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Okay... uhm. Here's how it's going. I got dumped by a toootal a$$. Anyway. I've moved on, its been about... two months? And I like this boy, we'll call him J. J is super duper nice and I really like him but I don't really know what our relationship is right now. We've been talking for about a month and a half and we've hung out a few times never kissed or anything but we're both really flirty. I just don't know if we are "talking"... Like I don't know if I should ask him...? Cuz I don't wanna scare him off... And I don't wanna ask him who he likes and then him think I'm asking because I don't see what we're doing as something that could become romantic ya know? I just don't know what to do but I wanna know where we stand...
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ok this is coming from a guy, us guys arent nice for just anybody, jj likes u u rly should ask him out
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If you think you really love him then ask him out.
Simple.
If you don't do it soon then he might go off you and you may end up regretting it.
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You should be cautionary as lots of guys like to flirt around for the attention that you're giving them. If you are surely serious about taking it to the next level with this guy, then the only thing you basically can do is ask him how you feel. Tell him that I know we talk a little bit more friendlier than friends, but is that because you actually mean it or is it because you find it fun. And see where the conversation goes from there.
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Hey there,
If you are unsure, then maybe hint around the subject. You say you flirt alot, so say things like 'hey do you think im cute?' flirty and sarcastically, 'I really think you would look cute in sexy boxers' and grin at him, or 'have you ever thought of us as ________?'. These things will grab his attention and notice that you may want to move to a closer realtionship. Possibly he believes you are just being a friendly, flirty person right now, instead of giving him a girlfriend potential kind of flirting. If you don't feel comfortable being bold, then when alone with him, casuallly asking him how he feels about you or mentioning you really like him while looking into his eyes will make him get the hint. If he reacts surprised or such, just say 'I was just curious' or 'it is alright if you don't feel the same way', so that he doesn't feel turned off.
If you want to be in a romantic relationship with him, don't be afraid to ask him. Be yourself, respect what his response is, and you shouldn't scare him off by just asking. He must be understanding if he is as nice as you described. Just go for it and don't be afraid to talk to him about anything that you are wondering. He will hear your heart if you speak it <3
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