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16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
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"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


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Ok I have these little bumps in some place my skin (such as my legs, knees, elbows, and back of my upper arms). They're the same color as my skin and aren't big or anything, but I don't know how to get rid of them. I asked my mom and she just told me to scrub my skin more in the shower...but it isn't helping. It just looks like I have small goose bumps on me constantly!
How can I get rid of them? I will rate you well if you give a good answer!

i think its from dry skin. try a moisturizing lotion and dont scrub as hard!

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i am currently living in africa and i am feeling very very depressed as time goes by. i've been taken from the friends i love and i am slowly going into insainity. we moved cause my mom thought that the rest of the family hated living in texas, which wasnt true at all. i have left the girl i love behind and cant stop thinking about her, and now i am the most lonesome man on earth. i cant make friends here as they are all immature and just plain stupid. every weekend i am cooped up at home because we aren't aloud outside unless we are going to the store, anothre persons house, or skool. i'm am going insain. i need help before this is the last thing anyone hears from me!

Africa?? Cool! You should explore!! And maybe think of being a...nature someone or something. Theres millions of people..well im not really sure what the population of Africa is..but youre bound to find someone you like! Just keep in touch with everyone, letters, phone calls, IM's, all that jazz. Things will get better!

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I am not sure what i have but some times when im scared, doing nothing, or exercising my heart beats fast and i can feel the pressure of it and i when that happens i look down at my shirt and you can see my chest vibrating from my heart. Im afraid that this could be serious, either if it is or not i would like to know what it could be and how i can treat it or do things to help it.
thnx to whoever responds.

it could be a heart murmur, you should see a doctor.

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if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?

(any nice girl out there?)

umm maybe try like a bar or the mall, or get a job where alot of girls buy things and be very very nice and polite every day =)

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So i get really sweaty under my arm pits and i noe its normal but its annoying to me. Ive tried so many deodorants does anyone recomend anything??

prescription deoderant or dry-sol or something..no i mean certain-dri. yeah thats it

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I have this problem with frozen pizzas: I can't cook them. Any pointers?

reading the directions

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18f
situation: my best guy friend has invited me up to his farm to go horseriding... i will have to sleep over there.

Problem: last time i went to his place we got totally blind and ended up making out. he got my top off before i came to my senses and stopped.(it went no further) i told him that i thought it was wrong and i didn't want to ruin our friendship. he said that it was okay and we worked through it and saved our friendship. i know he still likes me - he told me so - but i dont like him. i told him that i would only go if he behaves himself. he said "i wont do anything, dont worry." but i'm not sure.

question: do you think he is being honest? he has tried to kiss me since 'the incident' but i backed off and he apologized. i said i'd go... should i try back out? or just go to his place?

well, if theres no trust then there's no relationship. theyres no point risking your comfort being there, make sure hes 100% sure that he wont try to get to close or w.e. try carrying some pepperspray

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He's hurting so much. My fiancee. He learned last September that the father he never met died three years earlier. We were only engaged for two months when he learned this. He is so distant now I can't even reach him on this subject. He doesn't talk about it. He is so different now. I ask him. he doesn't say. It is so strange now. We went from sharing everything to sharing some things. It's killing him and it's killing me. I don't want to be selfish but I need to be the one he turns to. He hasn't talked to anyone he says. Do I need to just back off or should I pursue him. I need to get him back to good.Please help.21/f

oh man. theres alot of different veiws, like you want to be there for him right, but you also wanna give him space?? he might be running from the problem, or maybe he hasnt accepted. try marraige consuling or w/e.

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okay i have a BIG problem , i hate going to the school i go to and ive been really depressed lately. I try to tell my parents i dont want to go to that school but of course like most parents they dont listen. All i do is cry and i hardly get any sleep at night..i need a break from all of it i try to tell them i need a break before going to school to clear my head so i can actually pay attention. How is the best way to tell them all of this and how do i get their attention for atleast 5 minutes? Thank you sooooo much!! Xoxo

if you really want to get their attention, say that youre going to.........kill yourself in the school bathroom or something, maybe theyl pay attention to you if you say that. if they care about your grades(and you dont) tell them that youre getting bad grades..because well you hate the school. or refuse to go. burning down the school is always an option. what is so bad about it? is it too hard? if it is, then stop trying so hard to get good grades, thats what i do. i study and study and get like a C but when i dont i get an A. wow that isnt really going to help you. good luck.

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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.

eyeliner on the top and not on the bottom, or maybe just a little on the bottom. use creamy colors, and use mascara too. if you have darker skin, darker eye shadow looks better and for lighter skin, vice versa. get kind of shimmery towards the top and but a regular color on the bottom, or something. good luck with the eye-bringing-outness.

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hey,
I have this problem with a guy named Matthew. We have been best friends for over 4 years. Recently we both fell in love with each other. I least I love him. He always wants to mess around and he says it means something. To me it really does. He claims he wants to loose his virginity to me and claims that that would bring us together. Would that actually bring u apart? Help!

that wont bring u closer together it will make u guys feel akward around each other

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I have a friend (lets call her gina) and she'll be my friend for one minute and egt mad at me for nothing the next. and im really getting tired of it. its getting old and she's kinda popular and hangs out with a lot of my friends but if i get mad at her, she gets other people involved in hating me and if shes mad at me, so are they. what should i do. P.S, I rate 5's
-Brittany

maybe she has pms, ask her why shes doing this

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When I walk in my bathroom, theres always poop on the toilet. I think my dad does it because my pets don't use the toilet. LOL. I know it's gross but how can I find out who is doing this. (It's not my sister or my mom either.) HELP!!!!!!!!!!

poo on the toilet seat, give them a taste of their own medcine, or tell your family to maybe ... flush the toilet, are you guys german?

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OK this is for everyone!
I have never had a boy friend! Is that bad?? And I want one, but no one wants to go w/ me! Cause i am a tomboy! I like to skate and stuff like that! I personally think i imtate boys! Cause i can shoot a ball into a basketball and i play sports! Is this a bad thing? I am 13 and i have a lot of boy friends! I have one that is my bff and i like hima lot is that ok? Plzz i rate high!!

Confused

no no thats awesome. maybe u can find like a guy who is a tomgirl or something

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our gruop of friends is falling apart.wel we were invited to go to this house party last saturday but only one of us could go my freind .she went and ever since she went she just dropped us hasnt said two words all week.i dont want to lose her as a freind but i cant carry on like this?what can we?anyone got ne ideas.plse reply swn xxxx

talk to her

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Hi. My face (especially by my mouth) is always dry. No matter what I do, (clean it off, put tons or small amounts of lotion on it, leave it alone, put special cream on it, whatever) it won't go away. My face looks like a car in the winter that is covered in slush! The dry skin makes me cover my face all the time when someone is looking straight at me. Please help me!!!

loli know exactly what you mean, does it hurt when you open your mouth sometimes? okay well are u using any acne medication...creams...etc? if you are you should stop using them by your mouth. theres face washes that are made specially for dry skin, and you should try getting a small amout of petrolatum jelly(vasoline), rubbing it b/w your fingers and put it by your mouth, but not to much bcuz it could clog your pores..but ive never seen blackheads by the mouth before. leave another in my inbox if this doesnt help you! -best of luck!

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her bf told me he wanted to break up with me, and plus, umm i AM interested in him, im like in love with him.

he told you that he wanted to break up with you????! but isnt it HER bf?! is he cheating on her with you????!??!?!wow i am soo confused..

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i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?

that green aloe vera stuff works really goood..and so does anything cold. i remember when i went to a concert and i came back i had such bbadd sunburn i couldnt move..i laid on my stomach for like a week. wear loose fitting clothes and dont go back tanning again until most of the sunburn is gone.goodLuck!

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ok, well there's this friend that i have, and her name is agnes. i dont know what to do becuz she always lies to me. she always lies to me. when she says that she is coming over my house, she doesnt, she always goes to some other guys house. the last time she did this, she was missing for a day. i was really worried and so was her mom. i felt guilty, because what if something happened?? she was sposed to come to my house right?i just dont really know what to think. the last time she didnt show up, she was missing for 2 1/2 days, she doesnt even call me to tell me she's ok or even her mom. i know that i should just forget about her becuase she's using me to go to guys houses(her mom wont let her go to guys houses)and then i end up feeling bad, but the thing is she always tells me that she was sad and her da was drunk and hit her or something, she makes me feel bad for her and then i just cant stay mad. to add to all this, her boyfriend is thinkin of breakin up with her becuz he wants to go out with me. i just dont know what to think, if you cant help, thats ok i know it doesnt seem like much, but it is to me. by the way im a 14/f.....help pleez if u can!!!!!!! .

maybe you should get a brain and/or a life and learn how to deal with one of your own fucking problems you dumbass.

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theres this kid i want to hook up with.. hes my friends cousin.. we havnt met yet but we probably will soon.. the thing is hes skater/punk and im like prep... i dont know how we will be able to go out together with eachothers friends if were so different.. my guy friends would probably make fun of him.. and i dont want that.. i just hope he likes me for me..

well first you shouldnt be labeling yourselves, and what does being preppy have to do with you fucking liking a guy?if you guys actually had brains you would realize that when you "like" someone its not for the clothes you wear, darling. he'll probably reject you anyways so theres no point metting up with him.

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