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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

ive been looking everywhere for that nair shaving stuff does anyone know where to get it?

You can get it anywhere. At any drug stores. Like Kmart, Target, Walgreens, Walmart. Its by the razors and shaving creams.

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where can you get the program bearshare?
thanx

I dont think you should get that because its soo slow and you get tons of viruses, go to www.bearshare.com if not that go to www.download.com

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hey does anyone know anything u can do at homecoming? bc i dont know how 2 dance dirty very well how do i move my arms and stuff and just everything? thanks

See how the other people around you are dancing and follow their moves. It will come natrually just member to have fun tho. Its not that hard.

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is there any way to tan easier or faster without using sunless tanning products or tanning booths?

You could go lay outside for a couple of hours or just go get a mystic tan. They work good!

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Is there anyway to permanently get rid of dark undereye circles?

Concealer works real good. I read in a magazine that if you put a spoon in the freezer for 10 minutes && then on your eye that it will go away faster. It also probablly happens because you get stressed && if you dont get enough sleep. If it doesnt go away ask your doctor.

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I'm just wondering, my friends say sometimes I act like a prep. And I dont mind that, cus like we were doing this quiz that like "sterotyped" you and they agreed on the answer. But I was wondering, what makes someone a prep? Is it like there popular or something ?

Im a prep but being a prep doesnt always make you popular. I mean you have to dress preppy, act like it to. You cant just have a shirt from Hollister and say that you are a prep.. thats just not right. Prep is someone really girly. Like gets their nails done and loves all that stuff.

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Ok, my friend is really shy about everything. Like making out, holding hands, etc. Is there any way he can be less shy with girls? Thanks!

No not really. He just needs to be more outgoing. I guess he just wasnt raised a lot around girls and he sometimes might feel uncomftrable around them. You have to introduce him to a lot more girls and once he gets older he wont be soo shy. Right now its a normal thing.

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This guy he likes me.. but hes 18 and im 14. And i dont want to be mean to him hes really nice and all. but I mean.. yea.. lOl... and your R E A L L Y pretty! lol.. well please help!

Sometimes age doesnt really matter as long as you LOVE the dude! Its illegal because hes 18 and you're just 14.. Just be careful.

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how do i get my bf sexually aroused so he'll get a B0ner when i cant be with him.. like when im talking to him online, or on the phone?!.. does any one have ne tips or advice on it? - thanks -

Cyber with him && send him pictures of you..

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What do you want to be when you grow up? And when is your birthday?

I want to be eather a make-up artist or something to do with fashion!! Haha && my b-day is on November 9th! =)

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do you have any other sugjestions for sex?

Hm.. use a condom && do it somewhere dry.

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what's mastergrate?

Masterbating is basiclly pleasuring yourself.. like fingering or doing whatever.

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i am 18 years old i have been with this man for about 4 years now but he have been with other woman but i still love him i try to move on with my life but i can not i need help

So you are'nt together anymore?? If you want to move on the best way to do it is just to go out and meet new guys and have fun with your friends. You will meet some1 as special and nicer.

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okay 2 yrs ago a boy moved to cali that i really liked and hes moving back!! i get to see him on wed. but i have changed and so has everything else so what do i do?

p.s i stil like him and iwant him to like me too!

13/f

The #1 thing to do it just be yourself! If he doesnt like you for that then he isnt worth it. Still be outgoing, sweet, nice and make sure your personality is good too.

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well school is starting up soon and i want to start wearing makeup. i havent worn any makeup before besies mascara. i need some tips on what colors and what i should where to get a natural look. i have dark brown eyes and hair, and semi tan skin. suggestions please?
-thanks

If you wear shadows like golds, browns, silvers or any shimmery colors that will look gorgeous. It wont make you look like you have tons of make up on but it will give you that cute glowing look. If you want you could use eyeliner but thats up to you. I dont think you would need foundation. Mascara && some lipgloss you'd like hott!

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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?

*melissa 15

How long have you liked him? If you liked him longer then she has then tell her. Its not that she will be mad its just she might get jelous that he might end up liking you more then he likes her. Just wait a while and see if you continue to have those feelings towards him and if it continues let him know also. If she gets pissed well too bad. You cant help who you like and she needs to understand that.

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This guy I like asked me out...but my best friend used to be just ga-ga over him so I thought he was off limits. Then I talked to my friend and said it was ok and we've been going out for a little while...my friend tells me all these things about him and how much of a guy he is (if ya know what I mean) but I figure he can show me who he is better than anyone else can tell me right? Well, anyways, everybody keeps warning me about him but as far as I can see, there's absolutely nothing wrong with him...I really like him and he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that's...ya know...a guy...but how do I ever tell for sure wether he just wants some or really cares about me?

16/f

At this point I would take what your friends are saying seriously but put it behind everything right now. Make sure you get to know him pretty well. Do you know how he treated your friend before they broke up? All girls talk about their ex boyfriends like they were the worst ever. But it just sometimes means that they are'nt completly over them yet or they are just trying to hurt your feelings.. even tho that seems bitchy! You're right.. no1 can know him better then himself and right now just be careful. Try not to get too attached to him and then end up getting your heart broken. Make sure he treats you right. Calls you and talks right towards you. You just will know.

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what is spooning?

Its cuddling. Usually during sex.

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ok heres the thing....
im getting adopted and my parents have alot of trust in me...........

well iwent to my friends house and then i was goin with her brother and i did somethings(for the first time)
an now i think i might be pregnant!!!!

i dont want them to find out if i am but of course im gonna get fatter (if i am)
and u kno they will notice.
please help me asap????
:(

You dont seem too sure about it so I think that you should find out for sure. Get a pregnancy test. They will find out eventually so you cant hide it forever. If you are pregnant and they find out talk to them. Say it was a mistake you werent sure and all you need for them is to be there for you.

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Would any of you agree with "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts"?

The other night, my friend, who had had a few, told me he liked me, he thinks it can work between us, even that im the girl he sees himself marrying. The next day I asked him about it. I asked if he remembered what he said and he said yes. So I asked him if he meant it, and he said yes. I really like him. but im scared to take it any further because I don't know it its true.

I think that you should belive him. He knows what he is talking about. If you like him go for it. You wont regret it. You should just take the chance. If it doesnt work out you could always be friends! Good luck babe!

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