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right now i have two mixed dogs. one is about 50 pounds the other is about 45 pounds. they are about 1 and 3 years old. I wanted just one more dog. however my husband says no! but he said no to the other two and he loves them to death. they are our children. i saw a dog i wanted and i asked him to come see it, he said no because he will get it. should i really not get another one? the two i have are shelter dogs. they are well behaved. i have a averaged sized yard fenced in. and our house is a three bed room house.
the type of dog i wanted is a husky. i did not want to wait too long because i wanted the dogs to be close in age. i dog want a 10 yr old dog and a puppy. should i push for this dog or give up. i know if i oush hard enough i could have the dog. but is there something i am missing? (link)
Yes you should. If your husband loves the other two to bits, then why wouldn't he love this one?

You should definitely push hard for this. When we were kids, we pushed our dad to even get one dog and he ended up buying 3 and a cat. Did I mention he is allergic to the saliva of dogs?

If you really want it then go for it.x


I currently have a foot condition (affecting both feet) which means I am unable to take part in any exercise which requires extended use of them. I really want to improve my health and fitness but the only exercise I can think of which I will be able to do right now is swimming. Are there any other things I could do? (link)
I could reccomend yoga. It is relaxing and you could stay out of the positions that require strain on your feet.
If you want to go with the swimming then why not try aerobics?


Hi, 18/m. ( live in the uk if it helps)
Basically, here's my situation. I live with my mother, my parents have been separated for years as my father was an alcoholic and I don't see him, nor do I want to. Recently, my sister and her boyfriend have moved in with us so that they could save some money for a deposit for a house, and so they will be moving out.
I just finished college (so I guess high school as an equivalent) and before I go to university, I'm taking a year out to save some money. My mum wants me to go to university in the city that we live in. We have 2 universities- one which is in the top 10 best universities, and the other which isn't great at all. I would ideally like to go to a university somewhere in the middle I.e. Out of the city, but my mother really wants me to stay at home as she is I'll with arthritis, as well as other problems. I understand where she is coming from as she will be living alone etc.

So my question, am I selfish for wanting to leave the city? My grades are not good enough to go to the good uni, but the bad university isn't much respected. Any help? (link)
You are not selfish at all, I faced a similar situation choosing jobs. I ended up going with the one out of town because that was the one that offered better opportunities for me but- at the end of the day- that is what any mother wants. For you to be happy wherever you are.
In any case I'm sure you will find time to go to your mothers house and look after her.
Maybe she will even enjoy the peace and quiet.


Okay... uhm. Here's how it's going. I got dumped by a toootal a$$. Anyway. I've moved on, its been about... two months? And I like this boy, we'll call him J. J is super duper nice and I really like him but I don't really know what our relationship is right now. We've been talking for about a month and a half and we've hung out a few times never kissed or anything but we're both really flirty. I just don't know if we are "talking"... Like I don't know if I should ask him...? Cuz I don't wanna scare him off... And I don't wanna ask him who he likes and then him think I'm asking because I don't see what we're doing as something that could become romantic ya know? I just don't know what to do but I wanna know where we stand... (link)
If you think you really love him then ask him out.
Simple.
If you don't do it soon then he might go off you and you may end up regretting it.


everyone remember the movie "the hot chick" where ROB SHNIDER gets put into RACHEL MCADAMS body. they kinda switch places. the guys a big loser and the girls like the most popular girl in school?

yeah..
well the popular girl and her bestfriend had a handshake and does anyone know the "lyrics" to it? (link)
Here you go.x

Boys are cheats and liars,
They’re such a big disgrace,
They will tell you anything
To get to second base-

-ball, baseball,
He thinks he's gonna score,
If you let him go all the way
Then you are a whore-

-ticulturists study flowers,
Geologists study rocks,
The only thing a guy wants from you
Is a place to put his cock-

-roaches, beetles,
Butterflies, and bugs,
Nothing makes him happier
Than a giant pair of jug-

-lers and acrobats
And dancing bears named chuck,
All boys want to do is...
Forget it no such luck.




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