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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it.

Wow! Your friend, her parents should be supportive of her. They are the ones they your suppose to trust most and they're not supporting her? That's not right. First and formost, you just have to be there for her. Tell her that you support her all the way and you'll always be there. Maybe she just needs someone who would be there for her, a shoulder to cry on. Next, don't blame this one yourself hun. It's not your fault that this happened and it's not yours. Don't put yourself that because you thought you chould stop it, it happened, now you'll have to deal with it. I'm so sorry, that's so sad. But, all I have to say is be there for her. Tell her to be strong. Believe in her.

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me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early?

I don't think it's wrong at all. You guys have been going out for 15 months. You guys must be in love if the relationship is lasting. Just try forgetting about him going to collage and what not. Keep the days going day by day that you have together.

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How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them??????

Kiss them whatever the time is right. It doesn't matter how long you know them. It's the moment that you'll know when do so.

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Hey guys! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this guy I think is sooooooo hot! We had never talked before and I didn't have any classes w/ him but he was friends w/ my newest best friend! He walked up and was talking to her but he smiled at me a lot! Then he was like "ur (my name) right?" And I was like "Yeah how did u know?" He said "o i went into a class after u and I saw ur name on a sheet u had signed!" and he was like grinning all big and stuff! Well then a few days later my best friend came up to me and was like "Omg omg omg! I told (Him) that u thought he was kinda cute and he said u were really really pretty!!!" And I wrote him a letter and gave him my number and everything. And she gave it to him and said he smilde really big when she said it was from me! Do u think that was okay? And do u think he likes me?

That was super of what you did, giving him your number and all. Now, maybe you guys can go to see a movie or hangout. I deffently think that he likes you. Good luck!

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ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a little over 2 months now and we are totally in love and everything i mean REALLY inlove! he told me that hes gona marry me and everything and were lik in a way planning out our future together! but just like 1 week ago he was on vacation and when he got back i told him i promise that i would nevr break up with HIM no matr what.. and then he told me that when he was on vacation some girl was hitting on him and

....and what?

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hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not?

Naw, I'd say your pretty normal!

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alot of ppl in the grade up from me hate me...because of stuff i did the year before n they all say they are gonna kick my ass no matter how sorry i say i am they dont care they think i should pay for my attitude...?? n i dont get it i said sorry n it was from like 2 years ago shouldnt they b over it by now what should i doo???? because school starts soon n they said they are gona kick my ass this yearr...?

First off hun, if it happened 2 years ago.. and they told you they're gunna kick your ass, shouldn't it of happened already? I wouldn't really worry about it, they're just being stupid. If they ask to fight, say you don't want to. It takes more guts to say no then to fight.

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what does eating butt taste like?

Just a guess... probably shit? Haven't tryed it yet, but, tell me how it goes =)

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hi how do i make a picture smaller? im trying to upload one, but it says its larger than 15. how can i make it smaller?

Try going to the paint program on your computer and resizing it. All you do is go to the side and click on the doted square.. then left click on your paint program and go to "paste from". Hope I helped.

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What could I get for an aim sn? I'm not really fussy what kind. Just a girly sn!!

http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/ go here and to the side, there's millions of screen names you can use!

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For everyone I wanna know how old were you when you lost your virginity, how did it go, was it to someone special or do you regret it, where were you when it happened... and so on. Thanks

I was 14, it went okay. It was with someone special and I totally don't regret it all at. It happened in his room =)

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Hey Krissy.. my question is.. how u get ur hair so straight?

I got a straight perm. It's just a normal perm in the box. You put everything in that it tells you to do, besides the curlers (That makes your hair curly). Or, you can always iron your hair with an iron!

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ok... thers this girl that i kinda like a lil more than a freind but i have a girl that im happy with and i dont know if thsi grl fells the same about me. i dont know if i should just ask her how she feels or keep hiding the fact the i like her.

I think you should tell her how you feel, take a chance. Maybe she might even like you back! I say go for it!

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Hey there. Well, I started birth control last Sunday. I haven't even been on it for a complete week. Well, my boyfriend and me had sex, and I read in this little book I have about the birth control I'm taking, and it says it takes a month for birth control to become effective. I really worried now. Is there a chance I could get pregnant? I mean, does it actually take a month, or do they mean, the first time you take it, it's effective?

It actually does take a month for your birth control to become effective. Yes, you could get pregnant and you should use a condom anyways, even if your on birth control.

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umm well the kid i like has a nickname for me [[boo]] and he is starting to like me! =) but anyways i wanna give him a nick name but i can't think of one!!!! will u plz help me come up with one???? thanx!!!

Babyboy =)

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This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!!

First off I'm so sorry. I think you should go and pay your respects hun. He's probably watching you from up in heaven and wanting you to attend.

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when you ask a question but send it into a columists inbox can they see who asked the question??

No, they can't see who asked the question.

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how often should u feed a cat?

Everyday =)

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im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx

First off hun, you should stick with the girl you turly like and care about. The one your better off with. If your just gunna dump the girl your with to make your friends and dad happy, isn't right. You should be with her because YOU want to. It shouldn't matter what other people think.

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I live in a TINY town. 4 all you other people who do too, what are some fun things to do without driving to the big city?

Hangout with your friends, go for walks, hangout at the park, have a movie day at your house, sleepovers..ect =)

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