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Question Posted Wednesday November 8 2006, 4:29 pm

not to offend anyone. but if youre a virgin right, and then like you get raped.. and then later on you were asked if youre a virgin or not, would you say yes or no?

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MummuM answered Thursday November 9 2006, 2:14 pm:
Being raped is something you have no control over. In other words, if you were raped you didn't want to have sex in the first place; you were forced to do it. So it's not your fault that this happened to you. In my option, I would say I was a virgin because you didn't want this to happen.

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Ahnee answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 11:16 pm:
no, you're not. but you can be a "born again virgin" no matter how lame it sounds. alot of people who claim to be saved or enter in a stricter religion sometimes do this. It really depends on who is asking. if it is for medical purposes then yes, you should tell them you're not if the hymen is broken. however if it's just a random person, why even bother explaining?

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Shortcake22 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 10:54 pm:
Technically, you wouldn't be a virgin =(

But, if you were talking to people that you didn't want to share your story with, I think it would be okay to say you still were one.

But if you are talking with someone like a boyfriend, I think it would only be fair to tell them what happened.

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hip9314 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 8:49 pm:
i would say im still a virgin becuz im only 14 and if i was like 19 or older i would say no

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BabbiD0LL answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 7:46 pm:
Well I would consider myself a virgin because you didnt willing have intercourse with them.

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disasterxwoah answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 7:40 pm:
The answer depends on the person.
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Some would say unfortunlty (spelling?) no, while others still consider themselves virgins. Some think they still are, because they did not consint to it. They did not want to have sex (be raped). Others think that even if they didn't want it, they had it and therefor they are no longer virgins. The question is a person-to-person kind of thing.
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I would say : Yes, you are still a virgin.

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Alin75 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 6:34 pm:
I am no expert but I cant see how one can still qualify to be a virgin. The answer in my opinion is (regretfully) no.

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fatalxheart answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 6:27 pm:
some people believe they didn't lose their virginity when they are raped. others believe they lost their virginity and that's it.

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