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someone i "thought" was my friend
i thought that i was good friends with dani but she urged her best friend to sleep with my boyfriend. then lied to me about it and hangs out with my boyfriend and lies to me about that too. now, i find out that she talks bad about me behind my back to anyone that will listen. i dont even know what to say to these people. how should i handle this? i need to stick up for myself, i have spent WAY to many years being walked on.
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obviously i dont think you want to be friends with people like that so you might as well not talk to her. If she decides to confront you, then you can tell her off if you like. HOWEVER!!.... if your boyfriend can't respect the fact that this girl is talking about you behind your back, then you should definately be done with him. if he truly wants to be with you, he'd stick up for you when other people are obnoxious.
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I would simply tell her how you felt about all of it. She might have an explanation, especially if you haven't really talked about it.
If you talk to her and there's no resolution, or continues to treat you with disrespect, then you should avoid her (and any other people who are treating you badly). You shouldn't have to "stick up" for yourself when it comes to friends; you should feel like you can trust them.
If trust isn't there, then why are you?
And, if your "friends" are doing things with your own boyfriend, don't forget that he may be at fault too.
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Well I have gone through the exact same thing so I know how you feel so you should talk to your principal and your parents. And girl stand up fir yourself fight back because if you do that now nothing like that will happen for a while
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um get better friends?
obviously she doesnt like you if shes talking shit about you and if shes hanging out with your boyfriend? hes probably cheating on you.
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