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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i've heard a rumor that ne-yo was gay, is this true? thanks!

No, he isn't gay. Some women just made a bunch of rumors up that he was.

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Well ehm i have hair round my anal hole and i am a female i hav never see this in other woman like on a poster or anything.is this normal if so how can i get rid of the hairs so they dont come back???

Mostly everyone has hair around his or her anal hole. These girls that you see that don't have any hair either shave or wax it off. It's very normal, so I wouldn't be worried about it too much. If you don't like it, I suggest just shaving or waxing.

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do guys think girls pube hair is gross?

Since all guys are different, every guy is going to like something different when it comes to this. Some like it natural. But most either likes no hair, or they like it trimmed up. It just depends on the guy and what he prefers.

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What does Bite Me mean?

It basically means to screw off and leave me alone.

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im not going to be too graphic or harsh, because i dont want this to be too inapropriate for the site. this is a serious question, and im not trying to be wise or anything. when you give someone head, do you have to stick his whole penis in your mouth?

No, just the head. If you were to go any farther it wouldn't be head.

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Has anyone ever had a Pita Bread Sandwich? Or alteast knows what goes in it? If you know, it'd be a whole lot of help. thanks.

Anything that goes into a normal sandwich can go into a pita bread sandwich. Here are some ideas:


-- Chicken.
-- Turkey.
-- Ham.
(Any kind of meat really.)
-- Lettuce.
-- Onions.
-- Tomatoes.
-- Green Peppers.
-- Yellow Peppers.
-- Red Peppers.
-- Pickles.
Etc.

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Sorry to keep asking the same question I talked to my husband and we like the idea of putting a toothbrush up inside of me while he watches and but I am affraid of the brissles. How would you use the electric toothbrush?

With an electric toothbrush you're able to take the top off (the bristle part). So, just take it off and you'll be left with the vibrating handle.

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Hey, I have a column on advicenators and I frequently ask questions on this site so I'm wondering a few things. The first thing is, is it possible for question askers/other columnists to know who asks a question, like if I asked a question would anyone know it was me? Also, can I ask as many questions as I want, or will I eventually be cut off from asking anymore questions because I've asked too many? Haha I know that's a weird question but I do ask a lot of questions as well as answer a lot of questions so yeah. Thanks!

The only people that know who are asking the question(s) are level two moderators and level three moderators. No one else on this site are able to see who is asking the question. People with paid accounts will be able to see a little information about the person asking the question, but not your name or your column name.


As for how many questions you are able to ask, you can ask as many as you wish. There's no limit and you're not going to get cut off for asking too many questions.

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Can someone give me some bands that play a large amount of accoustic songs? I'd greatly appriciate it. :] I don't care if they're a big band or not. Thank you!

I'm going to do something a little different here. Instead of giving you bands, I'm just going to a list a bunch of amazing accoustic songs. Here are some really great ones:


Jack Johnson - Sitting, Waiting, Wishing.
The Spill Canvas - All Hail The Heartbreaker.
Crossface - Cold (Acoustic.)
The Dandy Warhols - Sleep.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
The Spill Canvas - So Much.
Story Of The Year - Sidewalks (Acoustic.)
Jimmy Eat World - My Sundown.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Pearl Jam and Alice In Chains - Alone (Acoustic.)
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Stone Temple Pilots - Plush (Acoustic.)
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Disturbed - Darkness.
Shinedown - Simpleman.
Snow Patrol - Chasing Cars.
A Perfect Circle - Three Libras (Acoustic.)
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.

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well im almost 14 and i just started masterbating a little. it feels good but i feel like i shouldn't be doing it.

i was with my friends and they were talking about it and saying how gross it was. i was just like playing along and agreeing even though i do it.

am i too young?.. is there anyone my age that does it too?

thanks in advanced

First of all, the girls that are saying it's gross are probably masturbating themselves. Everyone masturbates and the people that say they don't are lying. It's completely normal and really healthy, so you have nothing to worry about.

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not to offend anyone. but if youre a virgin right, and then like you get raped.. and then later on you were asked if youre a virgin or not, would you say yes or no?

Being raped is something you have no control over. In other words, if you were raped you didn't want to have sex in the first place; you were forced to do it. So it's not your fault that this happened to you. In my option, I would say I was a virgin because you didn't want this to happen.

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HEy i have Itunes now and my parents are saying its getting to expensive caus ei download like 10 songs a week....so i was thinking of dowloading Bearshare.. can any1 give me like a reviw of it and tell me if its good or not... does it give me viruses??Does it slow your computer down? Just like any information on it and is it like worth even dowloading it?

I wouldn't recommend Bearshare. It seems to be a very bad program. It gives of viruses and spy-wear. I suggest the two following programs:


-- Ares: http://aresgalaxy.sourceforge.net
-- Limewire: http://www.limewire.com

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Do you know anyone who has had first hand experience with household items they used for toys?

No, not that I know of, sorry.

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How could you use a toothbrush as a toy?

Not a normal toothbrush a vibrating toothbrush. Use is as if you'd use a vibrating dildo.

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one of my breast is smaller than the other. Is that normal?

This is normal. All teenage girls go through this. As you get older, your breast will even out. But you're completely fine, so don't worry about it too much.

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Ok i just want peoples own view on this. Is it regular for girls ages 14-16 to masturbate. Like is it regular like how guys do it. Even if they seem prude or somthing. Thanks i apprecaite all answers

Usually girls that say they haven't masturbated are lying. Masturbating is completely normal and very healthy.

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considered a slut if she has sex on the first date?

Personally, I wouldn't consider her to be a slut. A slut is someone who is sleeping with different people everyday. Just because she had sex on the first date, doesn't mean she's a slut or she is easy. Maybe she felt a connection with the guy and felt it was right. I wouldn't say she's a slut, though. A bit of sluttish behavior, but far from being a slut.

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Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥

I don't see anything wrong with this. I mean, a lot of people hook up. And just because you hook up doesn't make you a slut. As long as you're just hooking up with one guy, other than hooking up with two guys every day, I don't see anything wrong with it. But, it might get a little complicated because usually when the same two people are always hooking up, feelings get involved. Just be sure to explain to the person that you don't want a relationship from this; you just want a simple hook up with no feelings involved.

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alright i was with my girlfriend and she was on top yah know..and she orgasmed before i did...and well frankly she pulled off too soon and i was about ready to ejaculate...now that i have blue balls and it hurts like a bitch. how do i rid myself of blue balls.

i rate answers.

You could try masturbating?

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My husband and I have been trying new things to help spruce up our sex life. We rented some movies but they really didn't help. So he has been looking online on items that we could find around the house to use in me. I was wondering if you knew of anything that we might find in a typical house that we could use as a toy. And have you ever tried stuff you found around the house?

I haven't tried anything that I found around the house, so I don't know if I'm going to be that much help. I suppose you can use anything that would be long and round; in the shape of a penis. The things I can come up with would be, a banana, an electric toothbrush, carrot, hot dog, etc. Anything round in shape, really. Just use your imagination.

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