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School problems
okay i have a BIG problem , i hate going to the school i go to and ive been really depressed lately. I try to tell my parents i dont want to go to that school but of course like most parents they dont listen. All i do is cry and i hardly get any sleep at night..i need a break from all of it i try to tell them i need a break before going to school to clear my head so i can actually pay attention. How is the best way to tell them all of this and how do i get their attention for atleast 5 minutes? Thank you sooooo much!! Xoxo
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Have your parents seen you crying? That would probably give them an idea of how serious you are about hating your school. If you have a guidance counselor or a relative your parents respect, talk to him/her about it so he/she can talk to your parents.
If that doesn't work out, remember, you're 13, you'll be getting out of your school anyway when you graduate from 8th grade.
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Okay, well if you aren't getting through to your parents, try telling the relative that your closest to, eg. your aunt. Tell them everything you have said here in a very serious and mature way. Do not say anything like you are going to kill yourself if they don't listen as this will just result in them thinking that you are just trying to get attention and they will then not listen to you. Once your relative fully understands the problem and that your parents don't seem to understand how important it is, get them to speak to your parents. They will be more willing to listen if it is coming from another adult who completely believes how terrible the situation is. Then hopefully they will take steps to make your life happier.
If this doesn't work, try telling one of your teachers at school about it as this will really force your parents to face the problem. Also, you could try phoning a helpline found in the phone book or the advice sections is magazines to ask for further advice.
Hope your okay. Good luck
Claire xx
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if you really want to get their attention, say that youre going to.........kill yourself in the school bathroom or something, maybe theyl pay attention to you if you say that. if they care about your grades(and you dont) tell them that youre getting bad grades..because well you hate the school. or refuse to go. burning down the school is always an option. what is so bad about it? is it too hard? if it is, then stop trying so hard to get good grades, thats what i do. i study and study and get like a C but when i dont i get an A. wow that isnt really going to help you. good luck.
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Hey! im Katt! first of all i completely know What you mean! About one month ago i was Really Sad and depressed. . .not matter how hard i tried, i could just not stop the constant crying. . .it was all that i did. .but then i realized how lucky i was to have such a great family and friends! Dont care what people say. . . .you might think you are a "Loser" but only the peple who think thaey have room to make fun of anyone are!!! :)
O yeah if you ever need to talk on aim my screen name is katttxox
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You don't say how old you are.If it is any school but college you have to go because it's against the law for your parents NOT to send you.
Why is it you don't want to go? Somebody giving you a hard time? Maybe they don't have a choice where they send you to school.Most school districts will charge you extra if you don't live in their district.I'm sure that didn't help much, maybe you can give a few more details?
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