may have a lot on his mind. Ask him if everything is alright, tell him you will be there for him no matter what, and reassure him that you will always love him. Maybe he just needs a break from life. If he is having a rough time, give him a little space. Wait for him to text you the next day (like he said he would) and then see if you two can hang out sometime. Relaxing with one another, supporting his feelings, working out problems, and understanding eachother better will help you two be even closer.
Do not worry about being too paranoid. It is normal to wonder what is going on in a guys head. Guys are sometimes hard to decypher. Hang out with him and read his body language to see if he feels the same as when you first became boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes all you need is a little one on one to let eachother know everything is alright <3
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He is a boy honey. Men don't communicate like women do, he probably just didn't have anything to say after that. You need to learn it now, don't read into every little thing that he texts or says or doesn't do. As long as he isn't ignoring you and you still feel like things are going in the right direction, enjoy it. Don't worry too much about relationships just yet. You have loads of time to worry about that, so have fun with people you care about and have a connection with.
Hope I Helped :)
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