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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Im 16 - my boyfriends 18 (been together for 7 months). I love him sooo much and were planing on have sex.. but what if he just wants me for that?

I don't think he wants you just for sex. You guys have been going out for 7 months now. If he just wanted you for sex, I think he would have dumped you by now and got with someone else. He sounds like he does love you and respects your thoughts and waited till your ready. I say go for it and no he doesn't want you for just sex. Good luck.

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hey yah the guy i liked said i was ugly so should i confront him?

I would so confront him. Tell him he's a total jerk and everything. You should tell him off infront of a lot of people so he'll get all red! =)

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Eminem is fucking hot i love you just b/cuz u love him!

Oh my god. Eminem is a fucking hot ass. I love you more just because you love him! You rule.

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I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help?

Guys are jerks sometimes. But don't look for love, let it find you. Don't worry, you have your hole life. One day when you don't expect it love will come your way =)

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I'm getting braces in a few weeks and I'm scared all my friends are going to make fun of me! Please help me?

They shouldn't make fun off you just because your getting braces. A lot of people have braces now-a-days. If they do make fun of you, laugh, your the one who's going to have nice teeth!

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How old do u have 2 be to get something percied?

You can be any age but you have to be with a parent. Or you can go by yourself when your 16+. Hope I helped.

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

It's perfectly fine to date a younger guy. If you really do like him, go for it. Age ain't nothing but a number =)

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a few days ago i posted this:i Met this guy at a festival about 3 weeks ago called Shane.We got each others numbers and talked like alot but then last monday he said that we should wait a while till he calls agian cuz theres not really that much to talk about hes said ill call you in a few days and ill make shure sumpthing happens and if nuthing happens then ill make suttin up but ill ttyl.Its been 7 days since he last called do you think hell ever call agian???i know this is a really stupid post but im worried i really liked him---------but i didnt say that im known to not sound interested in guys on the phone,the day b4 the last day he called he had asked me to call him but i didnt so he called and asked why i didnt call and i said that i guess i didnt really feel like it(wich is rude)and i also wasnt listening to him very well becuz i kept interupting him and when he was talking i was like um wat so i think its my fault he didnt call back becuase maybe he thinks i didnt want to talk to him do you think im right?and do you think i should call him this time??

Yah you right, that's probably why he hasn't called you. He might think you you don't want to have anything to do with him. I think you should call him back and tell him you were just haveing a bad day. Good luck hun.

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im looking for some quote sites; have n e good ones? Thxx

Here's some:
http://www.holliesquotes.com/
http://firehotquotes.bolt.com/
http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/
The last site has like a million quotes - they're really good. Hope I helped, have fun.

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My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway?

Jonathan's a nice name. It shouldn't matter if that was her ex's name. She found a new man, her husband, I think they should name the baby Jonathan. But, tell her to go to this site: www.babynames.com maybe they can both agree on a name =)

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im 13 and i have about a couple girl close friends, but they seem to be changing in front of my eyes. It doesn't bother me, but the thing that does bother me is that, everytime im with my guy friends all these girls seem to get mad at me and stuff. Ive learned to ignore it but it's starting to get bad again, and the guys are starting to call me a smut or slut or something, and its starting to piss me off. Do you think they r jealous or mad or what? What should i do?

Firstly, why are they calling you a slut and a smut? If your not doing anything to get called that they have problems. I think you should talk to them close girl friends that you have, tell them what your thinking. I think they're mad jealous just because you hangout with guy friends. Tell them to smarten up. If they don't and keep calling you down, they're not good friends in the first place.

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What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples.

Just tell her you have to get some stuff done and you'll call her tomorrow =)

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hey - thanks 4 all the great advice i tryed what u said n told him; HE DOES LIKE ME! thank u s0oO0o much sweety!

No problem hun! I'm glad you went for it =)

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i really need a new screen name. do you have any cute ones that could possibly work? im desperate! thanks -aly

Oh yah sure, http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/ go there. That site has the best screen names. They're on the right hand side under the section "Screen Names". She also has a million quotes! Have fun and hope I helped.

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okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends??

He could like you or he just wants to keep in touch. But, if he does like you - go for him!

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Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please!

I'd say you talk to your bestfriend first about all this. Tell her you do like this guy and that he asked you out. Maybe she'll be okay with it, maybe she wont. If she's not, don't go behind her back and go out with him. Tell him you can't be with him because you don't want to her your friend. "Boyfriends come and go, but bestfriends stick right by your side"

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heyyy every time i straigten my hair in the morning it takes like an hour and its like sooo perfectly straight every morning...but then at school its humid andd it gets all curly and looks bad. do you know why it does this? is it cuz my hair kind of has a natural wave to it or cuz my straigtener is not good enough?? if you know anything thatll help this or why this is happeninng lemme know thanks

Girl, I have the same problem - that's why I got a straight perm. You can get them in the hair dye sections. It's a regular perm (that curls your hair). Well, you put everything in your hair it tells you to put in BESIDES the curlers. (So, your hair don't go curly, it goes straight). You can always get one of them, their super cheep and work great!

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

Woah, your not weird just because your in 8th grade and you never had a boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with that, you have your hole love to look for boyfriends. Don't look for love - let it find you and when it finds you, hold onto it.

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you give *AW3S0M3* advice, can you add me to your fav'z?

Aww, thanks. Sure I'll add you!

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Well my best friend is going to move in a bit and well I wont see her that much, well I have a lot of guy friends and I want to become best friends with them.. will people think i am too much of a flirt? Is it ok.. do you think its alright? I mean it shouldnt be a big deal but I am afraid people with think i am a big flirt and stuff if i do that but i have a lot of good guys friends and i wanna be a best friend with one!Tell me what i should do

Nothing is wrong with having a guy friend as a bestfriend. I have a lot of close guy friends, no one thinks anything of it. Your allowed to be friends with whom ever you want. If people talk and say your a big flirt just because you have a lot of guy friends, ignore them.

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