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Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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i really like this guy but he is 2 years younger than me. my friends think its not right and i get really hurt. should i be wrong to like him or should i ignore my friends? im very short so im just a tiny tiny bit taller than him. hes the sweetest guy in the world though. please help me thank you i rate :) (link)
I think age doesn't really matter! Plus - he's only 2 years younger! You should tell your friends that it hurts you when they say he's not right for you. It's not up to them who you date - and he seems perfectly sweet =)


ok i've posted before about how i like my bff guy friend. and i thought he liked me back i mean flirt totally and he always talks to me on aim and everything was going great! and then his sister tells me he likes his old girlfriend again. i have nothing against his old girlfriend (besides the fact i like him.) i mean i really really like this guy. more than any other guy i've liked before. what should i do? (link)
Before he maybe asks his old girlfriend out again, I think you should definitly tell him how you feel! You guys seem really close - and would make such a cute couple! Write him a note telling him how you feel - or tell him online! Good luck =)


me and my boyfriend give each other oral every now and then. well he recently mentioned something about me shaving my pubic hair. he said it would be sexy and easier to perform oral on me. i dont know if i should, it would grow in thicker and darker and id have to shave it all the time. i wouldnt mind it tho probably... what do you think ? (link)
If you don't mind shaving there, and your boyfriend says it would be easier on him - then give it a go! Usually when you shave there it leaves an irrating rash, so I suggest using Nair or another type of cream =)


Oh my god what if i was babysitting a little boy and he started to shit on the floor? What should i do? Should i leave it there? (link)
First of all, you should tell the boy that he is not allowed to do that - and you should put him in the bathroom and close the door. Meanwhile, I know it sounds perfectly nasty - but you have to clean up that crap! Use a paper towel (or 2) and try to pick up the stuff. Then use a wet paper towel to clean up the rest.

Make sure you wrap it up tightly in something, and then throw it away. Also, make sure to tell the boy's parents that he did that! Rate me =)


hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.

Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help! (link)
Sorry it took me so long to give you advice, I've been out of town without a computer -

I think you shouldn't tell her how you feel because she obviously has stronger feelings for your best friend. Even though you like her a real lot - I think you should move on. Since you're going into highschool, there will be SO many more people that you can have tight relationships with.

Right now, you friend (girl) just needs you to be by her side and to act as her best friend. Stick with her as a friend - and meet some new girls! =)

I hope I helped you!


is any other columnist's writing different?? I mean I go to 'ask a question' and the font is bigger than it used to be!! its different!! is anyone else's like that? (link)
It changed before, but I think the administrators fixed it =)


What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o) (link)
Go on a picnic! That would be fun and in-expensive .. or just watch the sunset - you and him =)


okay i love my boyfriend like sooo much and i know he loves me too...but he gets these mood swings where one day he acts like he cant live without me and the next day he acts like im just another bump in the road...what should i do? thanx so much~!
>*BaiLeY*> (link)
Tell him that you don't like his mood swings and that they really hurt you. It makes you feel like sometimes you're not good enough for him, and that sometimes you feel like you mean the world to him.

If his mood swings get worse, maybe he needs psychiatric help.

Good luck =)


How do ppl get thoese pic on there advice column where do i go and how do i get the pic i want on it? plz help (link)
Search images on www.google.com for anything that interests you. There'll be plenty of results, just pick one and save it to your PC. Then choose it for your column =)


ok here is my problem. I've always loved penguins, but lately I've been feeling a sexual attraction to them. now I think that's as sick as the next person, but there's just something about penguins. what do I do? (link)
Penguin underwear!!! =)


I was wondering if u could tell me some websites to get some good midis music files off of cuz im doing somewebsite and i really want some music so could u please tell me some websites thanx (link)
http://www.jptmedia.com/ink/kl.html

.. That has some MP3 files and stuff .. good luck =)


hey im skinny...but like my thighs and stomach and upper arms are flabby!! i wanna get fit and tonned for skool which starts sept 8th...lately ive been jumping on my trampoline ALOT!! will that help?? where will it make me fit..will it help my stomach and stuff..just a big trampoline.. (link)
You can jump on the trampoline, but I think you should also do crunches that will help your stomach.

For your arms - try lifting a couple pounds each day. It won't kill you and the results will be amazing!

Good luck & rate me!


Anyone know where I can sign up for good and free webpages? (link)
I'm not exactly sure of the exact website, but try searching on Google for "how to make a free webpage". You should get tons of results! Have fun =)


ok...i've like this kid for almost a year now. he's my friend, but he might like me, i don't know. yesterday was the first day of school, and i couldn't open my locker. After 3rd period i went up to him and one of my other guy friends and said "help me beat up my locker"...so we went to my locker, and he offered to open it for me. he got it open, so i gave him a hug, cuz i hadn't been able to open the damn thing all day. after that, he asked me if i had lunch then, i said yes, and he said "cool." so we walked outside, and i tried not to follow him like i do sometimes, but he sat where i did. we hung out at lunch again today...do you think he might like me? (link)
Yes! Aww, it's so cute because he doesn't want to make it too obvious - but he totally digs you! Just hang out alot and always be with him - and maybe he'll ask you out! =) Good luck & rate me!


i jest found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me with my bff should i not be her friend or dump him or do both. (link)
I'm so sorry! I think you should dump them both, or forgive them both. It's up to you - but you need to find out why they did that and why your best friend just didn't tell you that she liked you boyfriend. Ditch the guy because he cheated on you - and he's totally NOT WORTH it!

I hope I helped you! Please rate me =)


Well Me and My boyfriend of almost 2 years now are expecting a baby girl in just a few months.The problem is he doesnt have a job yet and has been saying hes going to get one for months now.Hes been looking and everything but still nothing.And everytime i talk to him about it hes always got the same stuff to say and sometimes gets mad about me always mentioning it.I want to believe that hes going to get a job soon so what to i do or say to him? :-/ (link)
You should tell him that he NEEDS to get a job! He needs to act responsible - since there is another life on the way that he has to take care of and support. Tell him to stop making up excuses and get a job. He shouldn't be the one mad at you! Good luck!


Why does it hurt more to take out a tampon when it hasn't soaked up enough blood?? sorry if that sounds really stupid.. (link)
Because it's dry and not as wet as it would be if it had soaked up enough blood. Even if it is dry, it shouldn't really hurt that much to remove the tampon =/


My brother and father are moving down to North Carolina. They are leaving my mother and me here in New Hampshire. I'm going to college in NH and I'm living there. My boyfriend is going there too. My father and brother are going to build a house for my family to live in. They are expecting it to be before Christmas. I don't want to move at all cuz I don't want to leave the college I'll be going to, my friends, or my boyfriend. I'm 18 years old too. I don't have the money to have my own apartment or anything along those lines and I can see myself marrying my boyfriend. I don't think if my family moved to NC that I would be able to be away from them for that long. Please help what should I do? (link)
Don't you have a dorm on-campus? If not, I'm not the right person to be asking this question. You should talk to your family and sort things out with them. Good luck =)


what does (link)
It is a symbol that online people make as a heart on its side.


ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



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Wearing a thong won't get you noticed for the right reasons. People will think your a slut or something, and that could ruin your just-made reputation! Wear thongs if you want to - but don't be that cheesy as to have them hang out! No one wants to see it! =)




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