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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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alrighty im 13 and i want to start to masterbuate but i have like noo clue what to do like what do i use how do i do it etc!! help me out!!
Im guessing you are a girl. Well you could get yourself a dildo or vibrator. Dont be embarassed to maserbate. Its a normal thing. You can also finger yourself. Have fun tho.
♥ Teza
Hey..I just wanted to know if anyone knew any websites where u could download free music and is it safe.Like can u get viruses with it? Thankss.Because i had kazaa but then like 3 weeks ago my computer froze everytime and i had to get it fixed. So please tell me some good websites yall might know.
I rate high too!
Brenda
Get eather Limewire or Ares! Those 2 are the best and you dont get viruses and they are really fast. You can go to www.download.com and download one of them. Its worth it.
Hello*
Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.
Brenda***
Aww.. you know when you are in love when you constantlly think about him. Always talk about him, blush a lot. Whatever he says something you smile. He makes you laugh. You know hes always there for you. He just makes you happy and hes sweet to you and you just well.. think you love him!
ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...
ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.
please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms
Noo thats not spoiled at all. Thats how I am. If I clean my room and vacume and clean the rest of the house I get paid! Its good that you work for it that means you deserve it.
OK stop actin like you know it all cause you stupid ...oh you think you used to smoked pssht ye right you prolly didnt even inhale and how long did you smoke like two days hahah retard.
No..I smoked for a while but I did stop. && I honestlly dont care. =)
OK so i like this guy..hes 16-17 and I'm 13. Is that a big difference?? He has a car and everything..do guys like not like younger girls? I like him SOOO much!! He's like perfect!! What do I do?? Thanks!!
No thats not really a big difference but guys that age usually like girls the same age or maybe a year or 2 younger. They like more expirienced girls. But calm down! Just be yourself and talk to him. Wait and see what happens. Hope everything works out babe! =)
how do i become a mondetor? please HELP!!!!
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=67
Go there and click make me a moderator and see if your rating and everything else is good enough.
About a year ago, I was really good friends with this guy and I liked him a lot but I never said anything because he liked one of my friends. Well, I left that school and told him that I liked him and he said that he liked me all year too but he didn't think I liked him so he went out with my friend even though he didn't like her as much. Then I moved and we didn't talk at all, but then I went to my friends house last week and he was there. Him and my friend had just broken up but when I looked at him and he looked at me, we gave each other the same look that we gave each other last year, saying that the feelings were still there. I live an hour away and the girl that he just broke up with is one of my best friends and she likes him a lot, but the problem is...I like him a lot too. What should I do? I'll rate high. Sorry it's so long. Thanks in advance!
Talk to your friend about this and just tell her that you liked this guy for a really long time and if she would be mad if you 2 end up getting together. If she was a true best friend she would understand and wouldnt be mad at you or anything. But just wait a little. She has to get over him && everything.
A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted?
Oh.. I've been through that. Smoking is bad!! Very bad! I used to think it was relaxing and everything and that it was good but psh.. no way. After I had all the lectures from my friends I had to stop lol. Now that I think of it its just gross. Tell your friends that you want to stop so when they are smoking that they shouldnt give you one. Your friends shouldnt of offered you them tho. lol.. well anyways you can get lung cancer and yellow teeth and for everything that you do you will want them. So try to stop right now. Keep yourself busy && try really hard to stop. Chew lots of gum and find other things that are just as relaxing.
this might sound really weird but im so horny all the time and i cant help it and i want to get a vibrator or dildo or something so i can use it haha is there any where to get them for cheap that my parents wont know and also i find myself thinking about girls like doing stuff with them i dont know why i think of guys too but its just weird and i dont kno what to do so yeah ill rate high
Thinking like that about guys && girls is normal. You can get them at a lot of stores. I dont know where you live and what stores you have over there but if you go to Spencers they will have it there.
I really need help!
I can't fall asleep ever, i'm getting in a really bad habbit, a REALLY bad one. School atarts in less then 3 weeks! And I start school around 6 *thats what time it's suggested that you wake up*
And I dont go to sleep un'till about 3:57 AM or atleast 6:24... Between those times. That means I'd have to stay up for almost 2 days straight!
Are sleeping pills healthy? I really have to get out of this habbit. It's going to ruin my whole school year!
And P.S: I sleep atleast untill 2 in the afternoon, Thats what time school ends. I can sleep through school!
So about the pills, what is a really good brand that really works. How long do they take to work and make you fall asleep (kick in)? I have pill-Phobia for large pills, Do they come in a big size? My parents don't want to spend over $50 for them. They want me to have a good education, do they effect your mood in anyway if you take them? How many do you take?
Sorry it was so long, but im trying to get as much information I possibally can.
Maddy
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I`m like that too most of the time but I dont think you should get sleeping pills. You only need them if your doctor recomends them. They are not healthy for you and if you take too many you can get really sick && sometimes pass out. Its just that its summer and you're soo used to staying up late and it will take a little bit of time to get used to going to bed early. Just take it slow. It might be becuse of stress. Go to bed around 12 or so and just lay there. Take a warm bath, && go to bed around 12. Drinking warm milk helps. If you read a magazine or a book in bed it makes you more tired. Listen to music. That helps too. If none of those work go to your doctor and he might prescribe you some pills if needed.
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hey my name is ashley and i need some cool teen web sites that have 2 deal w/ quotes like flirty, love, breakups, etc... i already know of 2 www.wittyprofiles.com and www.firehotquotes.com if u know any other pages like that please let me know... thx
www.quotemania.2ya.com
I have a light light light brown almost dirty blonde shade of hair. It comes to about an inch past my shoulders. I have bangs. Just like straight across my face. I want to do something cute to spice it up and make me look pretty. I will rate really high PLEASE this is like a fashion emergency!
Your hair seems cute!! Keep the color and just get light blonde highlights. Then get side bangs and get tons of layers in your hair. I seriously think you will look great like that.
TEZA... ITS TIFFANIE! I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH AND I FEEL SO BAD FOR EVER HURTING YOU! I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND THATS NEVER GUNNA CHANGE NO MATTER WHAT! i LOVE YA!
X3 TIFF
Aw thanks babe. I love you too no matter what. Its fine. But hope we dont argue or talk behind each others back && stuff! Cant wait to see you && I hope that we're on the same team!! Love you.
i see this every where what does this mean
Lol it means heart. If you look at it sideways you will be able to tell.
hey i heard you could get highlights with limon juice and olive oil is it true if so how long do they take to fade away and any other info you guys have i want to get highlights for my b-day its two weeks away HELP!!!!
Everyone does that! Its not lemon juice its lime. There is a difference. You have to put it in your hair and then go outside and sit in the sun for like hours and you have to do that everyday so it gets the color. Now about the olive oil.. that doesnt work. But if you do it with lime juice it will last for a while. If you want to get highlights ask your mom. It could be part of your birthday present. Or you could buy those kits where you can do it yourself! Happy early b-day hun!
i recently kissed one of my best mates ex boyfriends. they had only broke up about 2 weeks earlier and the reason they broke up was because he cheated on her. she was so upset when she found out he cheated, i was one of her shoulders to cry on. then a week later, whilst talking 2 her ex boy friend, he starts asking me if i would ever be with him. I must admit i did have feelings for him but i understood that i really shouldnt pursue it if i wanted 2 stay friends with my friend. he was emailing me and telling me that he thort he had feelings for me.. i wasnt really sure wat to do, i didnt want 2 lie and tell him that i had no feelings 4 him but at the same time i was constantly thinknig of my friend. then at a party that wknd i had a few drinks and me and this boy got rather close. he told me that if we hooked up we would keep it a secret and no one would ever know, at the time i thort that it would work and i wasnt thinknig clearly. i kissed him 4 about 2 minutes before realising that i would have 2 pay for my actions. we agreed 2 not tell anyone but naturally we both couldnt keep it 2 ourselves. My friend then confronted me and asked me about it, i didnt want 2 lie seeing i new taht would be worse in the long run. i told her the truth but didnt really get a chance 2 tell her all the details and appologise in fully. From that day on she has been avoiding me, we did have a brief talk about it and she said she didnt hate me she was jsut really really hurt, but deep down i no that i have ruined our friendship and taht it is my fault. i really want 2 talk it threw with her and get things back 2 normal but i understand that she needs time and may not ever want 2 forgive me. i really want 2 make up and i regret doing it so much, even tho i have very strong feelings for the boy. it was really stupid of me now thinking back, sacrificing such a good friend for a boy who cheats on his girlfriends and plays girls. i dont know how i could have been so stupid. please help me what do i do 2 not hurt her anymore and not hurt him?
Hm.. I dont think there is anything else that you can do. I mean you apologized to her and you didnt mean it. Why is she so hurt when they BROKE UP??? Thats what I dont get.. maybe she might have some feeling for him still but she needs to understand that they are OVER! Who ever he goes out with she will get mad and hate. Thats just how it is. You need to tell your friend once again that you didnt even relize what you were doing and that it just happens. Tell her she shouldnt be so mad because they arent even going out. It wont ruin your friendship. Its really up to her. If you guys dont talk again its her fault. Shes being stupid and she is mad because of basiclly nothing. Its not even a big deal and she needs to get over it. If she is going to throw away your friendship over that then that is just pathetic. I think you might want to just stay friends with that guy nothing more because if she got hurt over that little thing who knows what else might happen. You wont hurt him. Just explain to him what happened && even tho you like him a lot that you would rather be friends. Maybe if you still like each other in the future then you could go out but for now take it slow.
do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him?
If you ex still likes you then of course he will get jelous.
im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice?
Babe dont do it. You defenetlly are'nt ready so dont do it. Sex is something you do when you're ready && make sure you want to do it with someone that you are with for a long time and that you really care about him. Your body cant tell you if you are ready or not. Only your mind can. If I were you I would wait until you were a little older. Just tell him that you are'nt ready and that you would like to wait more. 3 months is a short period of time. Good luck!