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Hi,

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1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY

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If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
I'll tell it like it is.

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when using photoshop, to airbrush skin tones, how do you find the exact skin tone? because when i try to find it it turns out soo bad (to dark, to green, to purple etc.) so yeah, what can I do to make it match better?
Thanks:)

there are a couple of things you can do :

1. clone stamp by holding down alt and defining the area you want to recreate
or
2. use the color picker and click on the part of the picture you want the color to be.

hope i helped

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18 years old, female.
my dad works with a younger guy about 25 or 26. i'll call him brent. so brent some how got my number and started texting me. i thought he was just trying to get on good terms with me so my dad wouldn't dislike him or anything. well now it's got to the point where he is saying i turn him on and how sexy he thinks i am. it's freaking me out a little bit. i usually just write back haha thanks or something like that. but here's the thing, he's engaged! and i have a boyfriend! should i stop all contact with him? i don't want to be disrespectful to his fiance or to my boyfriend. is this wrong being that my dad is his boss??

by telling him to stop or ending your conversations with him would be far from disrespectful. the disrespectful thing is what he's doing and also you not stopping him. he should not be flirting with anyone when he's engaged. i suggest you stop texting him or block him. if it becomes worse you can always tell your father which i'm sure will help cause fathers are very protective of their girls.

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14/F

I dont know why, but my eyes have been red for the past three days.

They dont hurt, or feel dryed out. But theyr red.

I get enough sleep at night. (at least ten hours). I go to sleep at 2:30 ish and wake up at 12:30 ish. Give or take a few minutes.

I drink three bottles of water a day. (Somtimes more).

Ive been in the bahamas since friday.
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I wear contact lenses.

Ive been wearing sunglasses somtimes, but not usually.

My question is, why are my eyes so red (Bloodshot)? And how do i fix it?

Ive tried putting drops in my eyes for my contacts.

Thanks so much!

i have had the same problem. mine happened was because i was leaving in my contacts for too long. it could be that your eyes are exhausted from the contacts and you should make sure you use a new pair every 2 weeks to ensure that your eyes don't get irritated. try wearing glasses rather than the contacts for a few days and see if that helps

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does anyone know of some cool websites to get backgrounds for myspace other than the most common ones like hotfreelayouts.

if you want, try these. i personally think they're really good.

myprocodes.com

myspacegens.com

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how do i put a picture in the about me section on my profile?

to put a pic in your about me you need to have the html code for the pic. I suggest you go to photobucket.com, upload the picture you want to put on your myspace, and they will give you a set of 4 codes, and you copy the one that said "html" or the 3rd one down, and copy it to your profile

hope i helped

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does anyone know a realllly really good concealer or cover up the covers up under eye bags? im 16/f and i have hereditery eye bags so no cream gets rid of it, ive tried the best of the best. and i get a lot of sleep and drink tons of water, so nothing like that works. so i was wondering if you had any tips or any good cover ups for me, thanks in advance!

i dont know about any creams
HOWEVER there is this really good foundation that helps when i don't get enough sleep and i hope it works for you... the brand is TouchTones and it can be found at walmart, wallgreens, cvs and all those other stores. it's a foundation && comes in many colors

hope i helped

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my friend is talking to this guy, and he is considered kinky, but she is the ultimate good girl, she get on to you for cussing, doesnt mess around with guys etc. so this guy likes her alot, and she doesnt like him as much, but she likes him. im afraid they are going to go out, and she is going to get into ANOTHER bad relationship where the guy pressures her into doing things she doesnt want to do. i've already told her that i dont like that kid, and why.
what should i do to keep from seeing my friend get hurt again?!

im a f/16

if you've already told her how you feel, then you've done enough. you don't wanna keep repeating it because she'll start getting annoyed with you. you've done everything you can as a friend, she's heard your opinion, and if she makes the right decision then great for her. otherwise it's not up to you to decide if she goes out with this kid or not. PLUS she'll learn after a while as to which boys to date and which ones not to date. and she can't learn her lesson without experiencing the good and the bad.

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Ohkayy.This boy ive been dating for 3 months has been lying 2 me a lot here lately but Im totaly in love with me.He tried 2 cheat on me a couple of timess.Well this boy I dated fer over a year cheated on me with sumbody and then just broke up with me.wel I never got over him I still love this boy more than ever.and he just called me last nightt.and told me he really liked me and wants 2 get back 2 gether.!Well i have no clue what 2 do I love them both very much.Do I stay with who Im with or this other boyy.?Im so confusedd......

ok so i understand you're in love with them. but... why do you wanna be with someone who doesn't think of you as their only one... just this fact should make you not attracted to them.

i'm sure you can find someone amazing who loves you and wouldn't even think of anybody else... so why waste time on losers who are going to cause you pain and misery and at the end leave because they've found someone else they can use and abuse.

i hope you get someone you deserve

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15/f

My family and I are really close. My parents divorced when i was 5 and my brother was 3, my brother and i live with my mom and we see my dad about 7 times a year.

I am SO worried about my brother now. He has a close relationship with my mom and still sort of does but lately i think he has been hiding a lot from us. since he has entered middle school, he is slowly starting to become a bad kid. My mom was randomely checking his phone when he was sleeping and it had text messages to and from this one girl with him swearing (which i don't care too much about) and talking about masturbating, and the girl sent a picture of her boobs and he sent pictures of his penis. HE IS ONLY 13 AND IN SEVENTH GRADE! this really upset my mom when she saw this but she didn't mention it to my brother but sort of talked about the subject of that and i can tell it scared him and he thought that we might possibly know.

today i found out his myspace email and password and only looked at it for a second because it shows if he is on or not but i quickley checked his inbox and it had a threat from an 8th grader sent to him 12 days ago that said "i'm gonna f*ck you up" i am near tears right now and i am extremely worried about him. i don't want to tell my mom about it because i don't want to worry her anymore...it's hard enough as it is being a single working mother.

i am scared he is going to get into doing drugs and going down the wrong path, as much as he denies it. what can i do to help him? i mean, we go to church like every sunday (catholic) and sometimes my mom will let him skip and just let him sleep. i don't want him to get a bad reputation...i have a really good one and i don't want him to be known as the rebellious messed up brother. what should i do? please help me...i care so much about him!!!!

well it seems that your brother is going through things a little too fast for a 13 year old. either that or middle school has changed a lot since i was there 3 years ago.

first of all, your brother should be confronted about the pictures. if you do nothing about it, then he will remain exchanging pictures and (let's hope this never happens) they might end up online. if you don't want to get your mother involved then it's fine but you need to make sure he gets put in his place. 13 is way to young for any of that behavior and it will only lead to him having sex and doing drugs at an early age. you can say to him that "oh mom gets the phone bill and on there is a record of all the messages sent, so be careful as to what you send around." or something along those lines if you want to scare him or stop him from sending the pictures.

as for the kid who is threatening him, he might me joking and he might be serious. this situation is for your brother to handle, considering that he never told you or your mother about it. if you want to get involved, you need to find a way of doing it secretly because after a child is confronted of their wrongdoing, it is most likely that they will do it even worse when no one is watching (so you don't want your brother getting worse threats without you knowing)

if i were you, i'd keep checking and watching his myspace. also i don't know if you have one but i would make one and add him as a friend to keep an eye over what his comments are and so forth.

Hope i helped

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Me and my hubby like to have our old and new friends over for cookouts,
play horseshoes, and catch up on old times. There was 5 of my hubby's friends
here yesterday. While fixing the hamburgers, we were all talking about fishing in the
local carp fishing lake. I said "yeah i won biggest fish with my 19 pounder that one day"
W looks at me and says "were you on your period? Cause if girls are on it its like the
fish smell it or something they love it" I just said no and dropped it I didnt mind that that much cause
i have heard of things like that before fishing. Well later on J was talking about how
my 7 yr old daughter was eating so much. I said "Yeah she does that all the time but she
is so active she burns it all off" He looks straight at me and says"she looks like you,
you look like you burn yours off too or T(my hubby) works it out of you one" I was
so shocked at what he said all i could say was "uh" I got my burgers and ate in the house.
My son came in and said "mom that guy(he described J) told me that if i didnt stop
playing on that (car) jack i was gonna hurt my balls" My kids aint around that kind
of language. When my hubby came in i told him what i thought about it.
He said "well you just have to get to know him better" He did tell the guys to watch what they say.
W came back by himself and told T to let me know he was sorry if he said anything to offend me and
that he was sorry for the others too. Which like i said i dont really care what he said that much.
J though said before he left he wanted to bring his wife and kids here next time.
But I dont even want him here again, let alone with his family. Am I wrong for thinking this?
What do you think i should do?

even though he was given one chance, he screwed it up.

no normal man in their right mind would say something so vulgar to a lady, let alone a child. it's completely unappropriate and you should be glad you are keeping your child away from such disgusting way.

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Last Labor Day, we allowed our 11-year-old son “Brian” to spend the long weekend at the fishing cabin of his best friend Logan; we had our doubts about this, since Logan's mom was alwys kind of a flakey neighbor, but Logan’s family was then moving out-of-state, so this was the last chance the boys would have to spend time together. Brian had a wonderful time. Flash forward six months: I receive a belated holiday letter from Logan’s mom, explaining that she was finally getting organized after their move, and was enclosing a disc of photos taken during Brian’s weekend at the cabin. Most of the pictures are innocuous: the kids climbing trees, toasting marshmallows around the campfire, etc. But there are also a dozen photos of Brian and Logan completely naked, playing in the river and on the beach. These pictures leave nothing to the imagination--you can tell who is circumcised and who is not in every shot. Logan’s younger sister is in a couple of the photos as well.

When we asked Brian, he acknowledged that the kids went skinny dipping whenever they went to the river, and said that Logan’s mother had an album which had lots of naked photos of Logan, and so it all seemed okay at the time. We had no idea when we allowed Brian to go that Logan’s mother would be photographing him in the buff. I am furious with this woman, and I want these pictures deleted before they wind up on the internet, but I don’t know what to do. Our lawyer says that in our state such photos are not illegal if they are not sexual in nature, and the best she could do is write to Logan‘s mother and ask her to erase any photos of Brian. My husband says we shouldn't antoganize her, since there is no way we could know if she actually erased the pictures, and we should just chalk it up to experience. We also don’t know what to do with the disc: Brian wants it himself, and says the disc was of his trip, and was sent to him (the envelope was addressed to me). I’m afraid if he keeps it, his sister may get hold of it and show the pictures at school, as she has been teasing him she will do. Any ideas on what to do?

this is quite disturbing and i'm sorry to say but this woman is sick in the head. if i were in your situation, i would call up the mother of Logan, tell her that she is to have all the copies sent to you of your child in the buff, and if not, she will on trial for the sexual nature in them. even though this may not be true, she will not know the truth, and i believe it's is the only way to get them back.

as for your son having memories, i'm sure you won't mind letting him keep the appropriate pictures, which can be scanned and copied into actual pictures from the cd, and you can with hold any of the others that you find inappropriate.


i hope you get this resolved. best wishes

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Okay well i just lost a lot of weght n i look really good,its just that i quess from when i was fat it left strech marks on my hips,and it looks really bad,so i was wondering if there is anyway i can get ride of them or im i stoke with them forever,or can i hide them,well anyway what cani do???

i know that there is a brand of coco butter that helps reduce the redness and increases the amounts of estrogen in you so that your skin doesn't rip as easily. also if you excersise it should take away some of them

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I dont want to have children myself! But I would like to about some when I get married. So I'm going to get my uterus removed. Do you think that my future husband would understand? There is already to much stress to deal with in my life so I really dont think having periods every month or have a crying baby around that needs so much attention even when your at work! So I would like to adopt a 10 or 12 year old so I still have their kid years but not their baby years. I already know what a responsability it is to take care of a kid! My dad left me and my mom while she was pregnat and mom died about 2 years after the baby was born from cancer so we live with our grandparents that are always gone so I take care of my 2 year old brother! So my real question is, do you guys think my husband would understand about all this? Thanks to whoever answers!

i understand were you are coming from but think of it this way...

wouldn't you want to have a child that you could love and adore, and give a proper family and home to?

also, if you are planning to adopt, i know from my mothers job (she translates for adoption agencies) that the majority of people who adopt kids at a late age (over a couple of years) have problems with the kids such as the kids feel they dont belong and so forth.

honestly, why don't you wait until you marry someone who you love, and see what they think then. by that time, your life might have gotten less stressful and your opinions might have changed. you will never find out if your future husband will understand because you don't know if the person that you fall in love with is going to want a family or not.

i hope i helped.
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iv been working on my abdominals since i was little and now whenever i tense then i go light headed and dizzy i cant even keep a sense of reality when it happens anyone have any ideas what it is??

if you have dropped a lot of weight recently your body may not be used to the new change.
also if you are feeling light headed and dizzy, these are symptoms of low blood pressure, meaning you overdid the excersizing.

my advice is don't push yourself too much. don't go over your personal limit. i'm sure you'll still have wonderful abs, just make sure you are doing the excercises in a healthy way.

hope i helped

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does anyone know where to get cheap jeans from abercrombie, pacsun, hollister, american eagle, delias ... etc.

and where can you get cheap hoodies by roxy or surf brands like that?

thanks

along with plato's closet that sells them really cheap, tj max has recently had many brand names especially roxy for 25-50 percent less than the actual stores. you should try it

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Well me and my boyfreind arent talking at them moment well lets start with the basics. Im 14 this is like my 30th boyfreind I swear it just never works out me and him have been dating for 1 year. He wants to go all the way and im not ready for the responslablty of a babie if I get pregant and im jsut not ready so what should I do he said he wanted to dump me but I love him he is the only guy I ever told I loved i mean plenty of guys had said I love you but i didnt say it back.

first of all why would you wanna be with someone who doesn't feel the same way about you? it just makes them unnatractive. wouldn't you rather be with someone who loves you as much as you love him? think about it.

second this guy you're with obviously doesn't respect you so let him get someone else pregnant and have him have a child. don't be the one he knocks up and have to pay for this mistake

third, if he's threatening to break up with you, he's just looking to get some and thats the bottom line. if he loved you, and you said no to having sex, that would be the end of that discussion.

so, either you break up with him and find someone who loves you much more, which i'm sure they will.

or

you stay with him, get dumped or get pregnant.

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15/f
So basically I have this wonderfully amazing boyfriend! I love everything about him, he's just so perfect. But last night I had a dream about another guy. I hate this guy but in the dream I was in love with him. Does this mean I'm cheating? Or that I don't really love my boyfriend as much as I thought???
I'm so confused.

dreams usually have secret meanings. and ofcourse it doesn't mean you are cheating because you can't control your dreams. if you are questioning your love for your boyfriend, it may be time for you to move on. however, you shouldn't base your decisions on a dream but you should base them on your feelings. Without denying anything, think about this kid that you hate and really decide if you hate him. I once new this kid that i really couldn't stand, and i even said to myself one day i would never become friends with this kid, and it turns out he became one of my really good friends that i've turned to like.

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Ok, so i've liked a lot of guys in my life, but I have done NOTHING with any of them does that make me a slut? If I liked so many guys? ...
I mean alot of them i found out are friends w/the guys i used to like and some of them get mad and call me a slut. When I have done nothing with any guy, I'm just the kind of girl who moves on quickly if it doesn't work out between me and a guy, is that wrong?
Some guys ask me sexual questions and i answer but does that make me a slut, when i still haven't done anything with a guy? I've only made out with guys but i have not yet went past that yet. So does that make me a slut? and how do i deal with these guys?

you are definately not a slut. thats for sure. guys usually like a million girls at one time, if not more, and they hate it when a girl likes them and someone else. They like to feel that they are the only ones you like because it boosts their self esteem, and then they get to act cocky/confident.

and it's great that you move on quickly, because there are girls that dwell on one guy, claim they love him, then get heart broken and complain. so dont feel bad, and you're not a slut

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i thought that i was good friends with dani but she urged her best friend to sleep with my boyfriend. then lied to me about it and hangs out with my boyfriend and lies to me about that too. now, i find out that she talks bad about me behind my back to anyone that will listen. i dont even know what to say to these people. how should i handle this? i need to stick up for myself, i have spent WAY to many years being walked on.

obviously i dont think you want to be friends with people like that so you might as well not talk to her. If she decides to confront you, then you can tell her off if you like. HOWEVER!!.... if your boyfriend can't respect the fact that this girl is talking about you behind your back, then you should definately be done with him. if he truly wants to be with you, he'd stick up for you when other people are obnoxious.

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